I have this really simple but daft model that I use with me students but they seem to get the drift quite quickly. I draw an outline of Britain, put a point at Bolton (the social, education and evolutionary centre of excellence on the UK) and London (an overpriced hell). That distance is fixed, but then we go differnet routes, and no matter how far we travel (eg via inverness, or norwich etc) the distance from our start point is always the same.
Then I get them to put the reaction they are trying to find on the map - and we use the data they have to make the connections between them. Then we find a route from the start point to the destination - and if we go against the arrow we change the sign and, with the arrow we keep the sign!)
Only takes a few goes ut you'll get it quickly enough
Rob