One night stand Watch

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So from out of nowhere I lose it, the virginity. Two days on, I am feeling really low about it, at the time I was finding the whole thing good banter, but now I am really regretting it, after realising what I had done drunk. I don't have any intention on dating her, as there are other girls I like, so as it stands its a one night stand. I feel really let down with myself because I in effect used her for the experience, as I knew she was really really into me.

Want to try and forget about it, but can't seem too, really wish now I lost it in a relationship, anyone else been in a similar predicament?
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you're a ****. you purposefully used a girl who's into you to lose your virginity?

that's low.

+ I can't believe you're actually more concerned that you didn't lose it in a relationship.
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"Virginity" is over-rated.

Don't worry.
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(Original post by squeak)
you're a ****. you purposefully used a girl who's into you to lose your virginity?

that's low.
Grow up.
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you're a ****. you purposefully used a girl who's into you to lose your virginity?

that's low.
i agree
the only manly (tbh its not even that manly)
thing you can do is apologise to her
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You should apologise to that girl. Unless she used you too (Which might be likely)
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If she enjoyed it then she got something out of it too. It's not using her if she didn't enjoy the experience.

Unless you were leading her on, then you're a ****.
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Anonymous #1
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I was really really drunk. My mate tried to save me, but she pushed him away and said "go away, he is mine tonight". The night was a complete blur....where one thing led to the other.
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(Original post by FiveFiveSix)
Grow up.
ohh sorry I didn't realise the height of maturity was using girls, how immature of me :rolleyes:
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ohh sorry I didn't realise the height of maturity was using girls, how immature of me :rolleyes:
Where did he say he had sex with her to lose his virginity? Post hoc ergo propter hoc etc.
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I feel really sorry for you mate - these things can happen. But at least you're man enough to realise that you've done wrong and regret your actions.

I agree with most of the posters here - the right thing to do would be to apologise to that girl - even if she was using you as well.
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If she enjoyed it then she got something out of it too. It's not using her if she didn't enjoy the experience.

Unless you were leading her on, then you're a ****.
That's the thing right, at the start of the night I had no intention in sleeping with her, actually I told her so many times when she was flirting with me "that she would not pull me", her response "Oh just you watch, I have my ways", next thing I know she was making all the moves, I just reacted as I was really really drunk by this point.
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Where did he say he had sex with her to lose his virginity? Post hoc ergo propter hoc etc.
I feel really let down with myself because I in effect used her for the experience, as I knew she was really really into me.
that's where he said it...
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That's the thing right, at the start of the night I had no intention in sleeping with her, actually I told her so many times when she was flirting with me "that she would not pull me", her response "Oh just you watch, I have my ways", next thing I know she was making all the moves, I just reacted as I was really really drunk by this point.
You're not in the wrong then. She probably used you
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To be honest you couldn't of been that drunk if you still got it up!
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i had a one night stand at my local market..... buy one get 2 free, everything had to go, there were some real bargains to be had, after all, my stall was only open for a night....


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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by squeak)
that's where he said it...
Yeah, well I don't want to date her. Saying that if I was sober and rational I would have not slept with her (even told her she wouldn't pull me), it was only because I was incredibly drunk...it happened.
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To be honest you couldn't of been that drunk if you still got it up!
For some reason I can always get an errection even when drunk (despite the severity of it), always have done so. I was mixing my drinks, downing glasses of wines,shots and beers. (if you want have an idea of how much I was drinking)
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Im fairly sure if this was the other way round far more people would be on the OP's side, with some even going so far as to call it rape.
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To be honest you couldn't of been that drunk if you still got it up!
You'd be surprised under what circumstances a guy can get it up!
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