Do you get underconfident when you don't have a bf/gf?

I haven't been with anyone, not even a kiss, since August, and it's really getting me down. I try not to define myself through my relationships but being single for so long makes me question myself and feel insecure. I wonder whether anyone experiences the same thing or has any tips for avoiding this?

you look like a yorkshire terrier. (no offense intended)

I haven't been with anyone, not even a kiss, since August, and it's really getting me down. I try not to define myself through my relationships but being single for so long makes me question myself and feel insecure. I wonder whether anyone experiences the same thing or has any tips for avoiding this?

you look like a yorkshire terrier. (no offense intended)

you look like a yorkshire terrier. (no offense intended)

no way have you been single that long, ur really good lookin

I don't really feel the same way. Right now, I have no much going on in my life, and I feel so passionate about something else, that I don't crave a relationship.
It's possible to enjoy being single. I enjoy being able to meet people and not have to think about the potential for a relationship in every person I meet. At the moment you'll probably be looking for a relationship at every turn. You're not allowing yourself to take any pleasure from being single at all. You're defining yourself in opposition to what you are not. You feel as if you have to be in a relationship in order to be happy.
There is much happiness to be had in a relationship. Knowing that you have a source of comfort, passion and love that no one else gets to share is a wonderfully secure feeling. But that feeling is quite a luxury. You don't get them very often.
Just look forward to the next one. It'll happen but you're putting yourself under such pressure to find one and the search is becoming more important to you than life at present.
This isn't my best advice. Basically, know that you're attractive, know that it can happen for you, and know that it doesn't need to happen right away. Some things are just worth waiting for, but depreciate in value if you feel that you have to go looking for it.

Man shes gorgeous

Haha I wasn't fishing for compliments by making this thread. And we all put our best pics up on TSR, I'm very regular.

Ohh no, i wasn't implying that you was, i just thought i would say, and i know exactly what your feeling, trust me on that one.

Also, that is the reason i do not have an actual pic of myself lol
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Aww well thanks then.
I guess though, the main thing I start to question, is my personality. Which is odd because I'm very kind and also funny, but I dunno, I start to think that certain things about me turn guys off. Being too talkative, too clumsy, I dunno! I question way too much about myself. Can see a few people feel similarly though from this thread Wish I didn't though, it's a dumb way to feel.