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I like you, you like me, hurry up then!!
man likes a woman, she likes him back, should equal a relationship right?? 
WRONG!!!
why is it when its so obvious when two people fancy eachother, that nothing comes of it? Yet you get wierdos try it all the time, because they think a glance means you think their hot. And then you get stuck with someone you haven't really got anything in common with, only holding you two on for a while, is that you probably fancied him/her in the first place.
okay true say that the person i like is a friend, but hello, everyone can tell we fancy eachother.
Even we both know the other one knows.
Is it because he doesnt want to ruin the friendship?
(made even more awkard, with us being housemates-but, but where both quite open people, and its not like i would want anything heavy)
But how many people can you sit chatting with for over five hours and feel at ease and comfortable with. And with convo running smoothly?
Most of my friends in long term relationships, have been friends first thats why they say their realtionship is so strong. Ive never actually got out with a friend before, would it of been more of an advantage?
or have you found mixing it up with your friends, a disaster? have you remained friends? still close?
my crush is moving out in september, so we'l have the whole summer to have a laugh. should i just not risk it?
the sexual tension is mounting up!!!
its also one of those LOVE/HATE relationships, cos where very different.
sorry i know this thread is all randomly put, but i felt like having a rant, about him being so damn long!!
why does it all have to be so complicated? if you like someone-go for it, its not like your looking for a life-partner, where still young!
WRONG!!!
why is it when its so obvious when two people fancy eachother, that nothing comes of it? Yet you get wierdos try it all the time, because they think a glance means you think their hot. And then you get stuck with someone you haven't really got anything in common with, only holding you two on for a while, is that you probably fancied him/her in the first place.
okay true say that the person i like is a friend, but hello, everyone can tell we fancy eachother.
Even we both know the other one knows. Is it because he doesnt want to ruin the friendship?
(made even more awkard, with us being housemates-but, but where both quite open people, and its not like i would want anything heavy)
But how many people can you sit chatting with for over five hours and feel at ease and comfortable with. And with convo running smoothly?
Most of my friends in long term relationships, have been friends first thats why they say their realtionship is so strong. Ive never actually got out with a friend before, would it of been more of an advantage?
or have you found mixing it up with your friends, a disaster? have you remained friends? still close?
my crush is moving out in september, so we'l have the whole summer to have a laugh. should i just not risk it?
the sexual tension is mounting up!!!
its also one of those LOVE/HATE relationships, cos where very different.
sorry i know this thread is all randomly put, but i felt like having a rant, about him being so damn long!!
why does it all have to be so complicated? if you like someone-go for it, its not like your looking for a life-partner, where still young!
i can understand where the person stalling it is coming from.
with my and my bf, i stalled it for a term and a half, cos i wasn't sure bout having a bf who lived in the same halls as me and was in the same friendship group etc etc
but then he sed something that made me feel like i could lose him so then i knew for sure i wanted to be with him.
maybe that could b lke ure situation, ure guy knows hat ure always gonna b there so is in no hurry, even tho he may not wanna b with ne1 else or fancy ne1 else, let him know that ure not always gonna wait around for him!!
xx
btw me and my bf, we're doin ok, have had some problems, but nothing to do with the fact that we're in the same halls, tho i spose it does get a bit intense that we live together, and basically never leave my room. and also the fact he fancied my best friend while we were going out... gr
with my and my bf, i stalled it for a term and a half, cos i wasn't sure bout having a bf who lived in the same halls as me and was in the same friendship group etc etc
but then he sed something that made me feel like i could lose him so then i knew for sure i wanted to be with him.
maybe that could b lke ure situation, ure guy knows hat ure always gonna b there so is in no hurry, even tho he may not wanna b with ne1 else or fancy ne1 else, let him know that ure not always gonna wait around for him!!
xx
btw me and my bf, we're doin ok, have had some problems, but nothing to do with the fact that we're in the same halls, tho i spose it does get a bit intense that we live together, and basically never leave my room. and also the fact he fancied my best friend while we were going out... gr
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maybe that could b lke ure situation, ure guy knows hat ure always gonna b there so is in no hurry, even tho he may not wanna b with ne1 else or fancy ne1 else, let him know that ure not always gonna wait around for him!!
maybe that could b lke ure situation, ure guy knows hat ure always gonna b there so is in no hurry, even tho he may not wanna b with ne1 else or fancy ne1 else, let him know that ure not always gonna wait around for him!!
but i don't want him to know that i want to further the situation, if you get me? basically i want him to make 1st move, just so i know myself that he seriously likes me. hmm but the whole he could lose me may work, just cos if im ever in a mood with him, he always comes running. maybe i should distance myself, see how that goes
rupz84
man likes a woman, she likes him back, should equal a relationship right??
WRONG!!!
why is it when its so obvious when two people fancy eachother, that nothing comes of it? Yet you get wierdos try it all the time, because they think a glance means you think their hot. And then you get stuck with someone you haven't really got anything in common with, only holding you two on for a while, is that you probably fancied him/her in the first place.
WRONG!!!
why is it when its so obvious when two people fancy eachother, that nothing comes of it? Yet you get wierdos try it all the time, because they think a glance means you think their hot. And then you get stuck with someone you haven't really got anything in common with, only holding you two on for a while, is that you probably fancied him/her in the first place.
How do you manage to get "stuck" with someone you don't like?
I've been there in recent months - it's tricky. People stall for many reasons:
Not being sure about their crushes feelings
not being sure about their own feelings
not being sure if it will ruin the friendship
being afraid of relationships
I wouldnt worry too much - tension is good fun if a little agonising at the same time. I had a similar thing with a friend of mine, thought he fancied me, well, it turned out he's just a very charming and flirty person, and didnt actually want to date me but wanted to flirt with me. It's so hard to read anyone elses intentions. But an honest talk, however scary, might be the mature option,
Not being sure about their crushes feelings
not being sure about their own feelings
not being sure if it will ruin the friendship
being afraid of relationships
I wouldnt worry too much - tension is good fun if a little agonising at the same time. I had a similar thing with a friend of mine, thought he fancied me, well, it turned out he's just a very charming and flirty person, and didnt actually want to date me but wanted to flirt with me. It's so hard to read anyone elses intentions. But an honest talk, however scary, might be the mature option,
SamTheMan
How do you manage to get "stuck" with someone you don't like?
well not quite stuck, but if its someone you don't know then your dating for a while right. Then you realise that you may actually have nowt in common, and then on to the next. Whereas if someone you know more likely to have more in common
rupz84
well not quite stuck, but if its someone you don't know then your dating for a while right. Then you realise that you may actually have nowt in common, and then on to the next. Whereas if someone you know more likely to have more in common
That's why some people prefer to get to know someone before going out with them! It's not up to the guy to call all the shots. If you feel like getting to know someone before you commit, then do so.
queenselphie
I wouldnt worry too much - tension is good fun if a little agonising at the same time. I had a similar thing with a friend of mine, thought he fancied me, well, it turned out he's just a very charming and flirty person, and didnt actually want to date me but wanted to flirt with me. It's so hard to read anyone elses intentions. But an honest talk, however scary, might be the mature option,
I wouldnt worry too much - tension is good fun if a little agonising at the same time. I had a similar thing with a friend of mine, thought he fancied me, well, it turned out he's just a very charming and flirty person, and didnt actually want to date me but wanted to flirt with me. It's so hard to read anyone elses intentions. But an honest talk, however scary, might be the mature option,
tension is at boiling point! i wonder aswell if he just likes flirting with me aswell, he knows a few of my friends (they were mates 1st) yet he does it more with me. things like that make me unsure. yeah i no i'l have to have a chat, onlt thing im worried about that i'l let my pride get in the way if he doesnt feel the same, and just let him go altogether
SamTheMan
That's why some people prefer to get to know someone before going out with them! It's not up to the guy to call all the shots. If you feel like getting to know someone before you commit, then do so.
i was just sayin! yeah but i like them to. well thats usually with friends aint it. don;t worry i let them lose striaght away if doesnt work out
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