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Meeting girls from Gumtree?

I need to lose my virginity ASAP, I'm decent looking but have no social skills at all, and I'm useless around girls. I've been to clubs and do get female attention sometimes, but never know how to show I'm interested or take the next step.

I've been considering replying to one of the 'Casual relationships' ads on Gumtree. I have some reservations though; are most of the girls on there likely to be people just like me, or do you think they might be a bit weird?

Does anyone have any general advice on the issue?

Reply 1

why do you need to loose your virginity asap?

Reply 2

I don't see why you are in such a rush to have sex?

But yeah, if you are sure you want to do this be careful, meet in a public place, have safe sex etc.

Reply 3

I think a majority of them may well be males pretending mate :wink:

Reply 4

flexo
why do you need to loose your virginity asap?


I am 20 in a couple of months.

If I wait much longer, I'll need Viagra to lose it.

Reply 5

Don't do it!

Reply 6

There's much more to life than sex.

Reply 7

don't you just want to wait until you meet the right girl? or, maybe you need to think about why it hasn't happened. maybe its because of life situations and the right time hasn't come or you have pushed away opportunities because you feel as though you have no social skills...if it is coz you dont have social skills, then try and work on that :smile:

Reply 8

its not that big a deal, why is everyone going crazy about this today?

Why dont you meet a nice decent girl, and then when its right to loose it all will be good.

Reply 9

Anonymous
I need to lose my virginity ASAP, I'm decent looking but have no social skills at all, and I'm useless around girls. I've been to clubs and do get female attention sometimes, but never know how to show I'm interested or take the next step.

I've been considering replying to one of the 'Casual relationships' ads on Gumtree. I have some reservations though; are most of the girls on there likely to be people just like me, or do you think they might be a bit weird?

Does anyone have any general advice on the issue?


STDs :yep:

Reply 10

Most of the casual sex ads on gumtree are probabily fake anyway. Go to a club or something and get really pissed, and take home a girl who is really pissed and then the fun begins there..

Reply 11

Don't go there, seriously, you'll have an awesome sex life when you meet the right person.

Reply 12

you really think there are attractive women who would want a casual relationship on gumtree?

LOL.

Reply 13

TheLouisVuittonDon
you really think there are attractive women who would want a casual relationship on gumtree?

LOL.


It's not completely unfeasible. They might not be in a majority, but there are plenty of women who want casual relationships, or no strings attached sex, and that's quite hard to get sometimes with people you actually know. Attractiveness doesn't come into it.

Reply 14

Enjoy your depressing desperate sex.

Reply 15

Where are you from

Reply 16

Original post
by Richard1975
Where are you from


This thread was made 9 years ago, and hasn't been commented on for 8 years. Why on earth would you revive it now?

Please check thread dates before you post!

Reply 17

Original post
by Richard1975
Where are you from


Well done on reviving a 9 year old post :facepalm:

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