losing feelings for girlfriend

hi, ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and were in a long distance relationship, around hour and half to 2 hours away from each other, we see each other every weekend really.

recently though, say the last couple of months, i feel we have grown apart loads and seem 2 argue over really silly things and i no longer feel as strongly as i did towards here.

There are also two girls from my school ive grown very close to and spend quite a lot of tme with, this could be playing a role in me losing feelings for my girlfriend though im not sure.

im just looking as advice as to what you think i should do? break up with her? im guessing some of you will say try for a few months and seehow it goes and i guess i will do that, however we have a holiday booked in summer, me going with her family, and although she has said her friend would willingly go, i cant leave it too late if i were to change my mind. im also not sure how time is going to help this.

if i were to break up with her is there any advice as to how i should og about this

thanks

Reply 1

Jazmine

Discuss the issue with your girlfriend, sit down together and think of ways in which you can both improve your relationship - to stop arguing more, etc. Perhaps spend more quality time, spice up the time you see each other - for example, go out to a restaurant instead of sitting in all day when you see each other if that's what happens. Get her to be more aware, I'm sure she'd want to know and make things better - if there's a chance of that.

Try and see if you can solve what's bothering you first, but if it's not working.. then break up with her. I don't know how, just say you think it's time to end the relationship and give the reasons why? I've never broken up with anyone before though =P

Reply 2

fideo94

I ve grown to hate breakups now.
You might say you're losing your feelings for her now, but if you end up going into another relationship, you will definately end up losing feelings also for the latter..

But what matters is your happiness @ the end of the day...I guess.

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