Best friend

My best friend and I were friends for a year or so and than we got in a big fight(another long story)and we didn't talk for 3 months. Well over that time she became good friends with this girl who has never really liked me. Me and Brittney(best friend) talked and now we are friends again and Kari(the girl who really doesn't like me)is really mad about it and she said that she doesn't think that she could be friends with me because I go out with an ex-boyfriend of hers from a long time ago. And she just doesn't like me. Well I told Brittney that I was willing to try to be friends with Kari and kari doesn't really want to try to make it work. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?
Kari told people that she was just gonna try not to talk to Brittney and when she saw us takin she would just walk away. I told Brittney that I think that Kari is gonna get really mad and eventually start hating her for us being friends agin well Brittney told me not to worry about and that she doesn't really care and that Kari can get over it. WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK I SHOULD DO?

Reply 1

amo1

14

...reading through and....BANG im confused, but id say tell the truth cause itll just catch u out l8r

Reply 2

musicbloke

17

kari will get over it. If she doesn't then she's not the sort of person you want as a friend anyway. If Britney chooses Kari over you then the same applies to her. What about all your other friends from the 3 months?

MB

Reply 3

queenselphie

Kari is definately being unreasonable and trying to put your friend in an ulitmatum situation - if she can lay on enough emotional blackmail ("its ok...sniff. sob...I'll just...walk off and be lonely if I see you together...sniff") she thinks your friend will bow to her will and get rid of you. Such people are manipulative and not worth the worry. If your friend is a good friend she will stick by you :smile:

Reply 4

platinumki

10

Really, this is Brittney's problem - her best friends dislike each other. Three's a crowd - someone always feels left out. All you two have to do is get along. A person's friends don't have to love each other, there is no reason why a person can't have one set of friends and another set completely separate.

MB is completely right - I always reckon that the kind of person who can't appreciate me is not the kind of person I want to appreciate me.

Reply 5

babybrittie07

OP

Thanks all yall but Im still not sure what I should do, if I should just wait until Kari either gets over it or she starts hating the two of us for it, Brittney told me not to worry about Kari and that she will just have to get over it.

Reply 6

Mean Mr. Mustard

babybrittie07

Thanks all yall but Im still not sure what I should do, if I should just wait until Kari either gets over it or she starts hating the two of us for it, Brittney told me not to worry about Kari and that she will just have to get over it.

hehe...'yall'

Reply 7

Cheeky_Lickle_H

yeah more than often that not people like that either move on or get over it. so dont worry abwt u because it isnt u r problem

Reply 8

Monii

1

well i was in a kinda similar situation - i had two best friends (us three are nearly always together) and one more very good friend.. and they didn't like each other (i mean that two best friends didn't like that other girl and vice versa)...but noone was threating me or trying to prevent me from talking to the other person (imo doing this is extremely childish!)...today this situation seems has probably been sorted out but that isn't really connected to this topic :smile:

Reply 9

musicbloke

17

Monii

well i was in a kinda similar situation - i had two best friends (us three are nearly always together) and one more very good friend.. and they didn't like each other (i mean that two best friends didn't like that other girl and vice versa)...but noone was threating me or trying to prevent me from talking to the other person (imo doing this is extremely childish!)...today this situation seems has probably been sorted out but that isn't really connected to this topic :smile:

what is with all the ellipses?

MB

Reply 10

flipflop2

Girls are so picky about their friends lol. I mean after school they get all emotional and hug eachother and stuff :confused:

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Anyways. Forget Kari, If she wants to be a pain then let her be that way. Britney should soon find out what shes like. Don't let her ruin your friendship with Britney.

Kari's the evil 1 :evil:

Reply 11

babybrittie07

OP

Me and Kari started talking to each other at lunch and I wrote her telling her that I wanted to be friends and I told Brittney and she seemed to get mad about it. She was like why did you write her a note and I told her that I just told Kari that I wanted to be friends and she was like well I hope yall don't leave me out and walked off.

Reply 12

Monii

1

musicboy

what is with all the ellipses?

MB

what? you have something against them?

Reply 13

flipflop2

Ignore Kari becoz shes the one whos making the trouble, and this whole thing is starting to piss Britney off. If she doesnt wana make the effort then nor should you. It'll only worry you.

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