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apologizing

I stupidly called a girl (not my girlfriend) a bit ditzy. I really didn't mean it in a nasty way - meant 'chirpy' really, but she seemed a little upset by it, so i think I should do something to make it up to her. I probs wont see her for a while so something I can do over msn would be good. Any suggestions?

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Reply 1
Tell her to stop being such a bloody baby. I'm sure she'll love that.
Reply 2
imasillynarb
Tell her to stop being such a bloody baby. I'm sure she'll love that.


lol

All girls are like that.
Reply 3
Ditzy's a compliment to most I thought
Reply 4
send her a picture of a dancing banana...that always cheers me up. http://bobland.fireball20xl.com/sprites/bananna.gif
Reply 5
i like being called ditzy, as people then usually go on to quote all my elliot like similarities. :smile:

if however you did offend her....like some short people get offended when you say heylo shortie.....(been there done that got the tshirt) then the best way to apologise is to:

1. Mean it - phoney apologys dont wash
2. Just say your sorry - as a girl i hate when you get the million excuses after the apology "im sorry but i mean i had to do such and such" or in your case "im sorry but i didnt know it would offend you blah blah". In my veiw if you mean sorry say Sorry dont give a million excuses they just detract from the point.

in short a simple call and a im sorry i offended you should clear the air.
Reply 6
thanks for the advice. I really am sorry i upset her so first one shouldn't be a problem. Ill try and work the dancing bananas in there somewhere too :tongue:
Reply 7
the dancing bananas do look quite cheerful
Reply 8
dancing banana all the way.
Reply 9
not one of these though:
Reply 10
visesh
not one of these though:

lol.........

where the hell did you find such a banana?
Reply 11
M-J
lol.........

where the hell did you find such a banana?

In the sub forum somewhere:biggrin:
i suggest you get a grip mate and realise that you might not like her, if she starts to cry tell her to sort her life out or giv her a back hander.
Reply 13
visesh
In the sub forum somewhere:biggrin:

i must go on a search now :biggrin:
ahhh subness rocks. But even a banana like that would cheer a crap apology up
Reply 14
durhamlad1
i suggest you get a grip mate and realise that you might not like her, if she starts to cry tell her to sort her life out or giv her a back hander.


He's already stated he does like her. Plus if someone tried to back hand me I'd block and then break their ****ing arm
Reply 15
kateington
He's already stated he does like her. Plus if someone tried to back hand me I'd block and then break their ****ing arm



lol nice one :rofl:
where in the opening sentence does he state he likes her? he should just use the banana i know if was a girl i would be delighted.
yes but with a banana he will become redundant
Reply 18
musicboy
yes but with a banana he will become redundant

Not if it's over-ripe:smile:
Mickey Mouse
I stupidly called a girl (not my girlfriend) a bit ditzy. I really didn't mean it in a nasty way - meant 'chirpy' really, but she seemed a little upset by it, so i think I should do something to make it up to her. I probs wont see her for a while so something I can do over msn would be good. Any suggestions?


So you didn't call Minney ditzy?? who was it then?? Cinderella?..cause, lets be honest here...she was a bit of a ditz..you meet a guy one night and all he does is return ur shoe and u suddenly want to marry him?? shes disney's answer to Jessica Simpson.