do u play games??

lessthanthree

What's even DUMBER is leaving it x amount of days to call back, when you're out of your mind with wanting to call back because you don't want to "look interested" - uh, you ARE interested, otherwise you wouldn't have to keep stopping yourself every ten minutes.
[ooh, look! a mini rant!]

WE do it becuase it does not make us look too keen. Guys in general, do not want to be percieved as too keen/desperite. It is not good. Besides, from experience all girls prefer to play the game as it gives them a challenge on getting a guy who is "hard to get".

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Mean Mr. Mustard

meh, games are stupid...i've made a point of never bothering with games/never bothering with people who play games...and i've got a wonderful girlfriend who i love. so yeah, games bad.

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username18215

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my bloody ex told me to start playing hard to get (before we were going out) i got pissed off didnt speak to her for a while, thus inadvertenly playing the game; they just mess with your heads.

As has been said; if you like/love/are interested fecking say so!

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md_red_uk

my bloody ex told me to start playing hard to get (before we were going out) i got pissed off didnt speak to her for a while, thus inadvertenly playing the game; they just mess with your heads.

As has been said; if you like/love/are interested fecking say so!

Yes.........................................................I think women like to abuse the fact that they can use their sexuality to control men! :rolleyes:

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lessthanthree

well, you've experienced some pretty sucky girls then, because I don't like playing games.

If I am interested and I'm in a situation where I can get things moving, I'm not going to sit and wait three days because it's the "rules"

If a guy liked me, and I knew he had my number and was going to call, I'd go through "three days" of worrying whether he's going to call/whether he lied/whether I wasn't good enough. Why bother.

Yeah your right, I have experienced some "sucky" girls. I am glad that you are not like them. I've just found that with girls (many of my male mates share the same view), the more nicer you are with them, the more they tend to take you as a person for granted. Again, thats probably because of the girls I have/they have met. Hence, the reason why you find that many girls are attracted to guys with some attitude.

I am exactly like you, if a girl says that she is going to call or whatever, I go through the same anxiety as you. I am going through that same anxiety right now at the moment. :frown:

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Helenia

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DOJO

WE do it becuase it does not make us look too keen. Guys in general, do not want to be percieved as too keen/desperite. It is not good. Besides, from experience all girls prefer to play the game as it gives them a challenge on getting a guy who is "hard to get".

Generally, I quite like to know if a guy likes me. From past experience, I assume that if they act uninterested, they ARE uninterested, and therefore move on accordingly. Being stalkily obsessive and being interested and letting us know are different levels.

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Feefifofum

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Don't tend to play games, you miss half the fun of the relationship if you're still wokring out what the other person is thinking!

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lessthanthree

don't - they're probably just as anxious as you because they're following "the rules" :p:

Yeah your right, I have more important things in my life at the moment to attend to (like working my way into university) - then to get all anxious over a phone call lol :smile:

But I really like her!

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Helenia

Generally, I quite like to know if a guy likes me. From past experience, I assume that if they act uninterested, they ARE uninterested, and therefore move on accordingly. Being stalkily obsessive and being interested and letting us know are different levels.

Yeah, it would be ideal if people just acted a set way. However it is annoying, when one minuite someone acts uninterested, then the next acts interested :frown:

Ohh the mixed messages are horrid...

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Wings_cp

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DOJO

Yeah, it would be ideal if people just acted a set way. However it is annoying, when one minuite someone acts uninterested, then the next acts interested :frown:

Ohh the mixed messages are horrid...

Indeed. Which is why I vow to stay clear of anything which does not have a Y chromosome.

I think Girls dont intend to.. but they WILL all eventually turn the boys into feeling like cr.ap :eek:

I wish i was one of those boys who just didnt care. Its not so i can act cool and uninterested, its so WHEN it turns horribly wrong.. I just WOULDNT care.

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Mad Vlad

but its cruel :frown:

sounds lik a bitch type :mad:

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DOJO

Yeah, it would be ideal if people just acted a set way. However it is annoying, when one minuite someone acts uninterested, then the next acts interested :frown:

Ohh the mixed messages are horrid...

the reson there mixed messages, is cos they might fancy u then come onto u then think u don like them/don wana seem desperate so they act uninterested. and then there's the hoo s who just do it to lead u on but they act uninterested cos already have a bf

whin i lik someone i never let on and act generally uninterested all the time. this is whuy im boring

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Eru Iluvatar

magiccarpet

sounds lik a bitch type :mad:

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Trigger

magiccarpet

sounds lik a bitch type :mad:

what would you know?

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Trigger

magiccarpet

the reson there mixed messages, is cos they might fancy u then come onto u then think u don like them/don wana seem desperate so they act uninterested. and then there's the hoo s who just do it to lead u on but they act uninterested cos already have a bf

whin i lik someone i never let on and act generally uninterested all the time. this is whuy im boring

ie playing game *cough* hypocrite

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trigger

ie playing game *cough* hypocrite

no i dont play any games. if the person i like approach me, then i know they lik me and i freely let them know i lik them. i dont just lead them on for the sheer sake of it thats just mean and sadistic and unkind

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Trigger

magiccarpet

no i dont play any games. if the person i like approach me, then i know they lik me and i freely let them know i lik them. i dont just lead them on for the sheer sake of it thats just mean and sadistic and unkind

who said i liked anyone?

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Eru Iluvatar

magiccarpet

no i dont play any games. if the person i like approach me, then i know they lik me and i freely let them know i lik them. i dont just lead them on for the sheer sake of it thats just mean and sadistic and unkind

Do you mean lick or like?

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