What was she thinking?

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Reply 1

Oh I'm sure you deserve much better than someone who can do that.

A spur-of-the-moment thing is bad, in fact it's very bad but it may even be forgivable. But to consciously do something like that for quite some time, something she knew would hurt you, is very insensitive and taking it to a whole new level. And then on top of that to cry about it as though she didn't know how it happened. :rolleyes:

How can she do what she wants and then when SHE decides that she doesn't want to continue, say sorry? Best of both worlds for her, but surely it leaves you messed around?

Also, there's the whole idea that she wasn't honest with you even when this guy had tried things before. To not tell you is kind of implying she had loads to hide and wanted to make something of the situation without you being involved.

Reply 2

Ghost

I just dont know how someone could intentionally hurt someone like that.. and most of all, I just dont know how SHE could..

Reply 3

Adhsur

lessthanthree

I used to be the type of person that'd say "OMFG DUMP HER -CHEATER, RAAAR"
Lol, I probably still am!

Reply 4

Ghost

I'm just off the phone to her again. She said that she feels unbearably guilty about it all, and that when she looks back on it, she wonders what the hell she was thinking. Apparently the second time he kissed her, she immediately left.. I guess I can give her credit for that. She also said that she she is extremely disappointed with herself.

I have decided that I am going to give her another chance... she has told me that she'll never let herself get into a position like that again. I've told her that if I even see her with him again, I'll force myself to end it on the spot.

I really hope I'm making the right decision, I dont want to be hurt like this ever again.. and I wouldn't wish this pain upon anyone.

Thanks for your words of advice all.

Reply 5

frost105

Hope it goes well for you 2. Its tough to get the trust back but if your both willing to try and get past it then hopefully you'll be ok. Keeps us posted x