The Student Room Group
Reply 1
Its normal for some girls to bleed their second and maybe even third times. I know i did. And especially if she is younger, as i was told by Lessthanthree.
Reply 2
Emma05
My friend is 15 and she has a boyfriend of the same age she is in year 11 and he is in year 10 and she had sex with hm two weeks ago it was her first time so she started bleeding which is only natural the first you have sex she had sex again last night and started bleeding again is this natral because I only bleed one my first time and after that I was fine ? has anyone elese been though the same?

Maybe when they had sex the first time the hyman was not fully torn, so the second time they had sex it was torn completely, making her bleed once again.

(PS, please learn how to punctuate, it was annoying have to read your post.)
Reply 3
Sorry if it was hard to read my posts
Reply 4
wiwarin_mir
Maybe when they had sex the first time the hyman was not fully torn, so the second time they had sex it was torn completely, making her blled once again.

(PS, please learn how to punctuate, it was annoying have to read your post.)


Perhaps you could learn how to spell 'bleed' then? :rolleyes:
steerpike1985
Perhaps you could learn how to spell 'bleed' then? :rolleyes:


That was clearly a typo. Grow up.

MB
Reply 6
musicboy
That was clearly a typo. Grow up.

MB

Yes...as was "it was annoying have to read your post". :rolleyes:
Reply 7
need_money
Yes...as was "it was annoying have to read your post". :rolleyes:


My point exactly!
lessthanthree
oh shut up; it's hardly the issue at hand, is it.



Well I'm glad someone said it!
is that true that the younger u are the more you bleed??i never knew that!

about ur frind, i have heard people say they do bleed a few tie i think in another thread need_money or that other one forget the name, said they had a similar thing.maybe he didn break all of it the first time?use KY Jelly
Reply 10
lessthanthree
well, she's probably just not lubed up enough if she's continuing to tear. It'll probably be the first shot at and then the remenants of her hymen. It's usually broken before sex, through sport/tampons, but I suppose hers got away ^_^

Make sure she knows that when she's having sex, she ought to be quite relaxed and "warmed up" through foreplay - then it's not so much a case of friction/being too tight that could cause any tears here and there.

If this continues to happen [this bleeding after sex] after a few times, then she ought to see a doctor, because it can be a symptom of something less than savoury down there.

and make sure they're using condoms - blood's never a thing that ought to be transferred over, just in case.


I really feel sorry for you women. First you have to go through the pain of that, then the pain of going through periods, and then childbirth...Aren't I lucky :biggrin:
Reply 11
I bled the first 2 or 3 times, less each time. I think it's because you are still sore and torn inside, to put it really unsexily it's like you are aggravating an old wound, although being stretched further is a part of it as well.
Reply 12
magiccarpet
is that true that the younger u are the more you bleed??i never knew that!

about ur frind, i have heard people say they do bleed a few tie i think in another thread need_money or that other one forget the name, said they had a similar thing.maybe he didn break all of it the first time?use KY Jelly


Not necessarily, but the younger you are, the less likely you are to be physically ready (i.e. fully developed), the less likely you are to have torn your hymen by other means, and the less likely you are to be mentally ready, hence you'll be tense and it will be more likely to hurt.
Reply 13
This was on sunday night surgery on radio 1, basically if its your first few times then theres nothing to worry about, if it happens after that its likely some damage has been done inside and you should see a doctor who can patch it all up!