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Girly question!!

hey i have got told to make a new thread because i am a new member so i did! and here it is! :smile: i want to ask to all the girls out there. if you ask your boyfriend if he fancys going on holiday with you. he says yes at first. then he makes the excuse that his mates has asked him if he wants to go on holiday with him as well. i don't know how to take it. :confused: he has treated me like *****!!! :eek: i am really annoyed with him, what do you think i should do? :confused:
trudy :redface:
xx

Reply 1

how serious is the relationship?

and what is his reasoing for changing his mind?

Reply 2

awwww :frown:
post this on the 'health and relationship' section..you'll get more help there!

Reply 3

or slap him!

Reply 4

trudz evz
he has treated me like *****!!! :eek: xx


why are you still with him?

MB

Reply 5

Hey I am a guy, but its basically like him saying this (and i dont mean for this to sound horrible - point this out to him:

"I like you but my matescome first and are better". He's got the wrong attitude and might think your 2nd best to his mates. Ask if he had to pick between either his mates or yourself and things should come clear.

Though, try and ask him why his gf (you) cant still go with everyone - are you an 'embarasment' to him? Ifnot - then why cant you go.Keep asking questions like this and he will crack - trust me. Im a guy!

Reply 6

Anubis
Hey I am a guy, but its basically like him saying this (and i dont mean for this to sound horrible - point this out to him:

"I like you but my matescome first and are better". He's got the wrong attitude and might think your 2nd best to his mates. Ask if he had to pick between either his mates or yourself and things should come clear.

Though, try and ask him why his gf (you) cant still go with everyone - are you an 'embarasment' to him? Ifnot - then why cant you go.Keep asking questions like this and he will crack - trust me. Im a guy!


and what if he says that you are second best to his mates?

MB

Reply 7

Anubis
Hey I am a guy, but its basically like him saying this (and i dont mean for this to sound horrible - point this out to him:

"I like you but my matescome first and are better". He's got the wrong attitude and might think your 2nd best to his mates. Ask if he had to pick between either his mates or yourself and things should come clear.

Though, try and ask him why his gf (you) cant still go with everyone - are you an 'embarasment' to him? Ifnot - then why cant you go.Keep asking questions like this and he will crack - trust me. Im a guy!


I think you've gone over the top. You don't know him, or the situation, and putting this idea into her head when it may not be the case at all, is not helpful in the least.

Reply 8

Would help with a bit more information tbh!!! Not tryin to put ideas in her head. I have no idea how old she is or how long they have been going out. the response i gave was in respect to an adult relationship.

Reply 9

i think that it is a strong and serious realtionship because i have been going out with him for 2 years now and he's 19 this year n i am 18 this year! we've been on holiday before but hes made the excuse that his mates had arranged this in January and he didnt want to tell me! :mad:

Reply 10

Maybe he realised how much of a big step holidaying together was, or maybe he's the "typical" male and just wants some fun with his mates....

I dunno...confront him about it if you're really upset, otherwise let it pass; boys will be boys

Reply 11

Anubis
Hey I am a guy, but its basically like him saying this (and i dont mean for this to sound horrible - point this out to him:

"I like you but my matescome first and are better". He's got the wrong attitude and might think your 2nd best to his mates. Ask if he had to pick between either his mates or yourself and things should come clear.

Though, try and ask him why his gf (you) cant still go with everyone - are you an 'embarasment' to him? Ifnot - then why cant you go.Keep asking questions like this and he will crack - trust me. Im a guy!


He won't crack, he'll leave!!