Tried having sex but it wouldn't fit in.

Watch
Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 11 years ago
#1
I tried having sex a while ago but the guys penis wouldnt fit in. I don't know why, its not normal at all. And there was lots of foreplay involved, so it wasnt because I wasn't 'excited' enough. And I always use tampons.
0
reply
hannah_dru
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#2
Report 11 years ago
#2
As everyone always says, lube and try to relax. It sounds like your muscles tensed up. It's completely normal.
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#3
Report Thread starter 11 years ago
#3
And this was my first time, didnt say that in first post. And also when I mastubate, I just cant imagine a penis fitting in there. =/
0
reply
hannah_dru
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#4
Report 11 years ago
#4
It happened to me the first time I tried. Seriously it can fit. If a baby can come out of it then a penis can fit!
0
reply
emmarainbow
Badges: 12
Rep:
?
#5
Report 11 years ago
#5
Maybe next time you masturbate, try a stretch yourself a little? If you keep doing that your vagina'll get used to the idea of letting something as large as a penis in. You can even get a partner to give you a hand with that one.
0
reply
sheepy18
Badges: 8
Rep:
?
#6
Report 11 years ago
#6
a few weeks before me and my boyfriend had sex, he started fingering me and gradually added an extra fingrer, by the time it got to having sex i was used to 3fingers, its a good way to prepare your body : ) gd luck with it, you'll get there!
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#7
Report 11 years ago
#7
lol i had the same thing and made him get off me, sex drive totally dipped at that moment, it was my 'first time' although i guess it doesnt rele count haha
was incredibly awkward and after tht, im quite scared about doing it agian tbh lol, dw you're not the only one
0
reply
Anonymous #3
#8
Report 11 years ago
#8
lucky guy
0
reply
Anonymous #4
#9
Report 11 years ago
#9
(Original post by Anonymous)
I tried having sex a while ago but the guys penis wouldnt fit in. I don't know why, its not normal at all. And there was lots of foreplay involved, so it wasnt because I wasn't 'excited' enough. And I always use tampons.
I have exactly the same problem and for my "first time" too. But it doesnt count really...not to me.
Yeh he also tried to finger me with 2 fingers instead of 1 and that REALLY hurt!
1
reply
Cocoa
Badges: 12
Rep:
?
#10
Report 11 years ago
#10
check out some books like the kama sutra they often discuss positions for various circumstances
the kama sutra divides men and women into three categories (for girth of the penis and depth of the vagina) and most books will suggest various positions for maximum pleasure depending on where you class your umm...combination?
0
reply
Banksy6789
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#11
Report 2 years ago
#11
Should I go to uni, I have only gcse qualification I dropped out of a levels and been working since high school. Would they allow me to enter a course in uni?
0
reply
Amy06
Badges: 10
Rep:
?
#12
Report 2 years ago
#12
This should really be in a different Forum banksy I recommend making a post in university and university courses
0
reply
ghjkiuy
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#13
Report 1 year ago
#13
you do realise you're replying to someone asking for sexual advice not about college and it depends what uni you really should research the qualifications for the options you have
(Original post by Banksy6789)
Should I go to uni, I have only gcse qualification I dropped out of a levels and been working since high school. Would they allow me to enter a course in uni?
0
reply
Sd357
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#14
Report 1 year ago
#14
The first time I had sex his penis wouldn’t go all the way in and it hurt like hell and there was a lot of blood. And up until that point I had been turned on. He wouldn’t stop though when I asked him to and it felt like he was raping me. Afterwards he joked about all the blood while cleaning himself and I just sat huddled. When I txted him and said I didn’t want to have sex anymore he broke up with me. Over txt. I tried having a Pap smear but couldn’t go through with it. When she went to insert the stuff in my vagina it hurt like hell again and I begged her to stop. I don’t have any STDS or anything like they thought I might have bc of the pain, but it’s not normal. My older sis got in my head when she told me when I was 13 and she was in college that sex hurt. I ****ing believed her and now I can’t have a normal relationship
0
reply
garnetznstonez
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#15
Report 1 year ago
#15
What he did was really messed up- he obviously didn't respect you enough what an idiot. It's normal for it to hurt afterwards, especially with how bad your time was, you must just have really negative thoughts about it now. Just get to know yourself better- do it at your own pace. And just find someone you trust and are comfortable with- someone you know wouldn't be a **** about it
(Original post by Sd357)
The first time I had sex his penis wouldn’t go all the way in and it hurt like hell and there was a lot of blood. And up until that point I had been turned on. He wouldn’t stop though when I asked him to and it felt like he was raping me. Afterwards he joked about all the blood while cleaning himself and I just sat huddled. When I txted him and said I didn’t want to have sex anymore he broke up with me. Over txt. I tried having a Pap smear but couldn’t go through with it. When she went to insert the stuff in my vagina it hurt like hell again and I begged her to stop. I don’t have any STDS or anything like they thought I might have bc of the pain, but it’s not normal. My older sis got in my head when she told me when I was 13 and she was in college that sex hurt. I ****ing believed her and now I can’t have a normal relationship
0
reply
Mellowhollow
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#16
Report 1 month ago
#16
Me and my boyfriend is trying to have sex for two months now but still wouldn't go in. I hate sex, it hurts like hell. I wish he could put his penis in while I'm asleep. I'm afraid that he will stop trying because we are trying so much and still can't have sex. I honestly want to make him feel good with sex but the only thing I can do is give him a blow job. I don't know when his penis will fit inside me.
0
reply
Apachecow
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#17
Report 1 month ago
#17
(Original post by Mellowhollow)
Me and my boyfriend is trying to have sex for two months now but still wouldn't go in. I hate sex, it hurts like hell. I wish he could put his penis in while I'm asleep. I'm afraid that he will stop trying because we are trying so much and still can't have sex. I honestly want to make him feel good with sex but the only thing I can do is give him a blow job. I don't know when his penis will fit inside me.
If it's been going on that long then I suggest you see a doctor. Have you heard of vaginismus?
0
reply
squishybear22
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#18
Report 1 week ago
#18
me and my bf have tried to have sex 3 times now and it just won’t fit. he can fit two fingers and he finally fit three today but it hurt a little not so much but it did. there’s no problem with lubrication and we’ve tried different ways to put it in like me on top but it just won’t fit. any advice?
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Following the government's announcement, do you think you will be awarded a fair grade this year?

Yes (527)
51.31%
No (500)
48.69%

Watched Threads

View All
Latest
My Feed