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I know people will probably just say something on the lines of 'he will just be so glad that he's in bed with you in the first place that he won't care what you look like down there' etc but guys obviously have a preference when it comes to girls' private parts and there's quite a lot of hype in the media about 'designer vaginas' etc. This has obviously been worsened by the increased availiblity of porn and pictures of girls who look perfect down there, i.e. no inner labia showing and perfectly waxed and smooth etc and I'm a bit worried that lots of guys (especially inexperienced ones) will look at these images and assume that all girls look like this and be disappointed when its not so perfect.

So guys, would you ever be put off by what a girl looked like down there, if so what would put you off?
And do you agree with surgery to make it neater and trimmer down there?
Also, if you found out that someone had had surgery down there, would it put you off them a bit, even if it looked better? or discourage a girl who wanted it done?
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I'm interested to hear the answer to this one... I reckon that most guys will say they don't care and probably don't notice. To be fair unless you're pretty close and in a relationship the chances of someone staring right at you in full daylight are kinda slim for at least a while anyway, I've been with my bf a couple of years and he's never tried to get a proper look unless he's down there on business anyway lol.
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I'm interested to hear the answer to this one... I reckon that most guys will say they don't care and probably don't notice. To be fair unless you're pretty close and in a relationship the chances of someone staring right at you in full daylight are kinda slim for at least a while anyway, I've been with my bf a couple of years and he's never tried to get a proper look unless he's down there on business anyway lol.
That's the thing though, with some things that are pretty obvious like sticking out/big inner labia the guy will almost definitely see/feel it when giving oral.
Is this a turn on/turn off?
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That's the thing though, with some things that are pretty obvious like sticking out/big inner labia the guy will almost definitely see/feel it when giving oral.
Is this a turn on/turn off?
For me, at least, that's a turn on. But that's not to say without is really any less of a turn on. I have to say I've never come across anything I would call a turn off - seriously, for a lot of guys a wide range of looks / feels are attractive. I don't know why girls / women worry so much about how they are down there - guys really in general don't mind (at least from my discussions with friends), and yes it is as shallow as they will be happy enough to be down there to love whatever they find, but even if they take being down there for granted, trust me, they'll be very happy whatever!
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You mean beef curtains? I honestly could not give a ****. Variety is the spice of life.
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wow I was expecting a thread related to pubic hair maintenance or something

to me surgery on my bits : I wouldn't do it, it seems crazy and no one sees it except your partner with whom it shouldn't matter...
I mean I guess if you were interested in becoming a pornstar maybe then but otherwise no way

I'm getting my first Brazilian wax next week and that will be the most extreme thing my bits will ever be put through
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Alright in my opinion as a guy, the actual look of your genitalia isn't that important as most guys will be glad to be down there. I would say that the only thing guys really care about is some relative control over pubic hair. Trimmed is good because its no fun finding an amazon. As far as the vagina goes, as long as it doesn't have warts, no guy is really going to say no.
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Yea I care, and they all look and feel awesome. In fact the weird "neat" look you often have in commercial porn is kind of odd, somewhat paedophilic.
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they're ugly, whatever they look like! but so are willies :o:
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The only thing that turns me off is a vaginal rainforest I like shaved mainly - don't care about anything else tbh
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It's all down to personal preference, as is the amount of pubic hair. I would say 'just don't let it get out of control', but then, some guys might be into that.
Personally, i'm not a fan of any at all, but like i said, it's just personal preference.
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Yeh.. well for me hair down there isn't really an issue, I personally prefer to fully shave or at the least keep it very shortly trimmed... however this does make the ahem "beef curtains" or "meat flaps" (or whatever degrading names you wanna call them - i.e. labia minora) more obvious. I can try and tuck them in but obviously they won't stay like that during sex.
Do guys find this a turn-on/turn-off/indifferent?
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I'm not really bothered, but my GF has quite big labia, and i actually like it when i go down on her.

I don't think it's a problem
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I do notice whata girl's private parts look like, and must admit some vaginas are not as nice as others. But then I take the rest of the body into account. If she's thin and hot it's fine...if shes fat and ugly...then it's a reality check for my sanity.
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I do notice whata girl's private parts look like, and must admit some vaginas are not as nice as others. But then I take the rest of the body into account. If she's thin and hot it's fine...if shes fat and ugly...then it's a reality check for my sanity.
Care to elaborate? :p: I'm assuming you class nice as the conventional porn magazine type vaginas?
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Care to elaborate? :p: I'm assuming you class nice as the conventional porn magazine type vaginas?
Yeah lol. But to be honest it wouldnt stop me having sex lol,.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I know people will probably just say something on the lines of 'he will just be so glad that he's in bed with you in the first place that he won't care what you look like down there' etc but guys obviously have a preference when it comes to girls' private parts and there's quite a lot of hype in the media about 'designer vaginas' etc. This has obviously been worsened by the increased availiblity of porn and pictures of girls who look perfect down there, i.e. no inner labia showing and perfectly waxed and smooth etc and I'm a bit worried that lots of guys (especially inexperienced ones) will look at these images and assume that all girls look like this and be disappointed when its not so perfect.

So guys, would you ever be put off by what a girl looked like down there, if so what would put you off?
And do you agree with surgery to make it neater and trimmer down there?
Also, if you found out that someone had had surgery down there, would it put you off them a bit, even if it looked better? or discourage a girl who wanted it done?
Interesting question. I fail to see why there's so much kerfuffle about it. As long as you don't complain about my penis, I won't complain about your vajayjay!!

Seriously though, I would say I don't, but I cannot stand hollywood's. It's just wrong.
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Interesting question. I fail to see why there's so much kerfuffle about it. As long as you don't complain about my penis, I won't complain about your vajayjay!!

Seriously though, I would say I don't, but I cannot stand hollywood's. It's just wrong.
Thanks for that, that's exactly how I feel. I would NEVER complain about the appearance of a guy's penis (unless of course it appeared unhealthy in some way i.e. had an STI or smelt really bad) and it just upsets me that guys have degrading names for the 'ugly' appearance of some girl's vaginas. Its the same with guys who complain about small boobs... I would never comment about guys having small penises because at the end of the day YOU ARE BORN WITH IT, it's not like it can be your fault for the way you look in this respect. If I love the guy then I wouldnt give a **** about his size.
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i like everything to be reasonably neat and tidy, my personal preference being a landing strip. But ultimately, it doesn't make that much difference to me. The only thing i would say is a mouth full of hair is not good
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just realised you weren't really talking about pubes. In which case, apart from pubes. I don't really care
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