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I actually intend to have surgery on my private parts one day soon. It'll definitely make me feel more confident. Even if guys say they dont see anything wrong with it, if you are unhappy with it, it doesnt make too much of a difference.
But why are you unhappy with it? What are you comparing it against? It seems to me that once you give youself the option of changing any percieved 'faults' it can be difficult to view yourself in anyother way than a mass of things that need tweeking in order to be happy or content within your body. Surely its preferable to learn acceptance and pride in what you have, rather than being self critical? There are professionals out there that can help with this.
Personally, a girl being confident and happy with what shes naturally got down there is more attractive to me than one whos under confident about it but 'porn perfect'. With regards to hair, natural but trimmed is my preferance, makes certain things easier.
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But why are you unhappy with it? What are you comparing it against? It seems to me that once you give youself the option of changing any percieved 'faults' it can be difficult to view yourself in anyother way than a mass of things that need tweeking in order to be happy or content within your body. Surely its preferable to learn acceptance and pride in what you have, rather than being self critical? There are professionals out there that can help with this.
Personally, a girl being confident and happy with what shes naturally got down there is more attractive to me than one whos under confident about it but 'porn perfect'. With regards to hair, natural but trimmed is my preferance, makes certain things easier.
Sorry I have to be a bit graphic here - I have a noticeable scar from when I was attacked by a dog by my clitoris. It raises questions and makes me uncomfortable, so if there is a surgery option that could disguise that I'd be happy. Plus, I want my labia minora trimmed back. I dont like the look of them. I'm not against cosmetic surgery at all, I can imagine having more when I'm older. I think if you are genuinely unhappy with something, you should be able to change it.
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(Original post by Antonia87)
Sorry I have to be a bit graphic here - I have a noticeable scar from when I was attacked by a dog by my clitoris. It raises questions and makes me uncomfortable, so if there is a surgery option that could disguise that I'd be happy. Plus, I want my labia minora trimmed back. I dont like the look of them. I'm not against cosmetic surgery at all, I can imagine having more when I'm older. I think if you are genuinely unhappy with something, you should be able to change it.
Firstly, ouch! But yes i do agree to a point about being able to change things, if its having a significant effect on your daily life for example,but i just am troubled by the idea that girls get so down about their natural appearance, often purely because of a misguided media. From my point of view its about doing it for the right reasons, and not just to conform to a generic stereotype.
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Sorry I have to be a bit graphic here - I have a noticeable scar from when I was attacked by a dog by my clitoris. It raises questions and makes me uncomfortable, so if there is a surgery option that could disguise that I'd be happy. Plus, I want my labia minora trimmed back. I dont like the look of them. I'm not against cosmetic surgery at all, I can imagine having more when I'm older. I think if you are genuinely unhappy with something, you should be able to change it.
Oh that sounds painful I don't really like the idea of surgery however being confident with yourself is very important and if a bit of tweaking can help you do so, then that's great.

I don't think many guys would care what you looked like down there as your gorgeous as it is lol, but oh my goodness you have THE cutest nose :eek: :woo: i want it
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Oh that sounds painful I don't really like the idea of surgery however being confident with yourself is very important and if a bit of tweaking can help you do so, then that's great.

I don't think many guys would care what you looked like down there as your gorgeous as it is lol, but oh my goodness you have THE cutest nose :eek: :woo: i want it
Aw thanks
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Aw thanks
=O Purdy!

Anywhoo, I can imagine how the younger generation would think they know what a woman should look like. But what can you do?
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=O Purdy!

Anywhoo, I can imagine how the younger generation would think they know what a woman should look like. But what can you do?
Clip them on the back of their head?
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Clip them on the back of their head?
Pin their eyelids open and stick on a slideshow of average punnanies for their viewing pleasure? Hmm?

Man, we have to celebrate variety!
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(Original post by Antonia87)
Sorry I have to be a bit graphic here - I have a noticeable scar from when I was attacked by a dog by my clitoris. It raises questions and makes me uncomfortable, so if there is a surgery option that could disguise that I'd be happy. Plus, I want my labia minora trimmed back. I dont like the look of them. I'm not against cosmetic surgery at all, I can imagine having more when I'm older. I think if you are genuinely unhappy with something, you should be able to change it.
You're very pretty!
All I wanted to say was OUCH, what an awful place to be attacked by a dog, it sounds so painful! I agree with having cosmetic surgery if it's something that is really affecting your self esteem or self opinion. Slightly different situation, but my brother for example had his ears pinned back, they were pretty much 90 degrees to his head. He's a lot more confident now.
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(Original post by Antonia87)
Sorry I have to be a bit graphic here - I have a noticeable scar from when I was attacked by a dog by my clitoris. It raises questions and makes me uncomfortable, so if there is a surgery option that could disguise that I'd be happy. Plus, I want my labia minora trimmed back. I dont like the look of them. I'm not against cosmetic surgery at all, I can imagine having more when I'm older. I think if you are genuinely unhappy with something, you should be able to change it.
Im gonna sound like a perve but OMG you are stunning. good luck with the surgery i hope you get the results you want. channel 4 a while back did a show on vaginas and surgery in that area it seemed painful. id be a wimp
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I find it interesting that there have been a few comments from guys along the lines of 'whatever, but shaving is a MUST'.


Does that mean you guys would be prepared to wax your arsecrack and balls if your woman wanted you to?
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I find it interesting that there have been a few comments from guys along the lines of 'whatever, but shaving is a MUST'.


Does that mean you guys would be prepared to wax your arsecrack and balls if your woman wanted you to?
Personally, yes I would, but I see your point that a lot of people wouldn't.
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(Original post by Dionysus)
Personally, yes I would, but I see your point that a lot of people wouldn't.
Well you get kudos in my book :p:

I generally find the whole 'you must unpube yourself but I will not' attitude very hypocritial, and somewhat pathetic, in fact. It actually makes me fume, if I let myself dwell on it long enough.

Hmm :mad:
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(Original post by Floofy)
Pin their eyelids open and stick on a slideshow of average punnanies for their viewing pleasure? Hmm?

Man, we have to celebrate variety!
loaf of bread on your head is win.
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Im gonna sound like a perve but OMG you are stunning. good luck with the surgery i hope you get the results you want. channel 4 a while back did a show on vaginas and surgery in that area it seemed painful. id be a wimp
Wow this thread is being very nice to me! Lol, thanks
The surgery itself only seems daunting cos of where it is really. Its actually a very simple operation.
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as long as its not like peeling open a cheese and ham toastie its fine.
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I find it interesting that there have been a few comments from guys along the lines of 'whatever, but shaving is a MUST'.


Does that mean you guys would be prepared to wax your arsecrack and balls if your woman wanted you to?
If I asked her to I'd be willing to do it back... can't expect one way and not the other.
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The only thing that turns me off is a vaginal rainforest I like shaved mainly - don't care about anything else tbh
Vaginal rainforest!
Hahaha, lovely way to put it.
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but if you shave it is stubbly- how do you feel about THAT, boys?
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yeah not really fussed with what its like. as long as it can be used for its 'purposes', i'm happy.

But yeah, stubble is better than rainforest for sure.
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