Do guys actually care what girls look like "down there"? Watch

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but if you shave it is stubbly- how do you feel about THAT, boys?
Much better than an unkempt bush that makes it look like someone hasn't quite finished shaving a chimp. I love giving oral sex, but nothing is more of a turn off that an untrimmed bush.

And yes I do trim pubes and shave my balls, because I personally prefer it that way - the same reason my girlfriend shaves/veets, because SHE likes the way it looks/feels.
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Anonymous #9
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i agree with the stubble thing, whenever i shave down there it gets really itchy and stubbly- i cant understand how a guy could prefer it- surely trimmed etc. is better because it looks neat, its softer and not like a child! as for the do guys care- im all for the they're just happy to be getting some XP
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Hmm I have a question appropriate for this thread. Excluding any oral sex (for the girl) would guys mind if it was not completely shaved down there but was almost so? And what about stubble? Is this an issue? I find (and I'm sure a lot of other girls to do) that when I shave the follicles become slightly enflamed.. is this an issue?
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Hmm I have a question appropriate for this thread. Excluding any oral sex (for the girl) would guys mind if it was not completely shaved down there but was almost so? And what about stubble? Is this an issue? I find (and I'm sure a lot of other girls to do) that when I shave the follicles become slightly enflamed.. is this an issue?
A) No.

B) If you're going down on someone you love, then it shouldn't matter a jot what she looks like. Even if it's stubbly, I'll do my duty and not complain. I really don't think many guys care, it's just the vocal large minority who get their opinion shouted from the rooftops.
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Hmm i've always wondered this too..as in, say you get a wax, do guys care about the inbetween growing back stage? I find it really annoying and off putting! But then i guess growing-back length is always better than a forest :lolwut:
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My X use to have the whole "landing strip" thing going on, which never really bothered me. I enjoyed giving oral too much to care about what the pubes looked like.
In relation to the thread:

- What it looks like doesn't bother me. My X's was neat (if thats even a way to describe it, I don't know) but we only ever talked about each other's parts once, where we basically asked each other what they thought of the other, and with no bad sides to each, then I figured it was fine.
Like I said, if I was close enough to see it in detail, it was usually because I was giving her oral, and it never once crossed my mind while giving her oral what it looked like.
Too me, as long as doesn't smell (which believe me, I've had with some girls, thankfully that was just masturbating them, which I assume girls will find a lad's stinks aswell just as often), I'm fine with whatever its like.
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as long as you dont have a taliban beard going on down there its all good
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Anonymous #11
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i really don't know what to do about my situation. my labia minora are really large and hang out and i feel so self-conscious about it. my boyfriend assures me he thinks it's perfect and he doesn't care what it looks like but this still doesn't satisfy me. i wish i was able to feel comfortable in myself without covering up but i also feel that surgery is pretty drastic. although, i guess with age the situation is only going to get worse so it looks like the only way i'll feel better is through surgery, which i never thought i'd ever consider... i'm not usually insecure but this is really bothering me.
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i really don't know what to do about my situation. my labia minora are really large and hang out and i feel so self-conscious about it. my boyfriend assures me he thinks it's perfect and he doesn't care what it looks like but this still doesn't satisfy me. i wish i was able to feel comfortable in myself without covering up but i also feel that surgery is pretty drastic. although, i guess with age the situation is only going to get worse so it looks like the only way i'll feel better is through surgery, which i never thought i'd ever consider... i'm not usually insecure but this is really bothering me.
The only person who cares about your labia that much will be your bpyfriend as he seems to like them. For god's sake, don't get surgery - it's a totally needless procedure - you just need to get comfortable whith what you have - there is no such thing as a normal vagina.
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Anonymous #12
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I have quite big labia also.
Except mine was stretched when it swelled while I was riding a horse bareback. It's just excess skin really. I went to A & E for it, cause it was bloody painful.
It makes it hard to keep clean and things, thus making it easy to get thrush and it smells sometimes too.
My boyfriend says it doesn't bother him, but it bothers me.
I want to go to the GP, but I don't know if it's something beyond her control.

Also can anyone recommend a decent razor for shaving down there? I've tried all sorts, but it still makes it sore :/
Does anyone use waxing strips? Does it hurt more doing it at home rather than a salon?
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Anonymous #13
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Also can anyone recommend a decent razor for shaving down there? I've tried all sorts, but it still makes it sore :/
Use a man's razor, and do it in the shower.

That said, nothing I have tried can remove hair on my mound (above the flappy bits) without leaving it red, sore, itchy and bumpy. So I've given up on that bit, and grown some curls instead. I have it bare lower down (bizarrely shaving here is quite smooth and comfortable, despite it being topographically more challenging).

Addressing the OP, I have really rather flappy labia minora, either that or the labia majora are really little and fail pathetically at holding everything in. All of the flaps and hoods surrounding my clitoris, and the labia minora with which they are continuous are external to the labia majora and kind of dangle. I expect, as I have little thighs, that if you looked from behind you could definitely see my lady bits dangling down a little.

Sorry if TMI, but I'm just trying to get it across here.

All female genatalia is different. I don't think mine is the prettiest in the world but honestly it is not important. Genatalia is not seriouz buizness.
I have a lovely handsome boyfriend, my beef curtains/meat flaps whatever you want to call them have never held me back sexually in any way.
I think he thinks my arrangements are "cute", especially when I'm really aroused or after we have had sex, because he delights in how visibly everything swells up.

Basically, try not to worry. Any guy who loves you will probably love your lady parts. I would consider him weird if he didn't. Sex is a very personal thing, after a while with a partner you get your own little in-jokes and become very comfortable and really all of these worries should melt away considerably, if you just let go a little.

Best of luck flappy and non-flappy alike.
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Anonymous #11
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it definitely helps to know that i'm normal and that others worry about the same things - but it's the acceptance of what i have that's proving very difficult. i'll try and let go and become more comfortable before considering surgery further. thanks for your advice.
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Why don't people grow up and just say "vagina" instead of using "down there" or some other dumb phrase.

And I care if I'm eating it. Hair at least trimmed short (anything more is fine but I'm not especially bothered). Apart from that, not especially bothered unless you have some kind of amazingly abnormal vagina or an especially pretty one, in which case I feel rather privileged.

Also to anyone saying that shaved genitals are paedophilic... LOL
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As long as it doesn't look like predator.
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I know people will probably just say something on the lines of 'he will just be so glad that he's in bed with you in the first place that he won't care what you look like down there' etc but guys obviously have a preference when it comes to girls' private parts and there's quite a lot of hype in the media about 'designer vaginas' etc. This has obviously been worsened by the increased availiblity of porn and pictures of girls who look perfect down there, i.e. no inner labia showing and perfectly waxed and smooth etc and I'm a bit worried that lots of guys (especially inexperienced ones) will look at these images and assume that all girls look like this and be disappointed when its not so perfect.

So guys, would you ever be put off by what a girl looked like down there, if so what would put you off?
And do you agree with surgery to make it neater and trimmer down there?
Also, if you found out that someone had had surgery down there, would it put you off them a bit, even if it looked better? or discourage a girl who wanted it done?

I honestly wouldn't really care that much, I would prefer it if the girl kept the hair tidy ish .

As for surgery or anything like that, again it doesn't bother me... Genitles aren't exactly the most attractive feature of the body anyway.

Are you taking about laser treatment?
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im a 15 year old girl and my pussy hangs down lower then the usual do men find this turn of/turn on??
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Anonymous #14
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im a 14 year old girl and my vigina lips hang lower than usual do men find this unatractive??
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i am 13 years old i also have the same problem except mine is natural and was never
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Personally I don’t ever watch porn so I can’t say whether that influences or not but in my opinion the look of it down there doesn’t affect me too much. I was with one girl in the past who was a bit insecure about how hers looked and I never understood why and I would always try to show her why she shouldn’t be insecure (🙊).

For me as long as it isn’t super hairy I don’t care 🤷🏻*♂️ and also I’m not too fond of the idea of her having done surgery
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Guys are all liars in here...we love less labia. No giant clits. Shaved is best. I would never tell a girl she's ugly or to have surgery. That's wrong. Now where we all answered in common about just enjoying the fact we get to have sex with you...thats true 100 percent. In the end we put our opinions to rest and just love you guys for your true natural selves. We do love the poem look for sure but we love you as u are better. Plus face it...we could not live without u.
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