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Hi,
I want to write a letter to someone who I don't know but I want to tell the person that I like 'em and I am very stuck in how to start the letter (message). Can you help me with this pleaaaase.

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Reply 1

Niaya

Stara

Hi,
I want to write a letter to someone who I don't know but I want to tell the person that I like 'em and I am very stuck in how to start the letter (message). Can you help me with this pleaaaase.

keep it casualy something like

hiya,
im so and so, I dont know you very well but you seem like an interestin person and Id like to get to know you a bit better
call me if you wanna meet up
luv
blah
o and put your number on it so they can call

Reply 2

Ribomania

Stara

Hi,
I want to write a letter to someone who I don't know but I want to tell the person that I like 'em and I am very stuck in how to start the letter (message). Can you help me with this pleaaaase.

Goddamit u r hot, i want you, i want to meet up with you some time, alright gorgeous? lots of love [put name here] xxxx

Reply 3

Stara

angel D

That's nice but I want it a bit more romantic or lovable.
Any help with this one.

Reply 4

BlackHawk

well a good tip is don't overdo it and scare them off. :wink:

Reply 5

SilverWings

Ribomania

Goddamit u r hot, i want you, i want to meet up with you some time, alright gorgeous? lots of love [put name here] xxxx

subtle aint ya?? :rolleyes:

Reply 6

Stara

lessthanthree

if I got a letter from someone I didn't know, I'd be really weirded out that they didn't just *Talk* to me.

is talking not possible?

unfortunatlly im not brave enough to go and talk

Reply 7

Apricot Fairy

The best advice in the world:

Don't do it.

You will remember it in times to come and just cringe with embarrassment. If you can't talk to this person face to face, it's never going to blossom into anything.

Reply 8

username18215

or be flambouyant:

I gaze upon the sea with the wonder that i stare into your eyes... and so on

Reply 9

Stara

lessthanthree

the thing is, at one point you're going to *have* to be brave enough.

The problems with sending letters to people you don't know is that you have no idea how they're going to take it. For all you know he could photocopy it and completely take the mick. I'm pretty sure that he'd prefer to talk to you before you suddenly send him a note confessing feelings for him when he doesn't know you.

Start small; saying hi when you walk past each other, maybe sitting nearer if you have classes together? Making small efforts to chat every now and again stands you in much better stead then sending a loveletter entirely out of the blue.

But I just see him in my bus stop!!!!!!

Reply 10

Ali_04

oh..i remember when i used to have a crush on the guy at my bus stop!! aww...good times... why don't you just try and find something to ask this guy, anything even if its just asking for the time or when the next bus is! ..seriously, if i got a letter out of the blue from someone it would make it a lot worse, it would really scare me off!
why can't you talk to the guy?

good luck with it tho :smile:

Reply 11

Tyler Durden

Stara

But I just see him in my bus stop!!!!!!

So you're gonna just slip him a letter one day? :eek:

Just talk to him. It's a nice regular thing, day in day out you know where he'll be. You prep yourself for a couple of days beforehand. Then just say hello. Nothing bad can come of it. If you write a letter which he then just laughs at imagine how you'd feel. No-one can laugh at you for saying hi. If you're not going to be able to talk to him then it's not really going anywhere anyway. To be honest, even if I was a single bloke and a really nice girl gave me a letter like that I'd be a bit dubious. It's a leetle bit creepy...

Reply 12

Mrs_F

Oh haven't we all fancied someone from the bus stop? lol.
I actually agree with other people, not to write a letter, cos it can end up really embarrassing, especially if it gets in the wrong hands. Just casually try and talk to him, get to know him and then see how it goes.
I know it's easier said than done, (I have been there - think most of us have). But I think a letter is a definate no no.

Reply 13

Ziggy Stardust

md_red_uk

or be flambouyant:

I gaze upon the sea with the wonder that i stare into your eyes... and so on

Hehehe

Legend!

Reply 14

Stara

But can't I do any thing but not talking, please...

Reply 15

Mrs_F

Stara

But can't I do any thing but not talking, please...

So how are you meant to form a relationship with this boy if you can't talk to him? There is no other way. No letters, no nothing, if you can't talk to him you not gonna have a very fun relationship are you?

At the bus stop tomorrow, just casually smile at him, and maybe if you get a burst of confidence say hello. Then just see what his response is (is he happy you have spoken? did he smile back?) If it is a positive response then you have nothing to loose and just get some courage and have a conversation with him!

I know it's hard - but if you like him as much as you say you do then it will be worth it!

Reply 16

Ziggy Stardust

lessthanthree

No, you really can't do anything but not talking. I mean, what if he reads this letter and wants to talk to you about it? what're you going to do then - semiphore?

Don't hand him a letter. You'll only make yourself out to be a bit weird.

I know shyness is terribly hard to overcome, but you can't go through life not talking to new people. It's something that has to be overcome - and it's not really a gradual thing, you just have to say "hi".

True, i'm a shy person by trade, and do understand there this person is coming from.. even I plucked up the courage to speak to a girl I realllllly liked on the Leeds university open day! *hopes she chooses leeds and goes there in sept, heh*