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Tell him he's an insensitive oaf and that he makes you feel like ****. That you WILL send his playstation to the big playstation heaven in the sky.

But really, just tell him how you feel, he might not actually realise how much him being so distant after sex is upsetting you :console:
its the uppppppp...then down.
Reply 3
Ehhh, stop being insensitive and rude, and just offer to have a 2 player game with him.
Um, it is obvious you are being used. Dump now
Reply 5
Id say talk to him and if he dont understand forget about him or stop having sex with him and then you'll find out if he actually likes you for who you are or just wants to have a bit of fun:smile: or it could be that he acts that way because he feels insecure about something just talk its the best way.
Reply 6
xTazx
its the uppppppp...then down.


It is. almost instinctive
Reply 7
I'd say you're becoming more of a booty call than a girlfriend.
Reply 8
Dump him.

But, what a legend.
WHY THE HELL AREN'T YOU MAKING THE POOR MAN A SANDWHICH?
PS3 IS HUNGRY WORK
STOP BEING SO INSENSITIVE TO HIS NEEDS!

(WHY CAN'T I TYPE IN ALL CAPS ! fixed with edit:wink:)
I've heard that it's something to do with hormones - that after sex, testosterone levels drop quite suddenly? I mean, right after sex, it's very difficult to achieve an orgasm for a second time (for guys) and so there isn't really much point in them actually having the same interest in girls that they usually would.

In my opinion, it's perfectly natural for guys to feel less interested in girls straight after sex, even if they are completely in love with them.


I mean (sorry to put it like this) but when a guy is looking at a hot in a porn magazine, and he starts masturbating, is it not true that after he's finished, she doesn't actually seem so hot anymore? But then she becomes hot again a little while later?
Reply 11
He sounds like a legend.

But seriously, ask him to sort it out, if no then dump.
Reply 12
maybe he's afraid his parents will catch him.
No, its nervousness. My bf and I will be together for a year in May, when we first started having sex it was always so awkard after, like cringing! And he just used to go sit on his laptop and walk me home after a bit. Its probably just because the relationship doesnt feel relaxed enough just to hang round afterwards. What I did was just ask him to come and cuddle me one day, since then on, he never bothered going to his comp, I asked him about it the other day and he said it was because he felt nervous, and wasnt sure whether I wanted him to be all lovey dovey and my general view of the relationship. Dont worry :smile:
Reply 14
He probably got what he worked 6 months for and the chase is over and he is not as interested unless he wants to be with you at other times when sex is not an end point. Some guys are pretty linear. i have heard of this before but give it a chance and tell him that this is not going to work for you like this.
JAKstriked
WHY THE HELL AREN'T YOU MAKING THE POOR MAN A SANDWHICH?
PS3 IS HUNGRY WORK
STOP BEING SO INSENSITIVE TO HIS NEEDS!


Omg I couldn't stop laughing for ages after reading this. Rep coming your way my man!
JadedHippy
Omg I couldn't stop laughing for ages after reading this. Rep coming your way my man!

:woo: thank you.
Reply 17
ha!
Finish him.

You want a man who isnt so insensitive.

And a man with an xbox.
Anonymous
Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now.

Recently our relationship has gotten more serious and we have started having sex over the last month.

Everything is great except after sex, he seems to go cold to me. He gets up, gets dressed, plays his playstation then asks when im going... :frown:

i feel so used everytime. before we have sex he's so romantic and sweet.. but after he changes :frown:

any advice?


we're all like that. The only difference is that some of us feign interest after.

Don't take it to heart, probably to do with hormones (at least I read that somewhere)