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Interested / Not Interested

this girl i met and been out with a few times is annoying the hell outa me. i quite like her and i fink she likes me2. We txt each ova every day but when i suggest doing sumthing she always seems busy doing other stuff so im wondering whether u think i should pursue her or look elsewhere ?

also if u think i should pursue her further please gimme sum pointers :confused:

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do you think she is really busy or not? what kind of stuff is she busy with¿

MB
Reply 2
well she been doing hwk and a school things 2 nights this week
2night she with friends and the last 2 sat nights she been out with her parents and their friends and stuff
Reply 3
say that you like her and ask what she thinks about it.... just be straightforward. if you dont wanna do it in person then just say it in a txt one time, theres no shame in saying that and her not being interested (like otherwise you might feel bad if you say "will you go out with me" and she says no like that)

those who hesitate, masturbate!
Reply 4
you could always ask her if she wants to go out and ask when would be a best time for her... meeting her friends and doing stuff with family seem pretty genuine excuses to me

lou xxx
Reply 5
im almost sure she likes me,
its just frustrating, she's always busy ive said to her before that its annoying me. we arranged to meet up again but it turned out to be inconvenient for both of us.
mik1w
those who hesitate, masturbate!



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__Dreams__
this girl i met and been out with a few times is annoying the hell outa me. i quite like her and i fink she likes me2. We txt each ova every day but when i suggest doing sumthing she always seems busy doing other stuff so im wondering whether u think i should pursue her or look elsewhere ?

also if u think i should pursue her further please gimme sum pointers :confused:


this is a bit like me and this guy. we talk on the fone alot, txt each other often, but as we only met briefly once, its kinda weird meeting in person and arranging dates so i keep putting it off, even tho i do like him.

however if you know this girl, u r friends,then she seems to either be playing u along or just wana get to know u better before u have any lov
Reply 8
however if you know this girl, u r friends,then she seems to either be playing u along or just wana get to know u better before u have any lov


Yeh see thats what i am thinking,
but earlier i asked her on msn if she fancied doing something this week and she replied with "well if we both hav any time free".
yea thats like me, but then when it comes to meeting up i chicken out and say im busy. but i really like talking to the guy - other than txtn, do you call her? maybe talking to her u can tell if she is shy/if she likes u/ if she's playing u
Reply 10
:redface:
we have spoken once on the phone when she rang to say she was ready to get picked up, part from that me dont seem to have the danglies to do it :redface:
It sounds to me that she might just be as nervous as you are - in which case you HAVE to make a move otherwise thinga are going to go on this way forever. Go on - what's the worst that could happen!
Reply 12
i know,
we been out before and she wernt very shy when we were out we chatted loads. but she strikes me as being kinda quiet. i might give her a ring but thing is we either txt each ova or spk on msn and we generally do these fings at the same time so its just convenient.
__Dreams__
i know,
we been out before and she wernt very shy when we were out we chatted loads. but she strikes me as being kinda quiet. i might give her a ring but thing is we either txt each ova or spk on msn and we generally do these fings at the same time so its just convenient.


awww :smile: she probably is just shy! I usually go quiet if i like someone. If she's shy, she might prefer talking to u over msn and she'll probably tell you things she wouldn't say over the phone.
feefifofum
It sounds to me that she might just be as nervous as you are - in which case you HAVE to make a move otherwise thinga are going to go on this way forever. Go on - what's the worst that could happen!


yes, definately make the first move. And don't ask her if you can kiss her :rolleyes: just do it. I hate it when a guy asks my permission.
Reply 15
i see :smile:

i might ring her 2moz and my excuse for callin could be that i have never called her.
Cellardore
awww :smile: she probably is just shy! I usually go quiet if i like someone. If she's shy, she might prefer talking to u over msn and she'll probably tell you things she wouldn't say over the phone.


yes this is DEFINITLEY true - i was v shy with my boyfriend at first, we talked mostly over msn, but as we got to know each other better all the awkwardness went quickyl
just ask her out, tell her how you feel, do whatever it takes
Reply 17
hmm ill try 2moz
ive already asked her out before so its not a problem its just a question of getting her out
Reply 18
yah i am trying but this week seems she busy at the start of the week and i am busy at the end of the week maybe i should just forget bout her and move on
Reply 19
nah the excuses she has are genuine and i cant do thursday and friday so thats not her fault guess ill just leave it