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(Original post by LadyFadge)
Have you noticed how most people regret losing their V

i know, its bad innit?
no point in regrettin it.
not like you can get it back. . .
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i know, its bad innit?
no point in regrettin it.
not like you can get it back. . .
Yeah i have done but then realised because of it i have become who i am now.
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Yeah i have done but then realised because of it i have become who i am now.

i think most people regret it because they imagine its gonna be amazin, but for most people it just falls short of their expectations so theyre a bit disapointed.
once the 1st times out of the way it gets much better and a lot more fun.
well thats what it was like for me.
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i think most people regret it because they imagine its gonna be amazin, but for most people it just falls short of their expectations so theyre a bit disapointed.
once the 1st times out of the way it gets much better and a lot more fun.
well thats what it was like for me.
Yeah i had all these expectations of what it would be like but then when it came down to it, it was not that nice
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Yeah i had all these expectations of what it would be like but then when it came down to it, it was not that nice

same here.
combination of too much alcohol and totally wrong bloke.
still glad i did it tho.
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i think most people regret it because they imagine its gonna be amazin, but for most people it just falls short of their expectations so theyre a bit disapointed.
once the 1st times out of the way it gets much better and a lot more fun.
well thats what it was like for me.
My only regret is that it was the wrong person.
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My only regret is that it was the wrong person.
Same here. I wish i had waited til i met my fiancee
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My only regret is that it was the wrong person.

does anybody ever do it with the right person?
only know 2/3 people who have.
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does anybody ever do it with the right person?
only know 2/3 people who have.
well we learn from our mistakes
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I lost my virginity soon after my 18th birthday. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 so we've waited like 2 years to do it. I just kinda knew when the time was right and he waited for me...which was nice heehee After all the fuss my mates all made (my close circle of girl friends ALL lost their virginity before me at the ages of 15-17) I realised that sex was about me and my boyfriend, nobody else, and that it didn't and wasn't going to change anything. The next big scary thing about our relationship is going to separate Unis!
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In light of the current debate about whether to lower the age of consent, thought I'd ask the board when you had sex for the first time, if at all. It's a confidential survey too!
no, i want to wait untill i findthet right guy and it 2 b special
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no, i want to wait untill i findthet right guy and it 2 b special
Good for you.
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Interesting results, although I doubt whether the people on this board make up a representative section of society.

I first had sex aged 17 and have no regrets at all. I may not have loved the girl it was with, but we are still on speaking terms, I knew her name, we were both sober, and it was in a bed.
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dont know if anyones mentioned it, but the poll doesnt follow the title. having sex young doesnt make you more adult than not having it. if anything it makes you less adult
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dont know if anyones mentioned it, but the poll doesnt follow the title. having sex young doesnt make you more adult than not having it. if anything it makes you less adult
Fair comment.

But much on the discussion on the Channel 4 Adult at 14 program was regarding age of consent, sex etc.
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Interesting results, although I doubt whether the people on this board make up a representative section of society.

I first had sex aged 17 and have no regrets at all. I may not have loved the girl it was with, but we are still on speaking terms, I knew her name, we were both sober, and it was in a bed.
Hmmm I duno whether losing your virginity somewhere other than a bed is a negative thing...I don't think it is that's all.
I'll tell you something, I am SICK of the fuss people make about sex. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy it, but I was so scared it was going to hurt the first time just because of the massive deal my friends made out of it when they lost theirs...I guess that is the measure of maturity.
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Hmmm I duno whether losing your virginity somewhere other than a bed is a negative thing...I don't think it is that's all.
All I was infering was that a bed was better than on a wet field behind an oil tanker (the first chance I had to have sex which I politely declined) or the floor of a toilet, where my best mate first had sex. Granted though, you can have good sex in many places other than a bed!
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I completely disagree with the lady on that programme who insisted lowering the age of consent would be beneficial. Her argument was that many girls and boys have sex whenever they want so the age of consent is useless - sensationalist crap. so few people i know ACTUALLY had sex before 16 that her argument is redundant. and didn't we all think we knew what was best for us at 14 - looking back i cringe at my naivety!!

i am very grateful the law was there to protect me when i really did not have the wisdom or maturity to understand the real implications of sex! you need a rounded personality and a bit of 'innocent' fun before rushing into a fully-fledged sexual relationship - and aside from the obvious pleasurable parts, it can be sordid, fumbling, uncomfortable, messy and sometimes partners can't perform (!) at will. thank god i didn't jump into it earlier than i did (i was going on 18)...
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Might as well save it for someone who really cares about you, no point being in a rush to lose it... my opinion anyway...
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Might as well save it for someone who really cares about you, no point being in a rush to lose it... my opinion anyway...
Yup, i agree. I was 17, and had been with her for 4 months (stayed together about 19 months in total). Quite an arkward and frankly short experience lol. The 2nd and 3rd times were better, but as i recall i was the standard teenager...
have to say though, the friends i hung round with, out of the 6 of us, i was the first to lose it, another guy lost it at 18, and the other 4 are still virgins aged 20.
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