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I met this guy a while back that was friends with my two best mates. I thought he was really cute and we were getting on really well. I kinda got the feelin that there was somthin there, but when I started chattin to my mates, they told me that he had been just the same with them when THEY had first met. So I really hated, and still hate myself for likin him. Plus we got into this huge argument because he keeps calling me "babygirl" and all that(esp on the phone) which I find to be quite a derogatory term and which only ur BF should be able to call you.

I am meeting this guy again(all of my mates and him going out), and they are just tellin me to accept him the way he is, although I think he is just leading me on, and all my other firends for that matter. But they seem to be alright with it( although I think they all secretly like kim!) Am I just being silly, or is this guy not really worth my time, esp since I find myself gettin more and more attracted to him, but being put off cos he acts like that with all the girls!? Should I even meet up with him at all?
So should I risk meetin him, startin to like him, and then

Reply 1

ickle_katy

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Whats wrong with fancying this guy? A little flirting never hurts anyone!

love Katy***

Reply 2

lil_crazyflakes

12

ickle_katy

Whats wrong with fancying this guy? A little flirting never hurts anyone!

love Katy***

Because it will end with her falling for him, and he might just be a flirt and not be interested in her in that way. Then it would all end in tears?

Reply 3

louinwonderland

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Maybe just act casually, accept him as a friend rather than worrying about his future promise as a boyfriend. If he is flirting with all your friends, I don't think it's worth trying to vie for his attention - let him come to you :smile:

Reply 4

lil_crazyflakes

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louinwonderland

Maybe just act casually, accept him as a friend rather than worrying about his future promise as a boyfriend. If he is flirting with all your friends, I don't think it's worth trying to vie for his attention - let him come to you :smile:

Yeh, just go out with him with all your other mates as well and treat him as a friend. If more is going to happen then it will and you'll know that he likes you in that way and you are different from the way he is with all your other friends. However, if the same flirting he uses with everyone carries on just brush it off and act normal. x

Reply 5

louinwonderland

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lil_crazyflakes

Yeh, just go out with him with all your other mates as well and treat him as a friend. If more is going to happen then it will and you'll know that he likes you in that way and you are different from the way he is with all your other friends. However, if the same flirting he uses with everyone carries on just brush it off and act normal. x

Eeeeexactly. Hope it goes well :smile:

Reply 6

lil_crazyflakes

12

yeh, hope it works out for the best :smile:

Reply 7

Nina166

OP

2

to be honest, I think if everyone sat down before they thought about seeing someone, and rationalised, and thought and pondered about what *might* happen - nobody would date.

Well, I met him yesterday, and I was just cool. I have now decided that he is simply tooo much of a womaniser for me even to THINK about going out with. He actually doesn't have a GF(??) and if you ask me its just cos he wants to play around with all the girls he can get. But then why is he soo sweet... I wanted to ask him what's the deal, but I think some of mates also have a crush on the guy, and I dont wanna start anythin there! This is way too perverse for me man. Yet, I cant help but bein attracted to him, knowing his a player. I am such a goddamm idiot. Wish I knew of some wonder pill to take away this feelin :frown:

Reply 8

treff

1

Just treat him like a friend, nothing more. If he really wanted to be with you, he'll get a clue and do what he should. :smile:

Reply 9

sumlangis

Nina166

I met this guy a while back that was friends with my two best mates. I thought he was really cute and we were getting on really well. I kinda got the feelin that there was somthin there, but when I started chattin to my mates, they told me that he had been just the same with them when THEY had first met. So I really hated, and still hate myself for likin him. Plus we got into this huge argument because he keeps calling me "babygirl" and all that(esp on the phone) which I find to be quite a derogatory term and which only ur BF should be able to call you.

I am meeting this guy again(all of my mates and him going out), and they are just tellin me to accept him the way he is, although I think he is just leading me on, and all my other firends for that matter. But they seem to be alright with it( although I think they all secretly like kim!) Am I just being silly, or is this guy not really worth my time, esp since I find myself gettin more and more attracted to him, but being put off cos he acts like that with all the girls!? Should I even meet up with him at all?
So should I risk meetin him, startin to like him, and then

this guy gets away with flirting outrageously with ppl that he has no interest in simply because girls like to be flirted with. He's probably worked out that this is the ultimate lazy boy way of getting laid. The scattergun approach if u will - flirt with everyone and somebody will take the bait :biggrin:

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