Dumped

Show him what hes missing girl!! :biggrin:

I think you're probably in a loooonnnng line of girls who don't understand guys. One of my boyfriends did the same thing...ended with me after a couple of months becasue he "just didn't feel the same way about me", i still don't understand why he broke up with me, and no one else could at the time either, even his best friend was like why did you break up with her...Thats the mystery of the male race for you!

Reply 2

caffecooki

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i know quite a few boys that have dumped their girlfriends recently because they don't want a relationship, and unfortunately, in general, theres nothing you can do. unfortunately it wouldn't be fair on either of you to force the relationship to continue if both of you haven't got equal commitment. I think maybe you should just carry on with your life, and if he decides you and him are meant to be, he'll want to talk about it.
It's not a nice thing to happen and you've got every right to be upset, but i hope everything works out for you :smile:

Reply 3

jessicarabbit

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embelina

my b.f dumped me ystday...ok, we had only been goin out a month but i really liked him. Apparently, hes not ready for a relationship with anyone right now..and he then sed he needs time to think and ended the text with "you know i like you"... shud i give him time (and probably never hear from him agen) or should i text him during the week just seeing how he is? or shud i just go out next sat, to the club where i kno he will be, and look gorgeous and show him wot hes missing?!...i wouldnt be as upset if this was the 1st guy to end it...but its not..there has been a long line of guys...and now im just whining on and on so i will stop!
luv to hear from sum of you dudes out there tho and hear wot advise you mite have..im starting to give up all hope with the male species!

No offense but...

it sounds like...

he's just not that into you.

now, I'm sure ur sexy self can find urself someone better who you don't have to wait for. :wink:

Reply 4

OP

aww, thx guys...im really confused at the mo...i dont hate him and i kinda forgive him..i think thats just becoz im desperate for him to call...yeah, his mates seemed to like me, and only 2 days ago he was saying how we had such a good future together....the words commitment phobic are coming to mind! soooo, im goin to do some retail thearipy and get a hair cut lol!

Reply 5

OP

ok, and dont quote sex and the city at me at a time like this!!

Reply 6

embelina

im goin to do some retail thearipy and get a hair cut lol!

Good for you! And eat ice cream and chocolate...and whatever you do don't call him!!!! :biggrin:

Reply 7

OP

no, i wont call him.....hmmm, i dont think i will anyway...nooooooo, i wont! its just so annoying that he goes to the best club in liverpool...im bound to see him EVERY weekend...along with all the other guys i kinda accidently pull from week to week....oh dear!

Reply 8

What's Chico Time Precious?

embelina

along with all the other guys i kinda accidently pull from week to week....oh dear!

But now that you're not with him that won't matter :biggrin:

Reply 9

musicbloke

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bohogirlie

Good for you! And eat ice cream and chocolate

and plenty of pro-plus

MB

Reply 10

Tyler Durden

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embelina

along with all the other guys i kinda accidently pull from week to week....oh dear!

^^ Might be the problem? People see you less as relationship material and more as someone to pull at the weekend?

Reply 11

jessicarabbit

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embelina

ok, and dont quote sex and the city at me at a time like this!!

hey, just trying to save u some time.

if he broke up with you, it basically means "i dont want to go out with you anymore". If a guy really likes you, he'll be your boyfriend. period. He won't break up with you, and if he flirts- well, he's human....guys do that stuff you know! I'm just tired of girls not realizing thier self worth...and spending effort on guys that arent that great...

just dont waste ur time!!

Reply 12

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embelina

no, i wont call him.....hmmm, i dont think i will anyway...nooooooo, i wont! its just so annoying that he goes to the best club in liverpool...im bound to see him EVERY weekend...along with all the other guys i kinda accidently pull from week to week....oh dear!

what club is this? :smile:

Reply 13

Tyler Durden

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lessthanthree

¬_¬ how can you "accidentally" pull someone. Do you repeatedly trip over and fall onto their mouths?

Hey, when you did that list of smilies that one *points at the one in your message* wasn't on it. What is it? :biggrin:

I see! ^_^

its a bit like i got dumped by this text:

i want you to know hat i like you but i just need to know more about you and i need some time to get myself sorted out. do you want to study in the libaray with me next week?

what would any reasonable person think by that text?

anyway. i truly believd he wanted to kno me better and that he jus needed some time, so for months i didnt go out with anyone else as he said i could but he'd prefer if i didnt.

i didnt realise that was a good way to dump someone :frown:

Reply 16

OP

yes, thats exactly what happens..it just so happens i only fall onto fit men hehe....no, i aint pulled for a while (i was with sum1 and im very good like that)..yes, i can see how lots of guys i meet think im just a w/e snog kinda girl but those who get to kno me find im sooooooo not like that! Im really into relationships. I think they are great (its just the ending that aint so great). jessiccarabbit- i luv sex and the city!! (hence why i recognised it so soon!) but, miranda was complaining that he neva called after the 1st date, i, thank god, got past the 1st date!

Reply 17

embelina

yes, thats exactly what happens..it just so happens i only fall onto fit men hehe....no, i aint pulled for a while (i was with sum1 and im very good like that)..yes, i can see how lots of guys i meet think im just a w/e snog kinda girl but those who get to kno me find im sooooooo not like that! Im really into relationships. I think they are great (its just the ending that aint so great). jessiccarabbit- i luv sex and the city!! (hence why i recognised it so soon!) but, miranda was complaining that he neva called after the 1st date, i, thank god, got past the 1st date!

I didn't know people in the country still called snogging snogging hehe :biggrin:

Reply 18

OP

texts are a crap way of dumping sum one coz you cant show ur emotion...that was a silly text tho...especially the library bit!!! thought u had to be quite in a library? so how can u talk in there and get to kno eachother betta?

Reply 19

OP