anarchy relations

Im single right now, but structure and such analysis to relationships is a horror thought for me - im very laissez-faire and things should go naturally - i could never keep up with a "i did this" so "she will do that in return" ideology - that must reallly burden things.

Seriously though - i would go with the flow, surely its impossible to keep it so give and take - this give and take is quite false and unnatural i think - at least to this extent, which is paraphrased (is that a word, well it sounds impressive!) in some other threads.

Structure kills me, so does analysis - its good to think of others, give and receive but it can often feel so fake and unnatural - theres nothing real going on - "you do something in return, oh she gave me this so she expecting this in return" - arghhhhhh

such giving and receiving really cannot be love?

Tu est vraiment tres amusant.

Of course it is preferable for there to be a natural relationship. And not an artificial naturalness. What about the argument that kindness breeds kindness? If someone gets me a present or something I don't get one them at some point down the line because I feel I should but because I want to make them happy like they made me. If this becomes strained then yeah there maybe a problem..

you are really very funny..

and i think it's the whole laissez-faire thing that started the francais mood. ah, french.. dontcha just love it?

Tu est vraiment tres amusant.

Of course it is preferable for there to be a natural relationship. And not an artificial naturalness. What about the argument that kindness breeds kindness? If someone gets me a present or something I don't get one them at some point down the line because I feel I should but because I want to make them happy like they made me. If this becomes strained then yeah there maybe a problem..

I must say I have never had a relationship like that described in the first post. If I felt like that, it wouldn't get past the first week.

good good - im very like my grandad - im a bit of an anarchist - just like i despise 'commercial days' - fine let there be a god damn valentines day and a god damn mothers day, but why the one day and why the crazy gift and card buying!????????? Arghhhhhhhh

my friend refuses to go down on guys... completely, no exceptions. yet her loving and devoted ex would go down on her, despite never expecting anything in return. that's what i call love...

my friend refuses to go down on guys... completely, no exceptions. yet her loving and devoted ex would go down on her, despite never expecting anything in return. that's what i call love...