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Current St. A students w/ Oxbridge rejection - did you get over it OK?

I’m not out to kick up a fussy debate over this, OR IN ANY WAY TO KNOCK ST. A’s! I thought St. Andrews was utterly beautiful, with rich traditions, and if I make the grade this year I’ll be proud to have a place there.

But for reasons I won’t go into, I missed my chance to apply to Oxford, and as I’d had my heart set on it, I’m taking it pretty hard. It’s a certain experience; it has so much tradition about it.

My question is for people who ended up at St. Andrews after being knocked back from Oxbridge—but who really had their heart set on Oxbridge. Did you find that after a year or so, St. Andrew’s really filled up that expectation?

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Reply 1
LOL, I didn't apply to Oxbridge. St Andrews was my first choice.
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I'm in the same position and going to take my lead from A2 results.
I suggest you do the same. :smile:
Reply 3
I personally didn't want to go anywhere other than St Andrews and so didn't even apply to Oxbridge, but I do know people who got rejected from Cambridge or Oxford, and they're loving it here! I also know someone who was offered a place at Cambrigde, and rejected it to come here, and also someone who is in 1st year atm, who applied to Oxford after starting here because she missed applying when she applied to St As. She was successful for Oxford, but in the end has rejected it and is staying here! :smile:
Reply 4
Oh my.
Reply 5
My boyfriend was rejected by Cambridge and went to St As ... he was fine about it really and St Andrews it still a great university - once you get there you wont be so bothered by it I reckon. What was it about Oxbridge that you liked so much?
Reply 6
Given the fees set up in Scotland, and the structure of degrees given students in the main only having highers and possibly the odd Adv H, then you'll find most Scottish students (who make up c.70% of St Andrews university) won't even have thought about applying to Oxbridge. The percentage of people even in a position to sit 3 advanced highers is relatively small, hence why lots of them (St Andrews location means its slightly different) tend to aim for the best universities in their area, so the percentage of 'home' students rise. You'd really be surprised at how many Scottish students didn't really have Oxbridge on their radar, despite having strong school results.
Oxford isn't some magical wonderland you know. It's just a university. Now stop indirectly insulting people who strived to go to St. Andrews from the start.
Reply 8
0404343m
Given the fees set up in Scotland, and the structure of degrees given students in the main only having highers and possibly the odd Adv H, then you'll find most Scottish students (who make up c.70% of St Andrews university) won't even have thought about applying to Oxbridge. The percentage of people even in a position to sit 3 advanced highers is relatively small, hence why lots of them (St Andrews location means its slightly different) tend to aim for the best universities in their area, so the percentage of 'home' students rise. You'd really be surprised at how many Scottish students didn't really have Oxbridge on their radar, despite having strong school results.


That's true. I know quite a number of St. Andrews students, and all of the Oxbridge rejects are English (plus a Frenchie who got accepted for Maths but without joint Computer Science at Oxford, so he chose St. Andrews). They're all happy there. Christ knows why - it's an absolute dump. :p:
Reply 9
I got over my oxbridge rejection about 10 seconds after it happened, even though it was my first choice and basically the only option I had put any real research into...it was actually the same day as I got my SA offer.
I can only think of one person who still seems sore about an Oxbridge rejection, and they're capable of seeing the worst in anything anyway.

Most people seemed cool with it all in first year, and just get on with life. It's not like, 'Oooooh, we're all the Cambridge rejects and he wanted to go to OXFORD, *sigh* how silly', and it rarely comes up in conversation anyway.


Fact: Current students are happy to be in St Andrews. Why would they want to bother nourishing bitterness about not being elsewhere?
Reply 11
RightSaidJames
Oxford isn't some magical wonderland you know. It's just a university. Now stop indirectly insulting people who strived to go to St. Andrews from the start.


What part of "St' A's is beautiful, this was a personal love thing that upset me and I wanted to know if anyone was in the same boat" didn't you understand? The only person getting snitty here is you. Please don't. I didn't insult St. A's, and I didn't say Oxford was a wonderland. I said it had CERTAIN traditions that I (personally) was in love with, and I took it hard.

I feel like you're looking to have a go. I can't stop you doing that, but there's no indirect insult here.
Reply 12
sophie_c
I personally didn't want to go anywhere other than St Andrews and so didn't even apply to Oxbridge, but I do know people who got rejected from Cambridge or Oxford, and they're loving it here! I also know someone who was offered a place at Cambrigde, and rejected it to come here, and also someone who is in 1st year atm, who applied to Oxford after starting here because she missed applying when she applied to St As. She was successful for Oxford, but in the end has rejected it and is staying here! :smile:


That's really encouraging :smile: and pretty much what I was looking for, that after the first year I won't want to leave, no matter what. Thanks!
Reply 13
xanthian
That's really encouraging :smile: and pretty much what I was looking for, that after the first year I won't want to leave, no matter what. Thanks!


:smile: I'm sure you'll love it here!
Reply 14
andi2036
My boyfriend was rejected by Cambridge and went to St As ... he was fine about it really and St Andrews it still a great university - once you get there you wont be so bothered by it I reckon. What was it about Oxbridge that you liked so much?


It was the culture I think; it was knowing some of these traditions go back to the very start of University life in the English speaking world :smile: so I wanted to know from students already at St. A's, whether really did the same. Believe me, I all for being told "yes yes yes, you'll love it and forget Oxford ever existed."

Dreams are sometimes just hard things to let go of.
Reply 15
Deadmau5
I got over my oxbridge rejection about 10 seconds after it happened, even though it was my first choice and basically the only option I had put any real research into...it was actually the same day as I got my SA offer.


:yep: on the same day? That was a piece of luck! Congratulations. I'm glad you didn't have to wait between the two.
Reply 16
ImperceptibleNinja
I can only think of one person who still seems sore about an Oxbridge rejection, and they're capable of seeing the worst in anything anyway.

Most people seemed cool with it all in first year, and just get on with life. It's not like, 'Oooooh, we're all the Cambridge rejects and he wanted to go to OXFORD, *sigh* how silly', and it rarely comes up in conversation anyway.


Fact: Current students are happy to be in St Andrews. Why would they want to bother nourishing bitterness about not being elsewhere?


I don't want to nourish bitterness :smile: dreams are sometimes just hard to let go of, and since none of my friends applied to Oxbridge (or St. Andrews) I asked here to air it out, to feel a little less bad about it. Thank you anyway, though, because it's good to hear that most people don't seem at all bothered.
ImperceptibleNinja
it rarely comes up in conversation anyway.


I'd expect that to be honest from what I saw at the visiting day. I don't think any of us prospective students mentioned Oxbridge. The UCL open day, on the other hand, well, let's just say that most probably didn't even realise they were looking around there. There was so much Oxbridge gossip (granted, it was in the heat of the Oxbridge interview period, but still). :p:
Reply 18
xanthian
It was the culture I think; it was knowing some of these traditions go back to the very start of University life in the English speaking world :smile: so I wanted to know from students already at St. A's, whether really did the same. Believe me, I all for being told "yes yes yes, you'll love it and forget Oxford ever existed."

Dreams are sometimes just hard things to let go of.


Yeh I can imagine how you're feeling, because I would be so upset if I hadn't gotten into St Andrews as I'd pinned all my hopes and dreams on coming here (and nowhere else did my course...)

But yeh, the thing I love about St Andrews is all the random traditions that have continued for hundreds of years, such as the red robes, may dip, raisin weekend, and many more :smile:
Reply 19
A Stranger in Moscow
I know someone who wanted to apply to Oxbridge and then her grades weren't good enough. She got into St. As and lovessss it so I reckon if you're happy to go there then you will too.


Thank you! I hope so too :smile:

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