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Hi i go out into town mainly at m8s bdays, like every month. But all my friends seem to know exactly wot to do with girls all the time. Its not that i am nervous its just that I can get a girl interested, (like im quite funny at times) talking, dancing, laughing,
i can do all of that fine, its just between talking/dancing with her to pulling her i get lost. I mean wot do u do or say short of pulling her in and 'fancy a snog' i just have no idea?

thanks so much for ur help

Reply 1

Yeah_butno

70/30 rule.

Go in for the kill, tiger!

Reply 2

Jonah

OP

but i mean wot do u say just go from talking about urself/asking her questions to leaning towards her?

Reply 3

Yeah_butno

Say nothing and let the good times roll

Reply 4

Jonah

OP

Yeah_butno

Say nothing and let the good times roll

but i think ill feel slighly awkward, is there no easyer way?

Reply 5

LawQueen

14

Jonah

Hi i go out into town mainly at m8s bdays, like every month. But all my friends seem to know exactly wot to do with girls all the time. Its not that i am nervous its just that I can get a girl interested, (like im quite funny at times) talking, dancing, laughing,
i can do all of that fine, its just between talking/dancing with her to pulling her i get lost. I mean wot do u do or say short of pulling her in and 'fancy a snog' i just have no idea?

thanks so much for ur help

I thinks its cute when guys are nervous shows they actually care enough about you to be worried they might be doing something wrong.

Reply 6

Yeah_butno

ruthiepooos

I thinks its cute when guys are nervous shows they actually care enough about you to be worried they might be doing something wrong.

OK Jonah.

Dont worry. All is solved. Its cute that you cant talk to women. :rolleyes:

Reply 7

Jonah

OP

Yeah_butno

OK Jonah.

Dont worry. All is solved. Its cute that you cant talk to women. :rolleyes:

but i still cant pull them, its so strange cause most of my m8s are naturals

Reply 8

Yeah_butno

Jonah

but i still cant pull them, its so strange cause most of my m8s are naturals

So ask your mates. Not me!

Reply 9

Jonah

OP

Yeah_butno

So ask your mates. Not me!

slightly embarassing(i no it shouldnt be but were guys and we dont talk about stuff like this)..... is there no easy line or something

Reply 10

Carus

it should just come naturally.. u should wait for a gap in the conversation- its not necessarily to like ask for her permission cos it should feel like the most natural next step for you both

Reply 11

john !!

14

just go for it if you get the feeling
70/30 rule
thats all there is to it.. its that easy especially in a club...

maybe you should get drunk and try it, cos its hard to do it for the first time.

Reply 12

username18215

10

70/30 rule?

Never heard of that, do elaborate

Reply 13

Jonah

OP

well were going out 2nite so im not sure ill try the 70/.30 drunk and probably fall on her.lol. but i think ill just stroke back her hair or summink

Reply 14

Yeah_butno

70% will reject.

The other 30% are desperate mingers who want you.

Reply 15

Yeah_butno

Jonah

well were going out 2nite so im not sure ill try the 70/.30 drunk and probably fall on her.lol. but i think ill just stroke back her hair or summink

90/10 rule init?

Reply 16

john !!

14

I guess it depends on your looks and confidence.

Reply 17

Carus

Shouldn't it be more like 70/20/10... 70 will reject, 10 are desperate mingers and 20 are genuinely intersted in pullin?

Reply 18

Fresh Prince

I think she means 90:10 where you go 90% of the way to kiss her and she goes the rest, if shes interested.

Pullin' can be difficult for the 1st time. When I done it for the 1st time i was dancing with this girl for like 20 mins and then the club was about to close. So I said to her "What about my good night kiss?" and thats when she lent in...

Keep it simple, don't be complicated about it.

P.s. Make sure the girl is atlest semi interested in you lol

Reply 19

BlackHawk

17

lol it that what guys think? :biggrin:

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