How do i get over my ex-bf when i have no friends?

i have no friends, it's as simple as that. im in uniersity but i havent made a single friend, i moved from place to place all my life so ive never settled long enough to make any proper friends.

im 20 now and i met my boyfriend because he lives on the same street as me.

the thing is, he's told me he's bored of me and has now dumped me :frown:

how do i get over this heartbreak? i feel so lost, i dont have a single friend to talk to about it, i dont have girl friends to go out with to take my mind of it. i just sit here with it going on and on in my head while he goes out having fun and meeting girls.

how do i get over someone without the help of friends? :frown:

Reply 1

Davy Noo

Hi. Try talking to your family, if you're close to any of them. maybe join some societies at university? You could meet new people there. You can always come on here and talk to people too :smile:

Hope this helps.

Reply 2

Havers

if you have balls..and still live in halls you could just knock on a door and just say 'hi, sorry about this but can i come in for a chat if your not busy' u never know they cud b like yeh sure, crack open a bottle of wine... and yeh... u could end up been really gud mates.

Reply 3

junglegirl

join a soc/ go to the gym, people aren't going to come to you, just go out and have fun, talk to people on your course, i know this can be difficult, but hey, it pays and like Havers said, if your still in halls, that's even better

and if u wna talk OP pm me :0

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

thnx

Reply 5

Schroedinger's Pandora

Where do you live? (As in, city), PM me anytime you feel like a girly chat. I've been in your situation before so I can totally empathise.

:hugs:

Reply 6

wellisntitfor

I moved to this city to be with my girlfriend, who then promptly left me. Like you, I had no other contacts or friends at all. I started going out to things, volunteering at places I liked - arty music venues, stuff like that. Also I put up a profile on some dating websites, which was not only fun and exciting, but actually led to making a friend or two which helped a lot.
Now there's dozens of people who I know around here, and a handful that I see fairly regularly.

If you're at uni, then yea go and join socieites and stuff, they'll be delighted to have you.

I think a few of us want to know where you live! Tell us what city...

Reply 7

KingPin

I know im kind of repeating what other are saying but they are right, joining culbs, groups, societies etc is always the best way to meet people and it will be doubly benefical as you'll have whatever hobbie it is to distract you as well as new friends to talk to.
And i know its easy to say but, never be afraid to talk to someone and it can be about anything!

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