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ok everyone, theres been many threads on body issues. please lets be honest on this thread.
a nice round body is very very beautiful. men - dont struggle to get a six pack, those who do have one must take ages trying to maintain it. its better to spend that time being happy or makeing your gf happy.
my ex was a fat guy, but i loved the fat. we could go for a meal and he'd really enjoy lots of good food, good drink, and didnt care about calories. getting intimate, he didnt care that he was fat, he wasnt at all self conscious, he just enjoyed what he was doing.for me, that was best of all, i'd rather he was like that than obsessed with sl;imming and the gym-instead, he just liked to enjoy himself which was attractive and enjoyable.
for women, a slight belly and big hips and butts looks great.they even made the butt implant to make a butt look bigger, and m&s made £30 padded butt pants. so dont worry about having a big butt- look at beyonce and j-lo. and implants look and feel wrong.so dont feel guilty for eating. and you need fat to carry a baby.who finds stick thin bodies attractive?
i picked up the Sun newspaper in the docs yesterday and noticed on the front page, it was advocating women keeping their virginity with a feature on Katie Holmes. on page three there was a woman with roughly B-C cup natural boobs, and a slight belly- no toned muscles.
so just do what makes you happy, if u wana eat chocoalte eat chocolate. a bit of fat is great to grab on a nice round body of either sex. its better to be fat and happy than thin and miserable.a beautiful body is soft and round and non cellulity. by all means, eat healthily but dont force yourself to count calories.big is beautiful, the bigger the better, so wear your fat with pride. its not about faness, its about self confidence, and if you are happy you will be confident
hope that helps all u people struggling to stick to a diet
a nice round body is very very beautiful. men - dont struggle to get a six pack, those who do have one must take ages trying to maintain it. its better to spend that time being happy or makeing your gf happy.
my ex was a fat guy, but i loved the fat. we could go for a meal and he'd really enjoy lots of good food, good drink, and didnt care about calories. getting intimate, he didnt care that he was fat, he wasnt at all self conscious, he just enjoyed what he was doing.for me, that was best of all, i'd rather he was like that than obsessed with sl;imming and the gym-instead, he just liked to enjoy himself which was attractive and enjoyable.
for women, a slight belly and big hips and butts looks great.they even made the butt implant to make a butt look bigger, and m&s made £30 padded butt pants. so dont worry about having a big butt- look at beyonce and j-lo. and implants look and feel wrong.so dont feel guilty for eating. and you need fat to carry a baby.who finds stick thin bodies attractive?
i picked up the Sun newspaper in the docs yesterday and noticed on the front page, it was advocating women keeping their virginity with a feature on Katie Holmes. on page three there was a woman with roughly B-C cup natural boobs, and a slight belly- no toned muscles.
so just do what makes you happy, if u wana eat chocoalte eat chocolate. a bit of fat is great to grab on a nice round body of either sex. its better to be fat and happy than thin and miserable.a beautiful body is soft and round and non cellulity. by all means, eat healthily but dont force yourself to count calories.big is beautiful, the bigger the better, so wear your fat with pride. its not about faness, its about self confidence, and if you are happy you will be confident
hope that helps all u people struggling to stick to a diet
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Amen to that. I have plenty of friends who are much bigger than me, but very beautiful.
lol my ex bf dumped me for a fat girl! she was bubbly and fun and pretty but fat. im naturally slim and shy so obviously he chose personality over looks and she won
but a big curvy womans body is very attractive loking
but a big curvy womans body is very attractive loking
well if you were slim you wouldnt be on a diet would you?
and if you were so fat it was affecting your health you wouldnt be fat and happy, so they'd have to diet
if you are slim and happy by all means be happy and eat what you like. this thread was meant to help people who keep dieting and worrying if they are fat.
and if you were so fat it was affecting your health you wouldnt be fat and happy, so they'd have to diet
if you are slim and happy by all means be happy and eat what you like. this thread was meant to help people who keep dieting and worrying if they are fat.
Please please please don't get me wrong, but if you're overweight, there are so many unattractive features. I'm not saying that only slim people are beautiful, I know plenty of attractive large men and women. But, how about the health probs? And the unfitness.... the out of breath, sweaty, smelly (sometimes) bits. Do you know what I mean?
I disagree by all means,first of all i wasn't fat but i was chubby I wasn't happy,seeing all stuff in the shops and not being apble to buy them because I wouldn't look good in them and seeing all of my friends having good bodies ,yes I wasn't happy to be the odd one out,yes after i've lost weight I becaume 3000 times worse emotionally , feeling guilty if I took a bite more,not being able to enjoy food with my friends and being lost what to do,either eat or not,specially about my thyroid gland problem but still at least I like me now more......I'm not trying to get sympathy by this but I'm just saying being fat whatever it was wont make you feel great,and if you are saying your are happy with who you are now you are lieing to yourself thats all you like that fine you dont then deal with it
gonnabavet
Please please please don't get me wrong, but if you're overweight, there are so many unattractive features. I'm not saying that only slim people are beautiful, I know plenty of attractive large men and women. But, how about the health probs? And the unfitness.... the out of breath, sweaty, smelly (sometimes) bits. Do you know what I mean?
But try to remember not all people who are overweight are unfit and have health problems or are sweaty etc!!!!. Just as many slim people have unhealthy diets, are unfit and have health problems. Muscle weighs more than fat remember.
Fat, thin etc doesn't matter. What does matter is to be comfortable with who you are and what you look like. Having a healthy diet, everything in moderation and taking some exercise daily is more important that fat/thin.
habosh
I disagree by all means,first of all i wasn't fat but i was chubby I wasn't happy,seeing all stuff in the shops and not being apble to buy them because I wouldn't look good in them and seeing all of my friends having good bodies ,yes I wasn't happy to be the odd one out,yes after i've lost weight I becaume 3000 times worse emotionally , feeling guilty if I took a bite more,not being able to enjoy food with my friends and being lost what to do,either eat or not,specially about my thyroid gland problem but still at least I like me now more......I'm not trying to get sympathy by this but I'm just saying being fat whatever it was wont make you feel great,and if you are saying your are happy with who you are now you are lieing to yourself thats all you like that fine you dont then deal with it
I lost 6stone due to the fact that i was worried about my health and didn't feel comfortable with weighing that much for health reasons. I ate too much junk and didn't exercise enough simple as that.
After losing that weight i then went onto losing another stone taking the total weight loss up to nearly 7 stone. When i was at my thinnest, i looked ill, pale, withdrawn and was miserable as i was constantly counting calories. I was lethargic all the time and was not any more happy with my body.
I then put on a stone and half which makes me a lot curvier and means i am not constantly counting calories and i am getting to the point now where i like the way i look but it is to do with my mind and confidence i have worked on nothing to do with the weight loss itself. What i am trying to say is some people can be really overweight and may feel comfortable and love their bodies, then good on them the same for people who are really thin or slim or even in between.
Other people like me could be six stone lighter and still not be any happier at all with their body or looks. So people who do weigh a bit more, i do believe can be genuinely happy with themselves. It is all to do with the mind, you can be 6 stone or 16 stone and love your body and feel comfortable with yourself or you can be either of those weights and still dislike yourself. It's about how you feel inside about your body, losing weight is not the key to suddenly loving yourself and accepting yourself for who you are.
It is about having the right frame of mind which is the key to liking yourself.
I think this is a very admirable thread. The point isnt that fat people are more attractive than thin ones, its that being a sensible healthy weight is best, and being a little either way does not mean we should be mocked or called unattractive.
There are just as many health problems with being underweight as being over... eating disorders comes from both ends of the scale, and really eating can be a sensitive subject for most of us. Acceptance and happiness would be a far better thing than neuroses and lack of confidence.
Now personally, I hate my weight, but thats because Im unhealthy. If I was just a little bit wrong weight wise, I would want people to find me beautiful and disregard that I might have a little bit of puppy fat, just as if I was a little underweight I wouldnt want people called me a stick insect or making jokes about eating disorders. It would be nice if we were more open minded about body types, and i think this is what the thread is trying to promote.
Ok, if your weight is making you unhealthy, change might be good, but I dont think we should constantly pressurise healthy people who just dont have perfect figures into eating more/less. its just plain mean. We all find different things attractive. It'd be a bit boring if we didnt!
There are just as many health problems with being underweight as being over... eating disorders comes from both ends of the scale, and really eating can be a sensitive subject for most of us. Acceptance and happiness would be a far better thing than neuroses and lack of confidence.
Now personally, I hate my weight, but thats because Im unhealthy. If I was just a little bit wrong weight wise, I would want people to find me beautiful and disregard that I might have a little bit of puppy fat, just as if I was a little underweight I wouldnt want people called me a stick insect or making jokes about eating disorders. It would be nice if we were more open minded about body types, and i think this is what the thread is trying to promote.
Ok, if your weight is making you unhealthy, change might be good, but I dont think we should constantly pressurise healthy people who just dont have perfect figures into eating more/less. its just plain mean. We all find different things attractive. It'd be a bit boring if we didnt!
queenselphie
I think this is a very admirable thread. The point isnt that fat people are more attractive than thin ones, its that being a sensible healthy weight is best, and being a little either way does not mean we should be mocked or called unattractive.
There are just as many health problems with being underweight as being over... eating disorders comes from both ends of the scale, and really eating can be a sensitive subject for most of us. Acceptance and happiness would be a far better thing than neuroses and lack of confidence.
Now personally, I hate my weight, but thats because Im unhealthy. If I was just a little bit wrong weight wise, I would want people to find me beautiful and disregard that I might have a little bit of puppy fat, just as if I was a little underweight I wouldnt want people called me a stick insect or making jokes about eating disorders. It would be nice if we were more open minded about body types, and i think this is what the thread is trying to promote.
Ok, if your weight is making you unhealthy, change might be good, but I dont think we should constantly pressurise healthy people who just dont have perfect figures into eating more/less. its just plain mean. We all find different things attractive. It'd be a bit boring if we didnt!
There are just as many health problems with being underweight as being over... eating disorders comes from both ends of the scale, and really eating can be a sensitive subject for most of us. Acceptance and happiness would be a far better thing than neuroses and lack of confidence.
Now personally, I hate my weight, but thats because Im unhealthy. If I was just a little bit wrong weight wise, I would want people to find me beautiful and disregard that I might have a little bit of puppy fat, just as if I was a little underweight I wouldnt want people called me a stick insect or making jokes about eating disorders. It would be nice if we were more open minded about body types, and i think this is what the thread is trying to promote.
Ok, if your weight is making you unhealthy, change might be good, but I dont think we should constantly pressurise healthy people who just dont have perfect figures into eating more/less. its just plain mean. We all find different things attractive. It'd be a bit boring if we didnt!
Well said!!!!!
niamhster
I lost 6stone due to the fact that i was worried about my health and didn't feel comfortable with weighing that much for health reasons. I ate too much junk and didn't exercise enough simple as that.
After losing that weight i then went onto losing another stone taking the total weight loss up to nearly 7 stone. When i was at my thinnest, i looked ill, pale, withdrawn and was miserable as i was constantly counting calories. I was lethargic all the time and was not any more happy with my body.
right frame of mind which is the key to liking yourself.
After losing that weight i then went onto losing another stone taking the total weight loss up to nearly 7 stone. When i was at my thinnest, i looked ill, pale, withdrawn and was miserable as i was constantly counting calories. I was lethargic all the time and was not any more happy with my body.
right frame of mind which is the key to liking yourself.
oh yeah,but I don't think you'll be happy if you piut all of the 7 stones back,I mean come one lets no lie to our selves we always wanna look great,and being fat means your are not looking your best,and you have a high fat level,I count how much I eat daily most of the time,and it's tiering and makes you mad and tense but if I didn't I would eat uncouncious,your happy for putting back a stone and a half while i'm blaming my self for putting 600 grams last month,people can go like oh your stupid 600 grams is nothing and stuff like that but for it is something very extreamly big and I feel that if I put 600 grams at the end of the year i'd put a million
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