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girls are too easily led-on?

mm just wandered what ppl's opinions are on how easy girls are led-on...
partly down to how much will-power they have to say 'no' to say another drink, or a person coming on to them...

i guess it's individually dependent, but my opinion is that they are quite easily-influenced or encouraged~

Reply 1

frost105

14

Personally if I dont want to talk to someone I dont and I NEVER let someone I dont know buy me a drink.

I'm a bit of a hard faced bitch sometimes :p:

Some of my friends are easier to co-erce by guys but largely because they're intimidated. my best mate in particular is small and not very strong and easy to indimidate.

Reply 2

need_money

9

I am TERRIBLE when it comes to saying no. Its almost impossible for me. :frown:

I think its actually a big problem with me because it ends up getting me in trouble or whatever and thats never good.

Reply 3

twiga

15

Depends if I'm single. If I am then I'll admit to being quite easily led, but when I'm in a relationship I'm dangerous if anyone tries it on!

Reply 4

Inverurie Jones

1

Anyone who actually thinks shampoos do what it says in the adverts must be at least slightly gullible... :biggrin:

Reply 5

FlutterByKisses

1

hmmm... i think i am kinda niave. And i know I should be careful when it comes down to alcohol. If I'm tipsy I'm more likely to be led astray. I don't drink much as a rule. I love my boyfriend am I'm determined not to let anything happenbetween me and anyone else. A drunken kiss or two is not worth my relationship to me.

what would you do if something did happen between you and someone else (under the influence of alcohol) if you were in a relationship?

Reply 6

Blue Bliss

6

Aw hell yea.

And its such a waste...

Reply 7

Enola

9

frost105

Personally if I dont want to talk to someone I dont and I NEVER let someone I dont know buy me a drink.

Im the same, I never let somebody I don't know buy me a drink! Im quite happy to say no to somebody I don't like or know, im quite direct in that sense when im out.

Reply 8

Ali_04

7

yeh i find double vodka and cokes are the evil influence..i'm too drawn to them and they have (ahem) strange effects on me.... aghh! (actually bacardis and malibu.... and wine ....and champagne have been known to do the same...oops!)

*MUST resist the flattery next time*..hmmm

Reply 9

magiccarpet

2

i dont drink

and i dont have sex

Reply 10

Nikki J S

Lucas

mm just wandered what ppl's opinions are on how easy girls are led-on...
partly down to how much will-power they have to say 'no' to say another drink, or a person coming on to them...

i guess it's individually dependent, but my opinion is that they are quite easily-influenced or encouraged~

led on to do what?

Reply 11

embelina

1

if i like the guy, they can lead me on for ages...i make myself believe anything bout them...but, if i dont like sumone, i can say no, or pretend im going out with my friend..even if they r female too!

Reply 12

queenselphie

Im a little bit easily led on, and yet I can stand up for myself...
I dont like hurt or upset or disappoint others, so I often let myself be used as a doormat and cant say no...but...I think I usually know what Im getting into, its not like I get fooled or gullible, I see the possible downfalls of the situation, and then go into it anyway, because I want to help, or be nice.
But I can say no, in a nice way sometimes. I think I take time to explain why Ive said no, if I do.

Reply 13

Apricot Fairy

16

I think I'm quite easily led on if I like someone, i.e. I'd believe he liked me too, even if he didn't really. :frown:

Reply 14

magiccarpet

2

my friend who has slept with over 50 women says if you look and dress expensivly, walk into any bar/pub and order whisky/expensive drink, you will have girls clawing over you. he says spend £300 on any girl and she'll guilt trip her way into bed.

and on the cheap side, go for the loud brash dyed blonds caked in makeup hanging out of their too tight or non existant clothes, drunk at the end of the night- this will cost you nothing although you may wll get std

Reply 15

frost105

14

magiccarpet

my friend who has slept with over 50 women says if you look and dress expensivly, walk into any bar/pub and order whisky/expensive drink, you will have girls clawing over you. he says spend £300 on any girl and she'll guilt trip her way into bed.

and on the cheap side, go for the loud brash dyed blonds caked in makeup hanging out of their too tight or non existant clothes, drunk at the end of the night- this will cost you nothing although you may wll get std

Sounds more like your friend is just choosing women who have very low self esteem.

Reply 16

Helenia

20

magiccarpet

my friend who has slept with over 50 women says if you look and dress expensivly, walk into any bar/pub and order whisky/expensive drink, you will have girls clawing over you. he says spend £300 on any girl and she'll guilt trip her way into bed.

and on the cheap side, go for the loud brash dyed blonds caked in makeup hanging out of their too tight or non existant clothes, drunk at the end of the night- this will cost you nothing although you may wll get std

You C&Ped this from another thread, and I say the same here as I did there - they could actually use their one brain cell and use a condom, and voila no STIs.