Would you sleep with/date someone who was overweight (as in over size 18)?

I'm wondering what people's preferences/opinions are when it comes to overweight/fat/obese partners? It seems like a really tender issue at times.

Reply 1

Aack

amelialynch

It seems like a really tender issue at times.

Tender....succulent...all good words.

Reply 2

username196545

19

No. I dislike overweight people.

Not as people, but as a partner... no.

Reply 3

BramsSTFU

10

I'm trying to imagine a size 18 bloke and all I can think of is that signature that some has on TSR of a fat guy in underwear dancing.

And in asnwer to your question.... Hug buddy yes, but not a f*** buddy

Reply 4

paulapie

I don't want to be rude about anyone.. but I know what I think is slightly offensive..
Fatness makes me feel sick. I know people who are fat can be nice people obviously, but it just really repulses me. Sorry :frown:

Reply 5

Profesh

20

Probably not.

Reply 6

sparkplug

11

Whether someone is overweight or not often varies quite a bit from person to person.

Having said that, if I considered a woman to be overweight then no I wouldn't date/sleep with them. Doesn't mean they're a bad person [although they probably are], just that they're not my type.

Reply 7

KwungSun

13

Hell no. Get that **** outta here...

Reply 8

Square

13

no, sorry.

Reply 9

xxsarahjwxx

Yes.
I don't really care what people look like - it's their personality that matters.

Reply 10

KwungSun

13

BUT I probably would so somebody overweight sooner than I would do somebody seriously anorexic.

Reply 11

milesofsea

15

Only if I ever became that size. Otherwise probably no.

Reply 12

james_dow

14

naw, chubby probably fat nonono

Reply 13

username114608

paulapie

I don't want to be rude about anyone.. but I know what I think is slightly offensive..
Fatness makes me feel sick. I know people who are fat can be nice people obviously, but it just really repulses me. Sorry :frown:

Wouldn't go as far as that but I wouldn't date them because I don't find very fat/obese attractive. This is coming from a person who 1 year ago weighed 6 stone more than he does now. If I was a girl I wouldn't have been attracted/ wanted a relationship with me a year ago - and its not like the fat person in question can't just...lose the weight thats making them look unattractive.

Reply 14

amelialynch

OP

sparkplug

Whether someone is overweight or not often varies quite a bit from person to person.

Having said that, if I considered a woman to be overweight then no I wouldn't date/sleep with them. Doesn't mean they're a bad person [although they probably are], just that they're not my type.

What do you mean?

Reply 15

Ilora-Danon

3

Chubby, quite possibly, but I wouldn't go for someone who had a mahoosive beer/pizza belly and/or double chin.
I'd expect my partner to put at least as much effort into his health and fitness that I put into mine.

Reply 16

9MmBulletz

16

xxsarahjwxx

Yes.
I don't really care what people look like - it's their personality that matters.

bait lies

Reply 17

xxsarahjwxx

Pheradin

Wouldn't go as far as that but I wouldn't date them because I don't find very fat/obese attractive. This is coming from a person who 1 year ago weighed 6 stone more than he does now. If I was a girl I wouldn't have been attracted/ wanted a relationship with me a year ago - and its not like the fat person in question can't just...lose the weight thats making them look unattractive.