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I'm a 21 year old girl. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years and am really happy with him. I love him with everything I have to give. We have a healthy sex life, having sex 3-5 times a week... I am always stimulated and climax during intercourse and my boyfriend is amazing in bed... however...
I want to have sex everyday and feel unfulfilled if I don't have it, I even resort to watching porn when my boyfriend goes to bed in his room (We live in shared accomodation with friends and have our seperate rooms) and masturbating. My friend bought me a rampant rabbit for my 21st as a joke but I use it... Am I a nympomaniac or just very sexually active?! Is this being deceitful to my boyfriend??
Should I tell my boyfriend?? I don't expect to have sex everyday as that isn't fair on him but I feel like I want to have it everyday, like if we're watching films on the sofa or in bed, I want to have sex after and if he goes to bed or to play on the x-box with our housemates I feel deflated and upset... I don't want it to start affecting our relationship... is there anything I can do??
Sorry for the lengthy post! Thanks in advance....
I bet he has a **** sometimes.
Ja, agreed with the above post; Some men may feel the same as you (that they want sex every day). You never know, he may be one of these but feels the same as you, he doesn't want to say anything in case it effects the relationship. This may not be the case however, I obviously don't know him.
Phew, I just Googled Rampant Rabbit and found out what that is. For a moment, I was very worried!
Well I can understand the need to you know.........sometimes if my gf wasn't around, but I suppose I'd start getting frustrated if I had to when she was. Hmmmm. I see your point a bit better now.
Google Girl with a one track mind. These days she is far more political and feminist, but while she was still anonymous (i.e. up until about 2 years ago) she wrote explicitly about... well what you are writing about. I guess part of your confusion is that you don't know anyone else who feels like that. I advise reading her early stuff.
Nah you're not. No such things as wanting it too much, as far as i'm concerned, girls probably want sex as much, if not more than guys.
And that's saying something.
no you aren't. you just have a high sex drive which is definately a plus.
no.you a not ..dont worry..as a boy,i always have the same feeling..but in fact,,we are different physiologically..so we cant afford to do it everyday..just love your life...dont worry..
Nah, I think you have a strong sex drive, but you don't sound obsessive. Most of us blokes have similar sexual needs.
Tell him how you feel, not us.
i have sex daily if i can, its completely normal. if not, it sounds like most of us are nymphomaniacs - but is that a problem!?