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Am I a nymphomaniac?!

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I'm a 21 year old girl. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years and am really happy with him. I love him with everything I have to give. We have a healthy sex life, having sex 3-5 times a week... I am always stimulated and climax during intercourse and my boyfriend is amazing in bed... however...
I want to have sex everyday and feel unfulfilled if I don't have it, I even resort to watching porn when my boyfriend goes to bed in his room (We live in shared accomodation with friends and have our seperate rooms) and masturbating. My friend bought me a rampant rabbit for my 21st as a joke but I use it... Am I a nympomaniac or just very sexually active?! Is this being deceitful to my boyfriend??

Should I tell my boyfriend?? I don't expect to have sex everyday as that isn't fair on him but I feel like I want to have it everyday, like if we're watching films on the sofa or in bed, I want to have sex after and if he goes to bed or to play on the x-box with our housemates I feel deflated and upset... I don't want it to start affecting our relationship... is there anything I can do??

Sorry for the lengthy post! Thanks in advance....

Reply 1

SuperSam_Fantastiche

16

I bet he has a **** sometimes.

Reply 2

Philosoraptor

18

Anonymous

Please keep anonymous as family and friends use this. Thanks.

I'm a 21 year old girl. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years and am really happy with him. I love him with everything I have to give. We have a healthy sex life, having sex 3-5 times a week... I am always stimulated and climax during intercourse and my boyfriend is amazing in bed... however...
I want to have sex everyday and feel unfulfilled if I don't have it, I even resort to watching porn when my boyfriend goes to bed in his room (We live in shared accomodation with friends and have our seperate rooms) and masturbating. My friend bought me a rampant rabbit for my 21st as a joke but I use it... Am I a nympomaniac or just very sexually active?! Is this being deceitful to my boyfriend??

Should I tell my boyfriend?? I don't expect to have sex everyday as that isn't fair on him but I feel like I want to have it everyday, like if we're watching films on the sofa or in bed, I want to have sex after and if he goes to bed or to play on the x-box with our housemates I feel deflated and upset... I don't want it to start affecting our relationship... is there anything I can do??

Sorry for the lengthy post! Thanks in advance....

In a word. No. You are not. Any time I'd meet my ex we would, and multiple times in each day... So no - if you were a boy you'd just be thinking it were normal... don't worry - be happy you have such a good drive!

Reply 3

XeaL`

Ja, agreed with the above post; Some men may feel the same as you (that they want sex every day). You never know, he may be one of these but feels the same as you, he doesn't want to say anything in case it effects the relationship. This may not be the case however, I obviously don't know him.

Reply 4

Ascient

15

Phew, I just Googled Rampant Rabbit and found out what that is. For a moment, I was very worried!

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Thankyou, I'm just worried... I don't know what to do for the best. I feel like im being selfish pleasuring myself but I don't know what to do about it :frown:

I feel dirty sometimes, like it isn't normal to want it so much...
I don't think he likes it as much as me, but it's still good!!
I'm just worried if I do say something it'll ruin things...
Do any other girls feel like this???

Reply 6

XeaL`

Well what is not normal about wanting to feel what your body can provide? It feels "amazing" or something I'm sure, it's also natural... what's so 'dirty' and 'selfish' about it? You're not hurting anybody else nor are you causing damage to anyone or any thing... except maybe the poor rabbit. :frown:

If you're that worried then perhaps it may be best to not say anything, but perhaps you could suggest it in another way? Or perhaps "make the move" a bit more? I don't know, could be the same.

Reply 7

Philosoraptor

18

Well I can understand the need to you know.........sometimes if my gf wasn't around, but I suppose I'd start getting frustrated if I had to when she was. Hmmmm. I see your point a bit better now.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Philosoraptor

Well I can understand the need to you know.........sometimes if my gf wasn't around, but I suppose I'd start getting frustrated if I had to when she was. Hmmmm. I see your point a bit better now.

I just feel like if I tell him, he'll be upset and think he's inadequate or not good enough, when he is... it's just we don't always do it as much as I like. I can't decide if it's the actual sex I enjoy so much or the intimacy...

I was just thinking if the boot was on the other foot, I'd be a bit upset if I knew he was in his room ******* every night after I'd gone to sleep... so is it best to not mention it??? I just feel like I'm keeping stuff from him and I hate it...

Thanks for all your help so far!

Reply 9

Cirsium

19

Google Girl with a one track mind. These days she is far more political and feminist, but while she was still anonymous (i.e. up until about 2 years ago) she wrote explicitly about... well what you are writing about. I guess part of your confusion is that you don't know anyone else who feels like that. I advise reading her early stuff.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Bekaboo

Google Girl with a one track mind. These days she is far more political and feminist, but while she was still anonymous (i.e. up until about 2 years ago) she wrote explicitly about... well what you are writing about. I guess part of your confusion is that you don't know anyone else who feels like that. I advise reading her early stuff.

Thankyou! I'm checking it out now!
I'm so confused by it all =(

Reply 11

username163729

12

Nah you're not. No such things as wanting it too much, as far as i'm concerned, girls probably want sex as much, if not more than guys.

And that's saying something.

Reply 12

archlord destin

no you aren't. you just have a high sex drive which is definately a plus.

Reply 13

AmyFran

11

Ascient

Phew, I just Googled Rampant Rabbit and found out one that is. For a moment, I was very worried!

lol @ this :yep:

Reply 14

usernameofme

no.you a not ..dont worry..as a boy,i always have the same feeling..but in fact,,we are different physiologically..so we cant afford to do it everyday..just love your life...dont worry..

Reply 15

Dionysus

15

Nah, I think you have a strong sex drive, but you don't sound obsessive. Most of us blokes have similar sexual needs.

Reply 16

H&C

Luca118

If he is too tired to have sex, masturbate in front of him!! You get your pleasure and it would probably turn him on anywayy!

I agree with this. I don't know any blokes who wouldn't want to watch their girl play with themself in front of them. I love my fella watching me (with and without toys) and judging by his reaction, he likes to watch too.

Sounds to me like you just have a healthy appetite. I say make the most of it!