(which happens to be equal to E(XY)-E(X)E(Y) the definition you may have seen). But in any case, from the definition you can check
Cov(X+Z,Y) = Cov(X,Y) + Cov(Z,Y)
and that's why you can 'expand brackets' (and similarly in the second 'slot'). It's also clear that covariance is 'symmetric': Cov(X,Y)=Cov(Y,X) and that Cov(X,X)=Var(X). These are all the properties of covariance that I used.
The upshot is that you need to work out Var(X) and Var(Y) and then you are sorted, as the answer is their difference.