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Hayley_2k4

12

What would you class as cheating? kissing? sex? or even flirting?

share your views here :biggrin:

Reply 1

john !!

14

kissing and above
flirting is subjective, some people are naturally like that, some consider it more "meaningfull" than others.

intention

It isnt about what you do, it's about how you make the other person feel.
If you flirt with others all the time and that upsets them, thats just as bad as doing something. It's not good to hurt people.
You can cheat emotionally. (thats not to be confused with having a crush on someone else while in a relationship. Thats one thing. Telling your crush you fancy them and being soppy together and huggy but not kissing is another)
There's a chance I'd forgive a kiss,if they were drunk, or it was brief, if I really liked the person, but if they put me through psychological torture by always flirting with others, and having special soppy relationships with friends they admitted to fancying, I'd be more likely to end things.

Reply 4

SilverWings

14

BlackHawk

intention

Bullsh*t!!

I'm really sorry but, everyone thinks about other people when they are with someone... you gotta actually physically DO something for it to be cheating!! :eek:

Reply 5

Wzz

11

SilverWings

I'm really sorry but, everyone thinks about other people when they are with someone...

... and thinking about someone doesn't imply intention to cheat. As soon as you think about doing it, you may as well; you don't want to be with who you're with now.

Reply 6

BlackHawk

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SilverWings

Bullsh*t!!

I'm really sorry but, everyone thinks about other people when they are with someone... you gotta actually physically DO something for it to be cheating!! :eek:

maybe, in past relationships I have thought about other people but never in a 'I want him/her' way. I can safely say in my current relationship I have never even entertained the idea of thinking about anyone else. Far too busy concentrating on the man I have :wink:

Sex and foreplay

Amzybaby24

Sex and foreplay

so if you kiss someone you don't consider that cheating? :eek:

nope

Amzybaby24

nope

so you'd be happy in the event that you were married to a man, you loved him utterly and he would kiss another woman and have intentions with her and you would be ok with it? :eek:

If any man did that to me it would show me he had no respect for me and his ass would be dumped very very quickly. I respect myself too much to let a man ever think less of me.

Reply 11

Amzybaby24

1

in that situation it'd be different i dint realsie u meant when married!

Reply 12

_Jax_

1

I think even looking at someone else is cheating, if you do you should have a cold shower and say 20 hail marys before bed.

Reply 13

twiga

15

Wzz

... and thinking about someone doesn't imply intention to cheat. As soon as you think about doing it, you may as well; you don't want to be with who you're with now.

And if you do think about it then for gods sake don't let the other person find out!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:mad:

Reply 14

Lidka

13

Flirting, if it's intentional. Though if my (hypothetical) partner was thinking about someone else then I think I'd feel as betrayed as I would if they'd slept with them. Maybe I'm just possessive :p:

very!

Amzybaby24

very!

So, about your above posts, your boyfriend could quite happily go out, kiss say 6 other females. And you wouldn't mind?

Reply 17

Amzybaby24

1

erk

So, about your above posts, your boyfriend could quite happily go out, kiss say 6 other females. And you wouldn't mind?

unles it had ben longer than a yr then yes

Reply 18

ruthiepoothie

11

lessthanthree

Kissing, well - it hurts, but it's forgivable.

I disagree....kissing is a very intimate thing in my opinion- and is not something that is done 'by accident'.

Ruthie xx

EDIT- although it's probably one of those things that you wouldn't know what you'd do until it happens to you

Reply 19

Feefifofum

16

I'd say kissing definitely, and anything more than that yes obvioulsy. Flirting is a but more of a grey area - I think I would put it down to this - if one of the people involved in the flirting thinks that it might be leading anywhere thgen it is cheating, but if it is just flirting for the sake of it and neither party thinks that it is anything more then it might be OK.

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