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Can anyone help? :confused:

Last August my boyfriend broke up with me after 18 months and it took me a long time to get over it. In September I started my gap year job, and although I've built up quite a good social life there, all my work friends are twentysomethings and most of them are married or at least in long term relationships. There's one guy who is single, and I really like him, but it isn't going to happen.

So basically, I'm lonely, I'd love to be with someone again, but I never get the chance to meet new people. I know I'll be going to uni in the autumn, but it seems to far away. This year so far has been crawling by.

I want to be with someone so much. What can I do? I have no way of meeting new men!

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I'm the same with meeting single girls, it's really diffiult..
Reply 2
Awwwwww, maybe you two should get together. :cool: Hehe.

Seriously though, to the threadstarter I really suggest you hold out until Autumn. It is not a long way and I'm sure you can find enough to occupy yourself in the meantime. Think of the advantages of finding someone at uni and not having to cope with an LDR.

Not that if you find someone you like that you should give him up for that reason of course :smile:
Reply 3
i m in my gap year and feel miserable

may be we should meet. ^^
Gap years are a bit rubbish, really..... :frown:

Rushda: I know to most people it's not long until the autumn, but I am so bloody lonely. I just want some lovely man to be with. :frown:
Reply 5
FTSE100
i m in my gap year and feel miserable

may be we should meet. ^^

I feel miserable too. Gap year's made me feel so detached from everything.
Reply 6
I too, just want some lovely lady to be with.
Reply 7
susiemakemeblue
Gap years are a bit rubbish, really..... :frown:

Rushda: I know to most people it's not long until the autumn, but I am so bloody lonely. I just want some lovely man to be with. :frown:

It's much worse if you have a lovely man you can't be with... :frown: lol.
There is a lovely man. But he doesn't want me. He told me yesterday he's even considered speed dating. But he still doesn't want me.




Now I feel like there must be something really wrong with me. :frown:
hello susie :eek: :love:
Reply 10
susiemakemeblue
There is a lovely man. But he doesn't want me. He told me yesterday he's even considered speed dating. But he still doesn't want me.




Now I feel like ther must be something really wrong with me.

Don't be absurd. He may be lovely but if he doesn't like you that way he's not worth the fuss!

There's nothing wrong with you at all.
Then why doesn't anybody except losers and dirty old men want me?
Reply 12
susiemakemeblue
Then why doesn't anybody except losers and dirty old men want me?


huh......... thanks
Reply 13
susiemakemeblue
Then why doesn't anybody except losers and dirty old men want me?

Because you just don't know enough yet?
Reply 14
LonelyDogsBite
hello susie :eek: :love:

:rofl:
FTSE100
huh......... thanks


What?? You don't want me! :p:

Or if you do, just from this post, that's slightly worrying, as all you know about me is that I'm a girl on a gap year...!
Reply 16
susiemakemeblue
What?? You don't want me! :p:

Or if you do, just from this post, that's slightly worrying, as all you know about me is that I'm a girl on a gap year...!



just desperate i guess.

which Uni r u going to ? if u dont mind
Bristol. You?
Reply 18
FTSE100
just desperate i guess.

which Uni r u going to ? if u dont mind

I'm sure it's very flattering to know that the only guy who "likes" you, likes you because they are desperate.
Reply 19
Lse.