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(Original post by Adhsur)
I'm sure it's very flattering to know that the only guy who "likes" you, likes you because they are desperate.
Yes, quite...
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Do you cry yourself to sleep at night?
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Sometimes I do over this one guy.......but that is a very personal question! :p:
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Sometimes I do over this one guy.......but that is a very personal question! :p:
aww, I used to over a girl I used to like

still do
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Gap years are great if you do something good with them!!
And have a butchers in the picture thread, sure you'll find plenty of sexy people!
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Yeah.....on the internet!
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Hey by the sounds of it ur all pretty lonely, just remember that u dont need another person to make u happy!

Life's not a fairy tale nor a movie so remember all the things that make u happy and go find them.. a partner is not a must. When the time is right u will find him/her, u cant force love

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No offence, but that DOES NOT HELP!
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really?

sorry

which bit didnt help the most?
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Desperate girls are the least attractive, be forward definetely but not desperate!
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(Original post by susiemakemeblue)
Can anyone help? :confused:

Last August my boyfriend broke up with me after 18 months and it took me a long time to get over it. In September I started my gap year job, and although I've built up quite a good social life there, all my work friends are twentysomethings and most of them are married or at least in long term relationships. There's one guy who is single, and I really like him, but it isn't going to happen.

So basically, I'm lonely, I'd love to be with someone again, but I never get the chance to meet new people. I know I'll be going to uni in the autumn, but it seems to far away. This year so far has been crawling by.

I want to be with someone so much. What can I do? I have no way of meeting new men!
as soon as you stop looking you'll meet someone. it's always the way.

i'm on my gap year at teh moment and although i have a boyfriend he's away at uni and so it is quite lonely. (same thing with older work friends - i get on with everyone really well but it's not the same!)

i've recently started dance classes and i find it so much fun to go out and meet lots of new people - not necessarily blokes, just everyone!

so think of something you want to do and go and join a club or something. best way to meet people because you'll have somethign in common to begin with! but you need to do it because you want to do the thing, not because you want to meet a boyfriend, if you see what i mean?

and it really isn't that long til autumn. if you find lots of things you enjoy doing that keep you busy the time will fly by!
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as soon as you stop looking you'll meet someone. it's always the way.

i'm on my gap year at teh moment and although i have a boyfriend he's away at uni and so it is quite lonely. (same thing with older work friends - i get on with everyone really well but it's not the same!)

i've recently started dance classes and i find it so much fun to go out and meet lots of new people - not necessarily blokes, just everyone!

so think of something you want to do and go and join a club or something. best way to meet people because you'll have somethign in common to begin with! but you need to do it because you want to do the thing, not because you want to meet a boyfriend, if you see what i mean?

and it really isn't that long til autumn. if you find lots of things you enjoy doing that keep you busy the time will fly by!

That's all very well in principle, but seriously, the only thing I could join around here is the WI! Where I live there are just bungalows.
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wtf?? whay is it not happenig with the fit single guy at work? and when u go out wiv ur mates dont u meet fit guys in pubs/clubs?
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Although you may not think this helps, I would reiterate what others have said. If you're feeling lonely and would like to find a boyfriend, the best thing you can do is go with the flow and let a relationship happen naturally. If you actively seek something such as a relationship, you're likely to be dissapointed.
Go out and have a good time with friends. A girl who looks carefree and happy with herself is a far more attractive prospect for a guy, i'd say.
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YEAH!!!
two words: makeup and chocolate!
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Well, it seems a lot of the women in Bristol are taken with bfs back home, yet strangely the guys aren't, so there'll be plenty of guys on the lookout or an eligible single girl. I'm sure you'll have no problem here.
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Well, it seems a lot of the women in Bristol are taken with bfs back home, yet strangely the guys aren't, so there'll be plenty of guys on the lookout or an eligible single girl. I'm sure you'll have no problem here.
I hope so!

I just don't really have anyone single to go out with at the moment. All my girlie friends are loved up and don't want to know, and I only seem to socialise with couples at the moment. Even when I go to clubs, I go with couples, and they're places very far away from where I live, so even if I did meet someone it wouldn't really be practical to get together with them.

And then I stay at his house afterwards.
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that's a load of %^&& saying that it's not long til august you try being so lonely you just want to cry all the time and see how you feel. susiemakemeblue i'm the same all my friends male and female all have partners so i have no one to go out with. i'm going to end up going to the ball by myself for the 2nd yr running. i think we should have a tsr singles room ...
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(Original post by anjimcflanji)
that's a load of %^&& saying that it's not long til august you try being so lonely you just want to cry all the time and see how you feel. susiemakemeblue i'm the same all my friends male and female all have partners so i have no one to go out with. i'm going to end up going to the ball by myself for the 2nd yr running. i think we should have a tsr singles room ...
I think the person was trying to say that it's not that bad being single. Despite being lonely, remember that you're at least single, and not with the wrong person. I choose being single over being with the wrong girl any day.
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(Original post by El Pollo Diablo)
Well, it seems a lot of the women in Bristol are taken with bfs back home, yet strangely the guys aren't, so there'll be plenty of guys on the lookout or an eligible single girl. I'm sure you'll have no problem here.
That's because for every girl at uni claiming to be taken so she doesn't seem like a desperate ****, there's a guy at some other uni having loads of fun and certainly not acting like he's taken.
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