Who Is being unreasonable here?

Dump!

to me or that other lass?

As long as you haven't done anything to him then yeah what he is doing is unfair. My girlfriend stayed over at this guys house last night and i know they have a history, i trust her not to have done anything but i am still very worried that she has cheated on me.

I got a text from this guys girlfriend this morning telling me that she had just caught them in the same bed. What do you think i should do?

Right, this is going to be a confusing post. Right, now I have this boyfriend who quite controlling, he does not like me talking to men for fear I will ‘go off with them’. He checks my phone, and makes me delete blokes numbers from my phone. Right, and there’s this guy, I used to talk to, that he cannot stand, and who I am ‘never’ allowed to talk to. He made me block him on msn, and reads my chat logs to see if I’ve been speaking to him, he also makes me delete his numbers, and I’m never allowed to see him.

Right, so he has this other mate, one I cannot stand, and my bf knows I hate his mate. But he still goes to see him, and lies to me, saying he hasn’t been to see him, he still talks to him, and everything. Even though, I’m not allowed to talk to my mate. He said to me ‘if I want to see my mates, I will, no matter what you say’ which is fair enough, but when I said the same to him he said ‘oh, you’ll go off and leave me, I bet you fancy all those men, don’t you?’ then he started saying, I’m never allowed to go clubbing on my own in case I get drunk and go off with some bloke. He also said he wants a text from me saying where I’m going, whenever I am going somewhere he doesn’t know about. (eg. Up the shops to get milk)
And then if he finds out I went out, and didn’t text him, he gets all on edge saying ‘I bet you met some bloke, didn’t you’?

I just don’t’ feel it’s fair, that he can see his mate (who he knows I hate) he goes and see’s him, even though he knows I don’t like it. But yet, I can’t even talk to mine on msn. it’s like I’m being controlled. But my one friend, thinks I’m the one controlling him. Who Is being unreasonable here?

Thats the prime reason the thread starters bf is like he is, he's got sence.
And dump the bitch.

For the love of god- any god- stop it! It's like a bloody talk show. If your relationship makes you unhappy, end it. They are supposed to make you happy.

I just don’t’ feel it’s fair, that he can see his mate (who he knows I hate) he goes and see’s him, even though he knows I don’t like it. But yet, I can’t even talk to mine on msn. it’s like I’m being controlled. But my one friend, thinks I’m the one controlling him. Who Is being unreasonable here?

I don't think it's good to come to any kind of conclusion simply from hearing the threadstarter's side of the story. Of course she's going to come out as the reasonable one.

But yes, I agree, if that really is the case then he is wrong.