Moving on from the whole mess of women... by hanging out with other women.

My definition of a womaniser is somebody who goes with gals for reasons other than they like them and think they're a nice person. For example, for sex, or other reasons that are beneficial to the 'womaniser' and who is going with several different gals at the same time. When you say getting into the dating game what do you mean? Seeing a random gal who is attractive and asking her out? There's nothing wrong with that as long as your not doing it just for sex which is what happens quite often when people get asked out based on their looks. I personally think relationships are better started when people have got to know each other.

So do I. Thats what I've been doing generally. But it hasn't turned out well. The girl I met was into some really cool stuff like anime and japanese culture; so even though I dont know her that well, I still think I'll ask her out again. Just wanna meet new people.

As for the sex thing. I really couldn't give a monkeys about sex, sex is sex; I'd prefer to be in a relationship really. Something wrong with sex outside one. Not sure what. Technically it shouldn't be bad if they're both ok with it.

i think you should go to Japan...

You mean for fun? Cos I wanna do that actually. For a holiday or summat. My friend had fun teaching english over there. Might as well go over there for a bit, maybe Singapore and Hong Kong too...

Dunno, oriental culture interests me a little.

i think you mean a lot

talking of this my friend taught english in chinese schools for 6 months in his gap yr. He said it was amazing

Ya got me, :P it interests me quite a lot (my bedroom is very oriental lol).

But its nice to have a great interest that isn't considered totally nerdy (like all the other stuff I'm interested), you can like... talk about it casually and come off as knowledgable instead of as a loser. Something you can bring up in casual convo; you can't really do that with information about anime and stuff XD.

BACTERIA.

And yeah, teaching abroad in one of those programmes is also all expenses paid!

One of my bro's uni friends went to Japan to teach and came back with a fiancee lol

Yeah well, I've heard thats cos the japanese are very respecting of people from england (and westerners), they also generally think that british men will treat their woman better than a japanese man would.

Basically, it seems that its not too hard to get a date in japan if you're some crazy western gaijin need in of some love.

Might be a lie though.

But hey...

Why do you think most anime characters are generally white? : /

now there's a conundrum


maybe cos facial features stand out more on a white background?

Granted its just as weird to see a character that is meant to be japanese have purple hair.


But either way, I've heard stories of guys going to the east SPECIFICALLY to get a date.

Its a little pathetic isn't it? : /