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Ooooo this is my kinda subject....
lol..easy girls..... 
Markus are you privy to any opinions yourself or do just get off on starting threads?!
visesh
bitch.
lessthanthree
So, if there's nothing remotely constructive to be said, I may as well just click this :\
-Also, what's with the CAPITALS in your TITLES?!?!? IS IT BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL NOTICE YOU MORE? BECAUSE IT'S REALLY ANNOYING!
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Whatever, I'll be sensible.
Yes, of course gossip can ruin a relationship - gossip generally isn't talking about people in a nice way, it'd generally digging dirt, spreading rumours or being bitchy about someone - it's never good to find out that someone you trust has been discussing your shortcomings behind your back without first seeing whether they can tackle the problem head on, and to your face.
-Also, what's with the CAPITALS in your TITLES?!?!? IS IT BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL NOTICE YOU MORE? BECAUSE IT'S REALLY ANNOYING!
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Whatever, I'll be sensible.
Yes, of course gossip can ruin a relationship - gossip generally isn't talking about people in a nice way, it'd generally digging dirt, spreading rumours or being bitchy about someone - it's never good to find out that someone you trust has been discussing your shortcomings behind your back without first seeing whether they can tackle the problem head on, and to your face.
No I think he just likes to shout at folk!
Gossip is bad and shouldn't be passed on.
ChelseaBabe
Gossip is bad and shouldn't be passed on.
Gossip is bad and shouldn't be passed on.
gossip_girl
Especially when its in the wrong hands!!!
ChelseaBabe
Especially when its in the wrong hands!!!
gossip_girl
Been to school lately??
yes gossip can be evil.... grr... the bitches who USED to be my friends at my old school decided to make up a load of s**t about me being a slag etc. (which was NOT true by any means, i might add) and my bf at the time who id been going out with for 2 years and was my first love tried to ignore them but in the end cos they gossiped so much he believd them! so they broke up my relationship...ive seen him since and we realised that he's made a huge mistake but too much had happened to go back to how things had been before!
on the other hand...harmless gossip thats not going to hurt anyone can be fun, lol!
on the other hand...harmless gossip thats not going to hurt anyone can be fun, lol!
lack of gossip - censorship is worse.
my ex bf made us keep it secret we r seeing each other to avoid nasty gossip. and to stop more gosip he randomly flirted with everyone which got me p*ssed off.
as well as this, people gossiped saying he was gay cos of how he was chinese with blond hair, so he made up this thing saying he was seeing his ex gf they met at a party. and noone told me cos they didnt know he was seeing me. it was only 6 mths later i found out and i still dono if its tru
my ex bf made us keep it secret we r seeing each other to avoid nasty gossip. and to stop more gosip he randomly flirted with everyone which got me p*ssed off.
as well as this, people gossiped saying he was gay cos of how he was chinese with blond hair, so he made up this thing saying he was seeing his ex gf they met at a party. and noone told me cos they didnt know he was seeing me. it was only 6 mths later i found out and i still dono if its tru
PrincE MarkuS
Any experiences at all about this? Share it to us! 
Arrr... certainly.. Gossips can ruin relationships but there are always ways to avoid it.
Little gestures like speak less to the opposite sex, make less friends of the opposite sex, be careful of what you say and do with the opposite sex does helps.
These can avoid alot of unneccessary misunderstandings between you and your partner.
Also, if possible, keep your partner informed of what is going on in your life. Basically let both of your lives revolve around each other. Let each other know what is going on.
If there are gossips you have heard regarding your partner which you are not comfortable about, let him/her know about it and your feelings. At the same time, you can verify it with her too.
If my girlfriend tells me a gossip which she is not comfortable with. I will tell her the truth on what has happened, assure her, if possible, I will even rectify the situation by dismissing the gossip or prove the gossip wrong.
So far, I guess my girlfriend is pretty happy with what I have done
Remember.. just don't do gestures that you think will put your girlfriend in an uncomfortable position. Same for girls too
A true love is hard to come by, don't let it slip by through your fingers..
Cherish it and treasure it
magiccarpet
lack of gossip - censorship is worse.
my ex bf made us keep it secret we r seeing each other to avoid nasty gossip. and to stop more gosip he randomly flirted with everyone which got me p*ssed off.
as well as this, people gossiped saying he was gay cos of how he was chinese with blond hair, so he made up this thing saying he was seeing his ex gf they met at a party. and noone told me cos they didnt know he was seeing me. it was only 6 mths later i found out and i still dono if its tru
my ex bf made us keep it secret we r seeing each other to avoid nasty gossip. and to stop more gosip he randomly flirted with everyone which got me p*ssed off.
as well as this, people gossiped saying he was gay cos of how he was chinese with blond hair, so he made up this thing saying he was seeing his ex gf they met at a party. and noone told me cos they didnt know he was seeing me. it was only 6 mths later i found out and i still dono if its tru
O. M. G.
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I have a mate who has managed to get me into a lot of very unfortunate situations by being the biggest gossipy housewife-bloke in the world. It's bloody frustrating... eventually I stopped telling him anything.
Acaila
One of my exs' best friend told him I'd been cheating on him, my ex believed it and dumped me. That sucked I guess.
Look at it on the bright side, he's just not worthy of you.
If he trusts you, he should have verify it with you.
It only goes to show that your ex trusts his best friend more than you. He's not worth it.
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