this girl is so confusing!

Reply 1

she seems a bit immature for a relationship. stop hassling her, if she likes you as much as her mates say she does, she'll get over her shyness

Reply 2

bricktops

i see, lifes too short to sit and do nothing. Go for it , you have nothing to lose and plus its good experience for when you chat up other girls. :biggrin:

Reply 3

smiler87

The way I see it you need to make sure she knows you like her but try to speak to her 1-2-1. Speaking thru friends messages get confused or diluted and you know what I mean? Sounds like she's interested but either embarrassed or not sure about things.

You only live once - give it a go!

Reply 4

lil_crazyflakes

I think it's a regular year 9 girl kind of thing, always talking to boys through their mates. The age gap may be an issue, but you seem to get on otherwise. Don't give up just yet. Find out from her friend what exactly she is scared of. Then arrange to meet up again, with her friend there as well if she feels too shy to come alone. Then prove to her you really like her and don't 'think she is weird'. Then she might come out of shell a bit and you can really get to know her as a person. Chose somewhere not too confrontational, maybe bowling again, or shopping etc.
Good luck luv lil_crazyflakes x

Reply 5

magiccarpet

firstly, u wanna shag a 13/14 yr old :-/
secondly, if she likes u, why has she blocked u on msn?and avoids goin bowling near u?

thirdly, she's YEAR 9. chances are she has prob kissed someone before or been out with someone.

i think she's playing u

Reply 6

braders89

Reply 7

Chrism

Relationships involving kids who are barely halfway through secondary school can only be described as a 'bad' thing. I'd steer well clear personally. And lessthanthree's advice about avoiding middlemen is also quite correct. If you really do want to go out with her, talk to her not her mates.

Reply 8

Ferret_messiah

braders89

(she's in year 9 and i'm in year 11 so i was thinkin the age gap was an issue...)

This is your problem here. You're both still young enough to do everything in the most needlessly complex and ridiculously stupid manner possible, so that's exactly what she's doing. Get back to her in three or four years.

Reply 9

saz_1989

my sis is year 9 and her bf's/on-off ppl are mostly in year 11. obv they are a group of giggly girls but the year 11s arent exactly mature. when i was that age i got a bf thru talking to him on msn (i did kno him in person!) and my best friend totally played match maker (of her own accord). that's the way things are done at that age i guess. why not ask her why she's blocked u on msn? get her to unblock u and chat to her. or text her. texting is fun!