Its not moral becuase humans are supposed to have a social concious unlike animals. Especialy with the spread of STDs it just exsculates the problem.
I am not saying its wrong to have sex before marriage or anything like that, I am just saying that casual sex cuases more problems than it solves.
I really don't care how many times or how quickly someone has sex with someone. Sex is different things to different people - and its no place of mine to judge how someone else views sex.
Need_money, no offense but if you don't want to be called a slut perhaps the first thing you might want to do is take 'dirty girls do do that soc' out of your signature- doesn't help.
Obviously I think it's kinda sad that girls get judged like this, but frankly they know it's going to happen if they sleep around so all they have to do is not do it.
The difference is that men don't really care if you call them a slut, whereas women get all *****y and post anxty threads about how its really unfair that there are consequences to being a mini Jezebel.
Women can get sex so easy. I'm not coming from a position of strength. I'm coming from a position of weakness. At least I recognise this fact instead of burying it under self-deluding machismo. A man (even if he is an attractive man) have to put so much effort to get laid or get a girlfriend, going from one girl to the next, suffering rejection after rejection, hoping, wishing that this girl does not blow you out like all the others. Being rejected by a woman is a tortuous humiliation, a fate scarcely better than death but we men just get on with it. But the thing is when Women get rejected a lot of them can't seem to handle it AT ALL. We're talking going nuts here !! Talking badly about you, calling you gay, and trying to make every other Woman she knows think the same way so that she won't even consider you, etc. etc.Guys, have you ever tried saying 'no' to your girlfriend if she wants sex? Trust me, her reaction won't be pretty. Having said that It still remains the guy's responsibility to risk getting his confidence smashed to pieces if he wants to interact with the opposite sex.
A women even if she was weighing 19 stone can still have a wonderful sex life...with many guys...A 19 stone guy ? Forget aba it son. You ain't getting any. Unless your name ends in Abramovich. Most men are stuck with the "Shotgun" approach. Ask enough women and maybe one of them will NOT reject you... I reckon I average about one in five. Of course, if we follow the shotgun approach, we're players. There really ain't no way of pleasing women. I give up.
Women know their beauty gives them a huge sexual power over men, and they do not hesitate to cruelly use it to get what they want out of men. In their heart of hearts they don't really care about men or their feelings.It just seems like people care more about women than they do about men. And on top of that it seems like people will give men more s h i t to deal with because men are supposed to be tougher. People seem to give women more praise when they accomplish things than they do to men. Women expect more from men than men expect from women.It seems like sometimes women act very childish and blame everything on men. I don't know what it is about women. Women complain about men a lot, so there must be something legitimate behind the complaint, right ? But chew on this idea : Say that you have a poor laborer living in a sweatshop with a broken fan. Now, say that you have a guest in a luxury hotel with broken air-conditioning. Which one is more likely to complain ?
Look at ANY women's magazine, it's chock-full of manipulation advice: tips and suggestions on how to look sexy. How to 'test' her man and 'reward' him. How to initiate break-ups. How to attract men and weed-out Mister Right. How to tell if he's lying. How to hide her own lying. Women are so fake, covered in globs of make up, fake nails, eyelashes, boobs, implants you name it, your fake and phoney !! Then they scream "Where are the real men".
But don't men shape the world we live in ? Come on !! Do you have much say in how the world works ? No !! Neither do I !! Very few men do !!