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A 50 thousand tears for you!!!

Hey guys...I'd be very happy if you could help me about one of my friend's problem...
She met this guy in a youth hostel yeah...they went out with each other for about five months yeah...but suddenly...that guy doesn't like her anymore...for a reason i'm not too sure...so they eventually broke up even if my friend doesn't want to...my friend always cry and can't stop thinking of what had happened...it's just like a wound that doesn't heal...
ANy suggestions at all on how to sort of 'calm her down' and help her to move on??? She desperately needs my help...and your help too! :smile:

Reply 1

snowdrop

How long ago did they break up? Maybe she just needs to go through the 'getting over somene' process and needs to cry. You should just be there for her, and in the meantime chocolate and icecream shud go down a treat :p:

Hope she feels happier soon tho

Reply 2

80s Love Child!

OP

lol....chocolate + ice cream would solve the problem!!! :biggrin:

heheeh jokes!.... they broke up bout 3 days ago...i know it's quite painful emotionally... :frown:

Reply 3

magiccarpet

2

chocolate and good DVD!perhaps YOU should 'keep her company?'

Reply 4

Apricot Fairy

16

Yeah.....same thing happened to me. Took me about 6 months to get over it, so don't hold your breath. Just be there for her.

Reply 5

keano

1

nah..she would get over it. Humans are such adaptable creatures. They get bombed half of their families killed and still carry on. Just tell her that the guy was a t*sspot and she deserved better and...hmm...and buy her some things..i dunno...fish..or some flipflops. but she will definitaly get him out of her system after some time..Time heals everything :wink:

Reply 6

lil_crazyflakes

12

Aww, bless her. Just try and be there for her, to listen and a shoulder to cry on when she needs it. Also try and do stuff together to take her mind of the pain, and forget the other guy.
Chocolate ice cream is always good hehe, unless her and the x-boyfriend always had chocolate ice cream, in that case it's not such a good plan...
Just show her that she doesn't need him, and that other people like her. Make her feel god about herself, maybe take her out if she feels up to it :smile:

Don't be too quick in telling her to forget it and move on, as it may sound patronising. Try and just be understanding. The wounds will heal when the time is right, all you can do is help her forget the hurt for the time being and show her that life goes on.
Good luck, luv lil_crazyflakes x

Reply 7

kateington

Why does 50 thousand tears for you sound familiar?

Reply 8

F. Poste

I've always maintained that the best thing to do when you're going through a lot of emotional pain is to distract yourself for a bit. It's not a cure- it's a bit like paracetamol, just a bit of temporary relief.. so spend time with her and do fun things like watch movies or talk about things that aren't related to relationships. It's great that she has at least one friend who wants to help her through this time :smile:

Reply 9

80s Love Child!

OP

Thanks a lot for your cooments + suggestions guys...i'll try to cheer her up...hehehehe.....i fancy her by the way!!! **embarassed**

Reply 10

*starry_eyed_*

14

show her she dnt need him!

Reply 11

roff

2

I always found that the best time to pull a girl is when they have just broken up with someone.. then they are still quite vulnerable and on the rebond, its best to make a move on them then :smile:

Reply 12

crazigal

elo i kno hw 2 help u m8 u cn tell her top try and move on and give her emotional support

Reply 13

crazigal

hello i ave a problem i really want a b.f bt everytime i ask a guy out dey say no because im too pretty 4 dem ? plz help

Reply 14

80s Love Child!

OP

love...i know who you are...heheheh.
Now, because you type , I own your soul. wooooohoooo jks

Reply 15

lil_crazyflakes

12

Awwwww! Well, if you are there for her, nd make her feel better and happy and stuff than you are well in there. Just be careful not to make a move too soon, or it will seem like that's all you were interested in all along (getting with her).Also, she needs time to heal from the other guy. Hope you two get together though, she sounds nice, and you must be a really caring and decent sort of guy to want to help :biggrin:

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