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Sister keeps stealing my stuff and mum isnt being fair!!

Im 17 and my sister is 14, so i guess she 'looks up to me'. However, she steals everything of mine that i work hard for so i can buy it!!
It started a few years ago and she would take things like makeup and hair stuff. At first my parents did punish her by disconnecting her tv from the aerial and stopping her allowance for a week. It did then die down but she seems to have matured alot in appearence and now she is stealing my effing clothes!!!

Im lucky to have my mum do the washing and ironing but then my sister just takes my clothes straight from there without asking or telling me and some of my stuff goes missing for months at times. She also takes stuff from my wardrobe when im not in my room and is so lazy that at one point when she lost her toothbrush she decided to start using mine and not bother telling me which is sick! The worst bit is that she takes my underwear, dirties in them and then stuffs them in a hidden draw, just like my other clothes, until i eventually find them!

Like i said my parents were on my side at the start, but now as its got worst my mum will just laugh and say im being 'silly'. I ask her to talk to my sister about but she never bothers and even if she sometimes does my sister dismisses it by saying she wont do it again... and then another one of my tops goes missing.

Its got to a point where i cant stand it anymore, she cant respect other peoples things and my parents arent bothering to discipline her!!

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Reply 1

Tell her yourself then, confront her...Or do the same thing to her till she learns not to mess with you.

Reply 2

Lock your door.

Reply 3

Shaliefarlie
I ask her to talk to my sister about but she never bothers and even if she sometimes does my sister dismisses it by saying she wont do it again... and then another one of my tops goes missing.


Have you tried talking to your sister yourself? My sister used to do stuff like that (not as badly as yours though) and my parents didn't do anything about it. I got annoyed and yelled at her and stuff and she didn't do it again.

Reply 4

Have you thought of putting a curse on her? PM me if you'd like some details of spells you can cast etc.

Reply 5

khalaf
Tell her yourself then, confront her...Or do the same thing to her till she learns not to mess with you.


Ive confronted her about it, i just did it a second ago and she just says 'so' she really doesnt care. Then my mum goes and buys her all these new clothes just, so thats not going to teach her about reaspect is it?!

Reply 6

Using your toothbrush, and dirtying your undies? That is disgusting.

Can you not talk to her about it? She's old enough, she should really realise that that's not right :s-smilie:

Reply 7

menkar
Have you thought of putting a curse on her? PM me if you'd like some details of spells you can cast etc.


No thanks, i read your thread yesterday and found it wierd. Im not going to be conned.

Reply 8

Shaliefarlie
Ive confronted her about it, i just did it a second ago and she just says 'so' she really doesnt care. Then my mum goes and buys her all these new clothes just, so thats not going to teach her about reaspect is it?!


Ok then move on to taking her stuff then..If she complains then tell your parents you've already asked her nicely.

Reply 9

Shaliefarlie
Im 17 and my sister is 14, so i guess she 'looks up to me'. However, she steals everything of mine that i work hard for so i can buy it!!
It started a few years ago and she would take things like makeup and hair stuff. At first my parents did punish her by disconnecting her tv from the aerial and stopping her allowance for a week. It did then die down but she seems to have matured alot in appearence and now she is stealing my effing clothes!!!

Im lucky to have my mum do the washing and ironing but then my sister just takes my clothes straight from there without asking or telling me and some of my stuff goes missing for months at times. She also takes stuff from my wardrobe when im not in my room and is so lazy that at one point when she lost her toothbrush she decided to start using mine and not bother telling me which is sick! The worst bit is that she takes my underwear, dirties in them and then stuffs them in a hidden draw, just like my other clothes, until i eventually find them!

Like i said my parents were on my side at the start, but now as its got worst my mum will just laugh and say im being 'silly'. I ask her to talk to my sister about but she never bothers and even if she sometimes does my sister dismisses it by saying she wont do it again... and then another one of my tops goes missing.

Its got to a point where i cant stand it anymore, she cant respect other peoples things and my parents arent bothering to discipline her!!


If your Mom's not cooperating, steal her stuff and when she confronts you laugh and say "Now who's being silly?". Problem solved. :cool:

Reply 10

Ive asked her so many times not to do it, but it just keeps happening. If i shout my dad tells me to calm down and not be so 'immature' , but i cant get through to her!! Shes a size bigger than me too, so she stretches all my clothes :/ She gets all these new clothes that my mum buys her and yet she steals my aswell. I could put a lock on my door, but she gets them straight from the wash :/

Reply 11

Try to rape her with tribadism (I'm not kidding). If your sister's homophobic, pretend you're a lesbian (and do it well). Scare her into believing you're an incestual lesbian.

And I SWEAR to god, I SWEAR she will NEVER touch your stuff again.
She'll be too scared :wink:

Reply 12

Ken321
Try to rape her with tribadism (I'm not kidding). If your sister's homophobic, pretend you're a lesbian (and do it well). Scare her into believing you're an incestual lesbian.

And I SWEAR to god, I SWEAR she will NEVER touch your stuff again.
She'll be too scared :wink:


What if her sister's a closet lesbian? :confused:

Reply 13

Ken321
Try to rape her with tribadism (I'm not kidding). If your sister's homophobic, pretend you're a lesbian (and do it well). Scare her into believing you're an incestual lesbian.

And I SWEAR to god, I SWEAR she will NEVER touch your stuff again.
She'll be too scared :wink:


:lolwut: She's disgusted by sharing toothbrushes and you want her to feel her sister up? haha :facepalm:

aura1947
What if her sister's a closet lesbian? :confused:


:rofl:

Reply 14

I'm 17, my sister is 14. She sees me the kind of way that a kindly doctor would view someone with a mental illness.

Reply 15

Few things to do;

- 'Borrow' your sisters undies, have a ****, wipe your ass with them and give her them back and be like "yeah that's how you deal with mine"...

- Take some of your mum's clothes that she usually wears and when she asks just go 'Your being silly'.

- Threaten to tell all her friends when you see them, or MySpace or Facebook or something that your sister wears your undies and makes a mess in them if she don't pack it the **** in?

Maybe they'll get the jist of it once they have some of there own medicine, so to speak? =P

Reply 16

aura1947
What if her sister's a closet lesbian? :confused:

:eek: No wonder her sister's been borrowing all her clothes!
What do you think she does with them? :s-smilie: :o:

khalaf
:lolwut: She's disgusted by sharing toothbrushes and you want her to feel her sister up? haha :facepalm:

:rofl:

Yesh :eek3: :woo: :rolleyes:

Reply 17

this sounds just like my 2 sisters

Reply 18

palacefc8
this sounds just like my 2 sisters


Are you able to stop them?

Reply 19

Do you have separate bedrooms? If you do, get a lock for your door.
If not, fit a lock to your wardrobe and keep all your good clothes in there.

I think you're going to have to be pro-active about this yourself, rather than trying to get your uncooperative parents involved. Keep your things locked away and teach her that what's yours is yours. In 6 months time, she may well turn into a goth or an emo or something and won't need to nick your clothes lol.