have any of u been in or know someone who has been in a dead relationship. by this i mean......one of the other knows the relationship is dead but r still in. and by 'dead' i mean.....kinda like not much intimacy, and u just see each other every so often, have a little chat....have a drink, watch a bit of tv. and they haven't ended the relationship
lol i kinda mean wot do u think of such a weird relationship.......can it exist?! like one person unwilling to let go and the other can't be bothered or for whatever reason refuses to.
There has to be a pretty much equal amount of feelings on both sides for a relationship to work, IMO. Otherwise resentment will creep in and ultimately destroy it.
There has to be a pretty much equal amount of feelings on both sides for a relationship to work, IMO. Otherwise resentment will creep in and ultimately destroy it.
so i guess u haven't heard of or seen a relationship like that exist?!
but thats kinda different cos they're married, and its understandable if ppl stick to the marriage no matter what as there r kids involved etc..... i was kinda thinking more on the lines of just people who r dating!
but thats kinda different cos they're married, and its understandable if ppl stick to the marriage no matter what as there r kids involved etc..... i was kinda thinking more on the lines of just people who r dating!
I don't see much point in continuing a relationship that doesn't make them both happy and they can't see a way of salvaging it, they might as well take a break and be enjoying different things.
My best friend's relationship is like this. I think he refuses to admit it is over, so they go out as friends. It's creepy if you ask me.
yeah thats wot i mean......like one person is in denial and will do anything to stay with the other. and the other is staying cos they feel responsible. i thought it was a joke.
its amazing how you can be so in love with someone, but gradually over time you grow apart, but i was denying it really...i mena its not like you wnat to have to admit yourself that thsi great thign you once had, is now coming to an end.
its amazing how you can be so in love with someone, but gradually over time you grow apart, but i was denying it really...i mena its not like you wnat to have to admit yourself that thsi great thign you once had, is now coming to an end.
hard to explain
how long did u hold on for?! and is it really worth it if it's one-sided? and u can tell the other person isn't happy.
how long did u hold on for?! and is it really worth it if it's one-sided? and u can tell the other person isn't happy.
well we togther 18 months, and i think i first started doubting things after a year, it was long distance anyway, and we weren't seeing each other much. neither of us were putting in as muh affort as to begin with yet neither of us said anything. i just thought it'd work itself out.
it did. in a way. he was in the RAF and moved to Las Vegas. so taht sorted that.
plus the fact that he promoised to call the day before he left so we could talk things over and instead went out and got pissed with some mates. it was nly my calling him, luckily 15 mins before he left that ensured i actually spoke to him. taht kind of sealed it for me.
have any of u been in or know someone who has been in a dead relationship. by this i mean......one of the other knows the relationship is dead but r still in. and by 'dead' i mean.....kinda like not much intimacy, and u just see each other every so often, have a little chat....have a drink, watch a bit of tv. and they haven't ended the relationship
wot do u think of this?
Yes, my mom and dad. I dont see them cuddle or kiss at all. Really hurts me because my mom cries to me about not being loved.