fed up of being the quiet girl, i want to be LOUD

im fed up of being labelled as the "shy quiet" girl.
over the past 2 years since leaving school all the girls have developed in terms of personality, look-wise and their friendship groups but im still stuck as me. :frown:

how can i be like one of those girls who write in CAPITALS all the time on facebook and actually speak like that in real life? because if i was to say something on msn or facebook with capitals eg SUMMER WHERE ARE YOUUU it would look weird cos im not like that at all (when im on my own i am though) and i want people to respect me and be scared of me, not walk all over me!

please help!

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

OP

where art thou, poster?

Reply 2

*Star*Guitar*

17

You want to post in capitals?

Post in capitals. Those people just sound annoying tbh.

Reply 3

electricfeel--

8

Really loud girls annoy me.
Don't try to be someone you're not, I doubt you'd be much happier.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

*Star*Guitar*

You want to post in capitals?

Post in capitals. Those people just sound annoying tbh.

nooo they're really popular though and practically have the whole world at their feet?

I just want to be as confident as they are and to have the confidence to say what I want, WHEN I WANT?! lol

Reply 5

Wild_Precious_Life

2

If you want people to respect you, you need to start learning to respect yourself.

Reply 6

dale_cooper

You want to be who you want to be? Firstly don't copy loud girls off Facebook. They're annoying and probably dying inside.

Second, you want to shout, you want to be loud? Walk into a public place, kick pidgeons and scream your lungs dry. You are you, you could probably stomp all over this world if you really wanted to.

Reply 7

Fumblenuts91

12

well, stop worrying about yourself all the time and learn to be happy with you, then you'll have more confidence in yourself.
loud girls are very annoying.
me and one of my friends shared a maths class for two years with a bunch of loud confident girls and i ended up hating them all pretty much.

Reply 8

Fumblenuts91

12

well, stop worrying about yourself all the time and learn to be happy with you, then you'll have more confidence in yourself.
loud girls are very annoying.
me and one of my friends shared a maths class for two years with a bunch of loud confident girls and i ended up hating them all pretty much.

Reply 9

LooieENG

3

No you don't :nope:

I hate loud girls

Reply 10

AustralAlien

13

You want to be an annoying loud person? Seriously, just be yourself.

Reply 11

lm_wfc

12

when you say 2 years since you left school, what do you mean? yr 11 or 13?

Reply 12

stevie0444

Get a boob job

Reply 13

Selenax

9

so just do it then. learn to love yourself. boost that goddam self esteem.say what you like and dont even care what any of them think. but most importantly stay you. dont try to change who you really are.

Reply 14

abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz

17

LOUD NOISES

just get out and talk

or make loud noises

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

lm_wfc

when you say 2 years since you left school, what do you mean? yr 11 or 13?

year 11

i feel really left out and "old" because everyone is loud and enjoying their lives having it all at their feet. but then theres me who just isnt confident enough to shout at people's faces :frown:

Reply 16

BPat

4

I don't think you should try and be someone you're clearly not.

Its your nature to be quiet, and its better to be quiet than loud ALL the time, in my opinion.

Just be yourself, and don't change anything.

Reply 17

mikeybey

2

How you sound on facebook is a really serious and life-defining thing, you know.

Edit: Wait until uni, go somewhere no one knows you, delete your FB and make a new one AND THEN YOU CAN BE LOUD OR WHOEVER YOU WANT TO BE, OKAY??????

Reply 18

Abara

Its weird...I think loud girls aren't taken very serious...they are used, laughed at behind their backs...if they attract guys its not for a very long period of time...

people avoid serious conversations with them, have no respect, think they are superior to them just because the "loud person" is so lively and enthusiastic and probably extremely naive...

Dont try and strive for a "loud position" if u want it so bad - combine loudness and silence. Dont u ever go only for the loud and overconfident image! U r doomed to be the kiddo or the whore /o

and facebook..... I can just say:
Oh, brother...... -____-"

Reply 19

TheTard

why do you want to write with caps lock on? only fags do that. but if you insist, jus go out there and forget about "the quiet girl" just go out and have a good time. dont think about what others think of you =]

fed up of being the quiet girl, i want to be LOUD

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