I'd agree... also it depends on the personality of course.
I found out after dating her for over 2 years that looks aren't everything. Plus its annoying, cos I did actually have guys constantly going over to her asking her for her number, for sex, everything - it gets beyond a joke and you feel worthless.
Personality is definently more important than looks trust me, though looks do help the initial attraction. After a while, they become "o, thats just whoever", when everyone else thinks "wo-shes f?!?!ng gorgeous. id have her!".
i didn't think my new guy was conventionally attractive, but i fancied him SO much. then my friend met him and said he was fit, so finally i think i got someone who i both click with and who is absolutely gorgeous (but i think that anyway, even if he isn't!).
EDIT: i didnt think he was attractive becos im so used to being told im with mingers. he's actually well hot.
- CV Helper
Where's the 'don't care' option in the poll? I honestly don't ever think of a guy in those terms,and personality/intelligence are much more important to me than looks!!
thoght not. subconsciously we all seek someone similar goodlookingnss to ourself for long term relatiosnip. fair enough personality matters in the longer term,but looks attract us more. after all we all know an ugly person with a lovely personality who we see as 'just a good friend'
I think if you love someone you've gotta look soooo much deeper than looks. Looks fade and can be taken away. You've gotta be prepared to stand by someone without a second thought even if they had their face messed up in an accident or something.
I'm rambling now!