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(Original post by TSR_Princess)
Tis okay, Firstly, I don't want to go somewhere intentially to find someone I can marry, and secondly I dont want to get married unless I have very very strong feelings for that person, and I know i will be happy with that person, I need to know that the guy loves me back just the same, Lastly I need to know that this person doesnt mind spending the rest of his life with me, and is okay about me not wanting kids. Then I need to make sure that this person will travel the world with me and help me help others. I want this guy to share my life and I woudl like to go anywhere and everywhere giving back somehting to this world. Then when we get old, this guy needs to be okay with adopting kids.
I dont want to sound greedy, but i very much doubt I will find this guy, consequently, I might as well do everything I want to by my self
Thank you
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I agree with the bolden bit, sorry i thought you were talking about marriage in a general sense, not the going somewhere to find someone to marry. Thats a bit weird actually, not wrong but strange. Although it can be quite common.
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(Original post by TSR_Princess)
Tis okay, Firstly, I don't want to go somewhere intentially to find someone I can marry, and secondly I dont want to get married unless I have very very strong feelings for that person, and I know i will be happy with that person, I need to know that the guy loves me back just the same, Lastly I need to know that this person doesnt mind spending the rest of his life with me, and is okay about me not wanting kids. Then I need to make sure that this person will travel the world with me and help me help others. I want this guy to share my life and I woudl like to go anywhere and everywhere giving back somehting to this world. Then when we get old, this guy needs to be okay with adopting kids.
I dont want to sound greedy, but i very much doubt I will find this guy, consequently, I might as well do everything I want to by my selfThank you
xxxx

Someone in the previous posts said that you'd need a mehram to travel to another country. So, if you don't marry, you wouldn't be able to 'travel' by yourself without a male figure (husband, dad, uncle, brother, cousin)
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ok everyone

im off, because it looks like everyones busy with this topic

salams

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(Original post by Milli)
Someone in the previous posts said that you'd need a mehram to travel to another country. So, if you don't marry, you wouldn't be able to 'travel' by yourself without a male figure (husband, dad, uncle, brother, cousin)
I am sorry, I just don't agree with that atm. My view on this may change, but for now, thats all i want to do, and as long as i dont do any thing haraam, its fine
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haha :p: Exactly! Tbh, i can't say i haven't found people 'attractive' but it doesn't mean i'm in love with them or that i would actually think of marrying them. To me, personality is much more important than the 'good' looks.
I think you're misinterpreting the 'love' i was talking about.
So you're saying that you've fallen in love (or lust/ found attractive/ liked? I was talking about true love, not one of the things in the bracketed list) with 100 people but dont know if you're mature enough to comprehend loving one person? Strange... Bit of a contradiction don't you think.
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(Original post by rashid1988)
I agree with the bolden bit, sorry i thought you were talking about marriage in a general sense, not the going somewhere to find someone to marry. Thats a bit weird actually, not wrong but strange. Although it can be quite common.
By this I meant like, actually go back to my country to get married
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oh fine then, no one reply to me

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btw sis princess, like your avatar
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(Original post by rahmara)
ok everyone

im off, because it looks like everyones busy with this topic

salams

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*waves goodbye* Cya later rahmara
Inshallah speak to you soon!
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oh fine then, no one reply to me

im off

btw sis princess, like your avatar
LOL THANK YOU HABIBTI, thank you sooooooo much for adding me to your sig
Your absoultly wonderful you sooo nice and sooo sweet :p: :cool:
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(Original post by rashid1988)
You're obviously misinterpreting the 'love' i was talking about.
So you're saying that you've fallen in love (or lust/ found attractive/ liked?) with 100 people but dont know if you're mature enough to comprehend loving one person? Strange... Bit of a contradiction don't you think. with love then you've fallen
huh? fallen in love? 100 people? excuse me :confused:

Found someone attractive? Yeah. But fallen in love? No. Falling in love isn't just about finding them attractive. It's about the personality and if it matches. You'd have to be 100% sure that you'd want to spend the rest of you're life with this person. I don't think i'm mature enough to make this decision and be 100% sure.
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(Original post by TSR_Princess)
By this I meant like, actually go back to my country to get married
Yes, in which case i agree that i dont think it's essential. It's not wrong, but it's not really necessary.
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Youre not going to be with the person you love so, i feel yes it is wrong
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oh fine then, no one reply to me

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btw sis princess, like your avatar
Wa Alaikum as Salaam Rahmara!

I'm sorry for not replying and joining in your discussion, but I'm busy with some chemsitry homework that is proving to be quite a pain....:hmpf:
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Salaams everyone

Whats the topic today?
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oh fine then, no one reply to me

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btw sis princess, like your avatar

sorry rahmara
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(Original post by SketchyCanvas)
Salaams everyone

Whats the topic today?
Salam MF and SC,
SC I hope you were pleased with your results habibti!
All the best
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*waves goodbye* Cya later rahmara
Inshallah speak to you soon!
:hugs:

speak to you soon inshalah sis
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LOL THANK YOU HABIBTI, thank you sooooooo much for adding me to your sig
Your absoultly wonderful you sooo nice and sooo sweet :p: :cool:
yur welcome sis, anything for my beloved sisters

aww, everyone thinks im nice and sweet

:hugs:

i luv you sis
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Wa Alaikum as Salaam Rahmara!

I'm sorry for not replying and joining in your discussion, but I'm busy with some chemsitry homework that is proving to be quite a pain....:hmpf:
thats ok sis, got ict coursework to do :hugs:
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:hugs:

speak to you soon inshalah sis
Bye :hello:
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