What do gay guys look for in a man?

I always thought you looked for the ability to shoot lasers from their eyes and leap tall buildings in a single bound. Have I been mislead?

I prefer really camp guys to straight-acting, which IMHO is boring and dull. However, too in-your-face camp is irritating; I don't like it when people cause a scene and self-obsessively draw attention to themselves. Get a grip.

But anyway - as someone said, gay men want to know that someone they like is gay for starters!!

What a pointless thread btw & I dislike the negativity towards camp men, they can be camp if they want. Fairness, quality pplage. Rock on.

Yeah they can be camp if they want but usually they act camp to seem more gay to pick up more guys... like I said, randy buggers most of them

Gay guys acting straight is usually no good but... surely when a guy is OVERLY camp they kinda remind guys of GIRLS as opposed to men (which is surely what gay guys want - men)...

Campness is OK to a degree but like I mentioned earlier... do you not find that the novelty wears off after a while and it becomes... irritating??

Not really. It all depends on the person tbh. Why does campness have to be gendered anyway? Stop gendering things. Qualities shouldn't be confined to certain groups of people, even though they are in reality, we shouldn't make assumptions about someone because of an aspect of their personality.

It's like when I've mentioned I sometimes wear makeup, people were like "oohhh, whyyyy?" - why the hell not?!?!!!

Since this thread was about gay GUYS I saw no reason why we should be talking about anything other than gay males... I am by no means gendering anything... if anything, I'm the last person that CAN say something is restricted to one gender or another... anyone can be camp, but in the context of camp guys... was what I was talking about...

You wearing make-up sometimes is like me wearing boxers sometimes... people are NOT always what they seem... but in todays society, you have to accept that peope ARE going to make assumptions... and they ARE going to stick you in a box by what you do/say/how you act...

Only an individual know who he or she truely is... all we can hope for is that we convey that to the outside world as accurately as possible...

I agree

...Why does campness have to be gendered anyway? ...

I always thought you looked for the ability to shoot lasers from their eyes and leap tall buildings in a single bound. Have I been mislead?