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i love this guy but...????
i wont let myself love him?
we've been best mates for 6years, i kinda wanted him to ask my out from the start, but then he did, i really wanted to say yes but i couldnt let myself..? anyway i told him i'd think about it(-this was 3 yrs ago!)
well he keeps bringing it up, n the other day he kept bringing it up in my txts to him, so i kinda told him i love him...but i dont know how i love him- why i cant go out with him.
then today he told me he loved me always n really thought i was the one, but now he thinks hes bi so hes fukd up? but me telling him how i feel has made me wana be with him more than ever...? i dream about him n think about him none stop n its drivin me crazy! he has plans for us to buy a house together...n hes...just...
he keeps sayin if we went out it wouldnt ruin our friendship, i told him i love him n i always will no matter what...n he told me it was probably best just to stay friends....
what's going on..?im so messed up now..?!i have no idea whats going on?!
we've been best mates for 6years, i kinda wanted him to ask my out from the start, but then he did, i really wanted to say yes but i couldnt let myself..? anyway i told him i'd think about it(-this was 3 yrs ago!)
well he keeps bringing it up, n the other day he kept bringing it up in my txts to him, so i kinda told him i love him...but i dont know how i love him- why i cant go out with him.
then today he told me he loved me always n really thought i was the one, but now he thinks hes bi so hes fukd up? but me telling him how i feel has made me wana be with him more than ever...? i dream about him n think about him none stop n its drivin me crazy! he has plans for us to buy a house together...n hes...just...
he keeps sayin if we went out it wouldnt ruin our friendship, i told him i love him n i always will no matter what...n he told me it was probably best just to stay friends....
what's going on..?im so messed up now..?!i have no idea whats going on?!
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dont go 4 it!! stay friends, cos not only might you ruin the friendship but if he said hes bi, this might develop into a problem later on in life
but i dnt think he is bi...?i mean he has gay sex for money...but...i dnt think he rlly enjoys it...n hes obsessed with breasts...hes always feeling me up. i think hes just confused bout bein bi cos of his "job" cos he thinks he might like one of his regular clients but it doesnt mean he cant love me..?does it...?n if i still love him despite his "job" it has to be true feelings i just dont know how i to interpret my love..? sexual or friendship? ive never felt this way...n im pretty much a loner who keeps myself to my self....so this is a big feeling for me...????
At first I was going to say you were being an idiot, but then reading the post that revealed he was a rent boy I'd like to change my answer to you both being idiots.
how old are you both?
selling himself, seems dodgy.
selling himself, seems dodgy.
What is this nonsense? It's like a tabloid.
Well for a start he is gonna have to quit that job of his to get with you and you need to tell him that... How would you cope if you WERE with him and he was sleeping with men?? You wouldn't be able to do that and I can't see how he could if he loves you... I mean, its as bad as cheating (in fact, its almost worse because you know about it AND he's getting paid for it...) So yeah, before you even THINK about going out with him, make sure he knows that if he does then he can't do that job anymore... Mind you, if you really think you can cope with your boyfriend sleeping with other guys then... you can just ignore this post...
You can't love him if it wouldnt bother you that he slept with men for money (underage, I might add) at the same time as being with you...
People in love are very protective and jelous people... at least in the first stages of a relationship... I know you've known this guy for six years but you have known him as a FRIEND... being with him would be very different, especially if you love him as you say you do...
People in love are very protective and jelous people... at least in the first stages of a relationship... I know you've known this guy for six years but you have known him as a FRIEND... being with him would be very different, especially if you love him as you say you do...
RiOt GiRl
i'm happy for him as long as hes happy.
(by the way- i probably would get very jealous...i do a little as it is...but if its wat he wants to do...?)
(by the way- i probably would get very jealous...i do a little as it is...but if its wat he wants to do...?)
IF YOU LOVED HIM, YOU WOULDNT THINK TWICE ABOUT TELLING HIM THAT HE HAS TO QUIT HIS JOB TO BE WITH YOU...
Thats what I think, anyway...
RiOt GiRl
but wer not together....?
thats the confusing bit!
as for this thread bein mssd up- i know! its my life! i am mssd up! thats y i need all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thats the confusing bit!
as for this thread bein mssd up- i know! its my life! i am mssd up! thats y i need all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And this thread isn't as messed up as some peoples lives...
RiOt GiRl
awww...hes not really....he's sooo sweet...
He has sex with people for money. He could be as sweet as a bucket full of kittens with bows on, he still has sex with people for money. However you frame it, that's prostitution.
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