I have a shocking secret to tell my G/F.

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Ok.

This is me. 6'2, 240 pounds, african american. I am 18 years old and
go to college in Boston. I am seeing this girl named Laura. She is 19,
white and very cute. From what I hear and what she told me, she gets around. I don't. I am actually still a virgin....it is not something I advertise nor is it something I am proud of. I am as curious about sex as the next guy.....maybe more considering the amount of time I spend on the net.

So how do I let her know ? I dont want it to become obvious in a bad moment. I get nervous when I'm around her. She finds it sweet. I am good to her. We've been seeing each other since early September. Hands holding. Kissing. Flirting. No sex yet. But soon....I hope.

So, what am i going to do ?

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i dont understand..ur problem is that ur a virgin?
if thats what ur saying, then i dont see a problem .

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(Original post by Wolfman117)
Ok.

This is me. 6'2, 240 pounds, african american. I am 18 years old and
go to college in Boston. I am seeing this girl named Laura. She is 19,
white and very cute. From what I hear and what she told me, she gets around. I don't. I am actually still a virgin....it is not something I advertise nor is it something I am proud of. I am as curious about sex as the next guy.....maybe more considering the amount of time I spend on the net.

So how do I let her know ? I dont want it to become obvious in a bad moment. I get nervous when I'm around her. She finds it sweet. I am good to her. We've been seeing each other since early September. Hands holding. Kissing. Flirting. No sex yet. But soon....I hope.

So, what am i going to do ?

whats the shocking bit?

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(Original post by vienna95)
whats the shocking bit?

The fact that his avatar is ultra-suave Sean Connery.

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Just tell her you have been waiting for the right girl, if that is her tell her so. There is nothing wrong with it.

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(Original post by Mr White)
The fact that his avatar is ultra-suave Sean Connery.

haha.

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(Original post by Mr White)
The fact that his avatar is ultra-suave Sean Connery.

lol.

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Just tell her you have been waiting for the right girl, if that is her tell her so. There is nothing wrong with it.

well, unless she wants a length..

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(Original post by Wolfman117)
....6'2, 240 pounds....

im not takin the piss, but whats this bit got to do with anything?

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(Original post by vienna95)
well, unless she wants a length..

ooh, nice one.

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(Original post by ShOcKzZ)
im not takin the piss, but whats this bit got to do with anything?

or the fact that hes black?

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(Original post by vienna95)
or the fact that hes black?

and the time he spends on the net

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(Original post by Wolfman117)
Ok.

This is me. 6'2, 240 pounds, african american. I am 18 years old and
go to college in Boston. I am seeing this girl named Laura. She is 19,
white and very cute. From what I hear and what she told me, she gets around. I don't. I am actually still a virgin....it is not something I advertise nor is it something I am proud of. I am as curious about sex as the next guy.....maybe more considering the amount of time I spend on the net.

So how do I let her know ? I dont want it to become obvious in a bad moment. I get nervous when I'm around her. She finds it sweet. I am good to her. We've been seeing each other since early September. Hands holding. Kissing. Flirting. No sex yet. But soon....I hope.

So, what am i going to do ?

dont tell her just say when you have sex i dont wanna be rough because i dont wanna hurt ya

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There's absolutely no shame in being a virgin! I think you should tell her that you're a virgin because then you'll know if she's the right person - anyone worthy should be flattered that you want to lose your virginity with them.

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You were dropped on your head as a baby weren't you. Poor thing.

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You were dropped on your head as a baby weren't you. Poor thing.

I'm just offering friendly advice, I didn't know it was so taboo talk about sexual intercourse. He asked a sexual question and I answered it simple.

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(Original post by Infinity)
You were dropped on your head as a baby weren't you. Poor thing.

or hes still a virgin...

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(Original post by Slowpoke)
I'm just offering friendly advice, I didn't know it was so taboo talk about sexual intercourse. He asked a sexual question and I answered it simple.

and killing someone is as easy as thrusting the knife....

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(Original post by vienna95)
and killing someone is as easy as thrusting the knife....

Come again?

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(Original post by Slowpoke)
I'm just offering friendly advice, I didn't know it was so taboo talk about sexual intercourse. He asked a sexual question and I answered it simple.

Go reread the question and try to wrap your brain around it.

(Vienna I agree.)

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