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High sex drive

hiya im currently frustrated because of my high sex drive! me and my bf sleep together naybe once a week but i really could do with a bit more. i know this seems really selfish but i get grumpy sometimes because i always seem to be in the mood. its also difficult because we cant have sex at my house as i share a room with sis but bf lives an hour away with no car so we have to walk :frown:

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guess this must be how a lot of guys feel?
I don't understand why a lot of people assume guys have stronger sex drives than girls.
Reply 3
Monkey_Maiden
hiya im currently frustrated because of my high sex drive! me and my bf sleep together naybe once a week but i really could do with a bit more. i know this seems really selfish but i get grumpy sometimes because i always seem to be in the mood. its also difficult because we cant have sex at my house as i share a room with sis but bf lives an hour away with no car so we have to walk :frown:

Isn't there a bus?

I have the opposite problem at the minute. I just never feel in the mood unless he really gets me in the mood - too much stress at the minute. You wanna swap for a while?
Reply 4
lynseyweth
Isn't there a bus?

I have the opposite problem at the minute. I just never feel in the mood unless he really gets me in the mood - too much stress at the minute. You wanna swap for a while?


im the same this last few weeks he is mad for it and im never in the mood cos of stress, whereas a few weeks ago it was opposite but living together its okay, but when i wasnt living with him we were at it every time we were alone together, ah the memories......
theres only 2 buses there every day and its before college ends. he always seems too tired, do you think this could coincide with starting the pill because it seems too have got "worse" so to speak since a started on it few months back
Reply 6
Monkey_Maiden
do you think this could coincide with starting the pill because it seems too have got "worse" so to speak since a started on it few months back


lucky you! I've just come off the pill after 3/4 years and it has made *such* a difference, I have the highest sex drive ever! lol! I really need to go back on it but I'm scared i'll go back to not feeling like sex again...
I dont have a massive sex drive... hmm, perhaps i could take some hormones and go out on the pull; but random getting off has never appealed to mean - it means nothing!
Reply 8
I think its the idea of it being 'new' and 'exciting', and the fact that it means nothing that makes it sexy for some people. Not that i'd know, lol....
Reply 9
Call over to my place and ill give ya all the sex ya want
Reply 10
my sex drive used to be huge........

Have sex outdoors be adventurous if you want more, and buy a vibrator or something and enjoy phone sex, when you cant see each other
Reply 11
I never used to have a high sex drive, but I think it was just because I was deprived.
Reply 12
exercise some self control woman!
Reply 13
Once a week? Lucky for some! I'm lucky if I get a shag every 6 months!
Reply 14
red_roadkill
Once a week? Lucky for some! I'm lucky if I get a shag every 6 months!


over 3 years since my last go.

cant say it really bothers me. i dont go out looking for easy people. much more important matters to attend to, like my education
Reply 15
technik
over 3 years since my last go.

cant say it really bothers me. i dont go out looking for easy people. much more important matters to attend to, like my education


Same here, really. I would never refuse sex if offered by gorgeous, tall, dark, handsome usual OMFG drops dead type, but I don't constantly go out looking for it. How tacky and naff - I hate it when people go out on "the pull" with the intention to get another conquest.
lessthanthree
haha, am I like the only person that has like, multiple sex every other day?

no! youre not. during exam time ie now, my bf and i said ok, we'll try to keep it to once a week, but oops, it seems we cant keep away from each other and its still pretty much every few days!:biggrin::redface:
lessthanthree
haha, am I like the only person that has like, multiple sex every other day?


stop gloating!

booo
Reply 18
lessthanthree
haha, am I like the only person that has like, multiple sex every other day?

Nope, but then I do have to get it when I can.
ah well, i do suppose, with fate, karma and other mystical forces working in my favour, my time shall come!