Sexual dreams...

I had a sexual dream about a girl I was kind of 'seeing' in a weird way a couple of years ago...let's just say it ended badly! I have a boyfriend now who I really love, but do you think the fact that I have sexual dreams about this girl means I still like her?

BTW: Yes, I am bisexual! :biggrin:

Reply 1

jpowell

15

Interpreting dreams is a very tricky business. They don't really mean anything in themselves as they are just your minds way of sorting out the information it processes. I wouldn't worry about it, if you love your boyfriend and you aren't having fantasies about this girl during the day then you are probally fine.

Reply 2

mctcdc0710

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SophistiCat

I had a sexual dream about a girl I was kind of 'seeing' in a weird way a couple of years ago...let's just say it ended badly! I have a boyfriend now who I really love, but do you think the fact that I have sexual dreams about this girl means I still like her?

BTW: Yes, I am bisexual! :biggrin:

Yes maybe subconciously u still find her attractive. but nothing more

Reply 3

Inverurie Jones

1

Maybe you're just horny for a bit of female company?

Reply 4

SophistiCat

OP

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Inverurie Jones

Maybe you're just horny for a bit of female company?

That would explain my bizarre Abi Titmuss fixation! :redface:

Reply 5

Ditzy

1

I don't think you can read too much into dreams (I hope not otherwise I'm one very twisted individual!!)

Maybe you were going on an old memory?

Reply 6

Lucas

yea i dream about things i would never think about doing all the time! i wouldn't pay much attention because your mind is capable of formulating the strangest combination of events when your asleep and not really conscious!

Reply 7

queenselphie

I have sexual dreams about people I dont fancy sometimes...its just your minds way of working through situations, both likely and unlikely, isnt it? Im sure it dosent mean anything too much :smile:

Reply 8

username18215

10

My friend opened Che Guevara's urn and the ashes formed his face (like on 'The Mummy'); i'm hoping its not sexual.

Reply 9

KdySk8rGirl

I have sexual dreams about loads of guys who I dont fancy when Im awake.

Reply 10

SilverWings

14

How many girls have you been with altogether??

Reply 11

Chrism

1

I was being chased through a train in one dream by Ben Affleck. I went round a corner (yeah, I know, there shouldn't be corners in a train) and when he came round he'd been replaced by Benjamin Zephaniah. I went round another corner and he became Ben Stiller.

If anyone can explain that to me, I'd be impressed

Reply 12

SophistiCat

OP

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SilverWings

How many girls have you been with altogether??

One really... and I have only been with one guy. I didn't really go 'all the way' with the girl though, she was very uptight about the whole thing, she was terrified people would think she was a lesbian! That says it all really, doesn't it!?

Reply 13

SilverWings

14

There's your problem... I guessed you were going to say only one girl... Because I was just the same... when you've only ever been with (and especially if you didn't really do much with, and it was a big secret - just like me!!) one girl its hard to forget it... especially if it made you realise a lot of things about your sexuality...

You only dreamt about her in particular because it feels wierd to imagine being like that with anyone else... sure, you'll fancy other girls, some may even be your mates but, imagine doing anything sexual with any of them and it will seem wierd... whereas you've crossed that boundry with your ex girlfriend... (and it is a hard boundry to cross - well, for most...) and so thats the only female it doesnt make you feel wierd to fantasize about...

My guess is that once you have been with two or three girls... the sexual dreams will contain girls you havnt been with... Probably because before your first experience with girls it was probably a "look but dont touch" situation... but after you get used to the fact that there is more than one girl out there you HAVE touched... your imagination can cope with fantasisng about your best mate... or that hot girl from school...

Sorry if I made no sense... Hope I helped... :biggrin:

Reply 14

SophistiCat

OP

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SilverWings

Sorry if I made no sense... Hope I helped... :biggrin:

Thank you! You made loads of sense... you're spot on actually :wink:

My only problem now is that I'm in long-term, monogomous relationship with my boyfriend. I love him so much, but I kind of feel like I'm missing out because he is the only person I have ever really slept with... the girl was very hot-cold towards me and kind of messed my head up. When I think that I could be with him all my life it feels nice because I love him, but it is sad in a way because I may never get the chance to 'experiment'.

I suppose he would have a threesome with me and another girl... :rolleyes:

Reply 15

Herleif

SophistiCat

That would explain my bizarre Abi Titmuss fixation! :redface:

worry not, that is perfectly natural :biggrin:

Reply 16

Sarah234

Chrism

I was being chased through a train in one dream by Ben Affleck. I went round a corner (yeah, I know, there shouldn't be corners in a train) and when he came round he'd been replaced by Benjamin Zephaniah. I went round another corner and he became Ben Stiller.

You seem to have a thing about the name Ben!

Reply 17

dazednconfused

SophistiCat

My only problem now is that I'm in long-term, monogomous relationship with my boyfriend. I love him so much, but I kind of feel like I'm missing out because he is the only person I have ever really slept with... When I think that I could be with him all my life it feels nice because I love him, but it is sad in a way because I may never get the chance to 'experiment'.

This is exactly how I feel, and the longer I'm with my bf, the worse it gets. It seems silly to break up with an utterly great guy for the sake of 'experimenting', but at the same time, I feel just too young to settle down... I don't know what to do :confused: